To the Escorts: What are your red flags?

[Rudynate]

What's FF? What's ripe?

 

Ripe= sweaty

 

FF= fisting

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

[geminibear]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

Get your red pencils out.

My standard introductory text:

 

"Hi, hope you are doing well? I saw your ad on [RM,M4RN]. You are very hot. You seem like the type of guy I would be very interested in meting. I am traveling to your location for business on [date]. I'm a top masculine daddy bear type guy. I prefer an overnight BF encounter. Does that sound like something you would be interested in? If so, would you be available on that date(s). What would the fee for something like that be? We can discuss further details later if your interested in meeting. Looking forward to hearing back from you. Have a great day. "

 

Corrective criticism is always appreciated.

[geminibear]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

Get your red pencils out.

My standard introductory text:

 

"Hi, hope you are doing well? I saw your ad on [RM,M4RN]. You are very hot. You seem like the type of guy I would be very interested in meting. I am traveling to your location for business on [date]. I'm a top masculine daddy bear type guy. I prefer an overnight BF encounter. Does that sound like something you would be interested in? If so, would you be available on that date(s). What would the fee for something like that be? We can discuss further details later if your interested in meeting. Looking forward to hearing back from you. Have a great day. "

 

Corrective criticism is always appreciated.

[geminibear]

My favorite clients are those who are considerate. What do you like to do/ What do you like to eat/ Any drinks? etc etc. If I feel You are treating me as a Human Being rather than Your "next" and are present...It goes a long way with me. Afterall everyone pays the same but Its nice when you meet someone who You truly can connect with.

 

I never show up empty handed. I always bring small gift. I usually try to inquire what my companion would like.

 

Sometimes it might be cheesy but I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being and not just a machine.

[geminibear]

My favorite clients are those who are considerate. What do you like to do/ What do you like to eat/ Any drinks? etc etc. If I feel You are treating me as a Human Being rather than Your "next" and are present...It goes a long way with me. Afterall everyone pays the same but Its nice when you meet someone who You truly can connect with.

 

I never show up empty handed. I always bring small gift. I usually try to inquire what my companion would like.

 

Sometimes it might be cheesy but I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being and not just a machine.

[Rudynate]

I never show up empty handed. I always bring small gift. I usually try to inquire what my companion would like.

 

Sometimes it might be cheesy but I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being and not just a machine.

Get your red pencils out.

My standard introductory text:

 

"Hi, hope you are doing well? I saw your ad on [RM,M4RN]. You are very hot. You seem like the type of guy I would be very interested in meting. I am traveling to your location for business on [date]. I'm a top masculine daddy bear type guy. I prefer an overnight BF encounter. Does that sound like something you would be interested in? If so, would you be available on that date(s). What would the fee for something like that be? We can discuss further details later if your interested in meeting. Looking forward to hearing back from you. Have a great day. "

 

Corrective criticism is always appreciated.

 

That's pretty good - I say even less:

 

"Hi X - I really like your profile on Rentmen and would enjoy meeting you. I would like to schedule a 2-hour incall one xx/xx/xxxx at 2:xxPM.

 

I'm 63 yo, 5'9, weigh 160# and am very fit.

 

I look forward to hearing from you."

 

After we've scheduled, I ask for a brief phone call, in which we discuss limits, likes, hopes for the session. This is typically a 5-10 min call.

[Rudynate]

I never show up empty handed. I always bring small gift. I usually try to inquire what my companion would like.

 

Sometimes it might be cheesy but I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being and not just a machine.

 

 

What sort of gift do you bring? I haven't ever brought a gift before, but I have one guy that's started to feel like and old friend and I want to show how much I think of him.

[geminibear]

What sort of gift do you bring? I haven't ever brought a gift before, but I have one guy that's started to feel like and old friend and I want to show how much I think of him.

It varies on each individual. Depends on how much pre meeting dialogue we have so I can get a feel for what they might like. Maybe a gift card. I have been asked for a Coach messenger bag, Burberry watch, Ray-Ban sunglasses, and other such items from the notions counter, which to their disappointment didn't happen.

[Rudynate]

It varies on each individual. Depends on how much pre meeting dialogue we have so I can get a feel for what they might like. Maybe a gift card. I have been asked for a Coach messenger bag, Burberry watch, Ray-Ban sunglasses, and other such items from the notions counter, which to their disappointment didn't happen.

 

 

I would hope not.

[geminibear]

I would hope not.

When I win the Megamillions tonight....Santa Clause is coming to town, but until then a starbucks card is probably more in the ballpark of gifts.

[RussJohnson]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

 

I do give people a pass on the "hi" or "what's up?" thing just because they might be nervous and want to make sure they are talking to the right person before going into details, but most of the time you are right.

 

Others:

*"Money is no object, I don't care how much it is!" Or they name some outrageously high price. Sorry no one, wealthy or not, treats money that way.

*Asking to meet in person or skype before setting a date.

[rguer]

When I win the Megamillions tonight....Santa Clause is coming to town, but until then a starbucks card is probably more in the ballpark of gifts.

I'm terribly sorry, but I was planning on winning the MegaMillions tonight. I'm afraid you'll have to settle for the Powerball tomorrow.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Get your red pencils out.

My standard introductory text:

 

"Hi, hope you are doing well? I saw your ad on [RM,M4RN]. You are very hot. You seem like the type of guy I would be very interested in meting. I am traveling to your location for business on [date]. I'm a top masculine daddy bear type guy. I prefer an overnight BF encounter. Does that sound like something you would be interested in? If so, would you be available on that date(s). What would the fee for something like that be? We can discuss further details later if your interested in meeting. Looking forward to hearing back from you. Have a great day. "

 

Corrective criticism is always appreciated.

