What's with the (no) kissing?

[+ Gar1eth]

While kissing is important, the amount of intimacy involved in is much greater than a simple bj or anal. There are a few escorts I hire regularly that I find to do perfectly good work, who just happen not to have the kissing connection with me. I look at it as a bonus (boyfriend experience) vs a necessity (great escort experience), and always let the escort initiate it. Clients pick escorts knowing that we like what we see and immediately start fantasizing a passionate connection, they usually don't have the same luxury- so why push the issue? I don't find great service/ companionship to be hindered by the lack of a hot make out session, but if my hire is interested bring it on!

 

It all depends on what a client wants/needs from a session. As I said earlier in this thread, I've refused hiring some really hot guys because they didn't kiss. Kissing for me is part of sex just like topping or oral is. While I like to cum as much as the next guy (or maybe I don't since my libido is on the low side these days), but my preferred method to cum is while at the same time passionately kidding my partner-or my partner passionately kissing me. If I don't have that, it feels like something is missing-kind of like if I end up masturbating and cuming without being totally hard. In fact that happened yesterday-and it just wasn't that enjoyable.

 

A former frequent Forum poster used to frequently say "De gustibus non est disputandum" (in matters of taste there can be no disputes). If you don't need passionate kissing to have a good time with an escort, that's great. But some of us do. In my case I wouldn't knowingly hire an escort who didn't like to kiss anymore than I'd hire an escort who hated bottoming because that doesn't fit in with my likes.

 

Gman

[wisconsinguy]

Since I have no experience with multiple hires, I am fortunate that my regular does enjoy kissing. From the soft brushing past of each others lips, to more passionate mutual "deep" kissing. For me, kissing is a blend of emotions and sexual sensations. That kiss, after not seeing each for a time, pulls everything together for me. It's a big part that drew me to him, and one of the reasons he remains exclusive to me. WG2

[+ MasssageGuy]

My own personal preference and experience is that kissing is paired with cuddling. Without kissing and cuddling you are left with the mechanical aspects of sex/massage.

 

I'd agree with WisconsinGuy that kissing is a blend of emotions and sexual sensations. It serves as the wrapper, ribbon and bow of the entire package of the experience.

[samandtham]

I love long kissing sessions with both men and women. I can't imagine an intimate act such as having sex without locking lips at the beginning, middle, and post-coitus.

 

My most recent hire was such a good kisser that I had to rush to finish because all I wanted to do was keep kissing.

[robberbaron4u]

Location, location, location. . .

[phraughy]

I was a horrible kisser till an escort was kind and taught me how. I miss him.