 

Thanks so much for sharing that, I would feel very comfortable and trusting if I received that email from a client. I think it's great. Also, very sweet that you show up with a gift.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I do give people a pass on the "hi" or "what's up?" thing just because they might be nervous and want to make sure they are talking to the right person before going into details, but most of the time you are right.

 

Others:

*"Money is no object, I don't care how much it is!" Or they name some outrageously high price. Sorry no one, wealthy or not, treats money that way.

*Asking to meet in person or skype before setting a date.

Good additions, thanks. Yeah, forgot about the "money is not an object" one, I've gotten that a few times, never worked out. Well, one time it did, but it turned out he was a con-artist, was a CRAZY, yet thrilling weekend.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Once I have a feeling that a client is sincere about scheduling, I like to know as much about them as they like to share. I like to know what things they enjoy, what their boundaries are, what things they might want to work on or address during our session and also appreciate any questions they may have for me. To me the red flags that someone is likely wasting my time are:

 

*Calling me and talking dirty. If it starts to feel like phone sex I will tell them that I have other things to attend to and to email me when they are ready to schedule

*Asking me to send them more pics. I have plenty of pics on my website and there are hundreds more that can be found by simply googling my name

*They start there email or text with just "Hi" or "What's up?". A serious client will introduce themself and state their intent in the beginning.

*They share entirely too much, not about themselves, but unnecessary and unbelievable details like "I will be there in a couple weeks, my company is flying me in on their Leer jet." (Yes, I actually got that message)

 

These are just a few. Anyone want to add to the list?

 

I do give people a pass on the "hi" or "what's up?" thing just because they might be nervous and want to make sure they are talking to the right person before going into details, but most of the time you are right.

 

Others:

*"Money is no object, I don't care how much it is!" Or they name some outrageously high price. Sorry no one, wealthy or not, treats money that way.

*Asking to meet in person or skype before setting a date.

 

I'm with Lance on this one. Starting a text conversation with "Hi," " Hey," "Hey sexy," or "Wassup?" if we have never met has a 100% failure rate.

[killianjamesnyc]

I'm with Lance on this one. Starting a text conversation with "Hi," " Hey," "Hey sexy," or "Wassup?" if we have never met has a 100% failure rate.

 

LOL. I'm with you on this. I usually respond to "what's up" with "Nothing yet, but if you come over I'm pretty sure my dick will be up your ass." I try to make it cute. It breaks the ice without being too dismissive. I've had quite a few texts where the "what's up" turned into an actual meet up. A little humor goes a long way.

 

PS: Get well soon chris and come back to NYC to hang XXX

[BaronArtz]

I would like to know what the red flags are DURING the encounter ...

 

I had an escort tell me that one client didn't even take his shoes off, made the escort lay naked on the floor and masturbated on him. When the escort was wiping himself off, still naked and on the floor, the scumbag client ran out of the door without paying. So, not taking shoes off seems a definite red flag.

 

What are some of the other things that give you the creeps?

[mattr]

LOL. I'm with you on this. I usually respond to "what's up" with "Nothing yet, but if you come over I'm pretty sure my dick will be up your ass." I try to make it cute. It breaks the ice without being too dismissive. I've had quite a few texts where the "what's up" turned into an actual meet up. A little humor goes a long way.

 

PS: Get well soon chris and come back to NYC to hang XXX

 

Oh to have Killian's dick up my ass!!!!!

[RussJohnson]

I would like to know what the red flags are DURING the encounter ...

 

I had an escort tell me that one client didn't even take his shoes off, made the escort lay naked on the floor and masturbated on him. When the escort was wiping himself off, still naked and on the floor, the scumbag client ran out of the door without paying. So, not taking shoes off seems a definite red flag.

 

What are some of the other things that give you the creeps?

 

How weird...I've never had a session go totally wrong, I mean I've had a few where I wouldn't go back, but thats just lack of chemistry or they are just aggressive and not in a good way.

[calrichmond]

I never show up empty handed. I always bring small gift. I usually try to inquire what my companion would like.

 

Sometimes it might be cheesy but I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being and not just a machine.

God, I feel so guilty now!!! I always treat them very nicely and compliment them, but I never got a gift. I think that's really nice and sweet of you.

[MiamiLooker]

It varies on each individual. Depends on how much pre meeting dialogue we have so I can get a feel for what they might like. Maybe a gift card. I have been asked for a Coach messenger bag, Burberry watch, Ray-Ban sunglasses, and other such items from the notions counter, which to their disappointment didn't happen.

You show up with a gift because (as you say in an earlier post) “I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being...” How do you think the escort values you when you’ve “been asked for a Coach messenger bag, Burberry watch, Ray-Ban sunglasses, and other such items…” in addition to his fee? IMHO, a true professional, if asked, would always respond with ”no tip or gift is necessary.”

[geminibear]

You show up with a gift because (as you say in an earlier post) “I feel it shows that I value the guy as human being...” How do you think the escort values you when you’ve “been asked for a Coach messenger bag, Burberry watch, Ray-Ban sunglasses, and other such items…” in addition to his fee? IMHO, a true professional, if asked, would always respond with ”no tip or gift is necessary.”

If you don't ask you don't know right?

Actually it didn't bother me. I am sure a few of those requests were in jest.

I still do it because I want to. That's who I am.

[Mikegaite]

Actually it didn't bother me. I am sure a few of those requests were in jest.

I still do it because I want to. That's who I am.

 

GeminiBear, Christmas is approaching, and it will be oh so bright in [insert exotic international destination] where we are vacationing. I could really use a pair of new sunglasses, specifically the DG2027B sunglasses by Dolce & Gabana. I know the $383,000 price tag might be a little steep, but I'm worth it, and I will start a GoFundMe to help defray the cost.