Sensitive Nipples vs. "Don't Lose Control"

[+ friendofsheila]

I've seen a couple of guys in porn who "have sensitive nipples" and don't want them to be touched ("Kurt" and I think "Doug" at Sean Cody were like this). If someone does they'll giggle and recoil.

 

I think they're making it sound like their nipples are in pain if someone touches them, but I think that's a crock.

 

I think they just don't want to have their nipples licked/played with/whatever because if someone does, then they'll react in a way that will make them "lose control." They'll enjoy it a whole lot and will just be laying there gasping and happy, and NOT in control.

 

And being in control/not letting something get to you is a huge part of how men are expected to behave, including during sex.

[Zman]

Could be true. I'm one of the rare guys who has his nipples hard wired to my dick. Nipple is the most erotic thing of all. So maybe they don't want to come too fast.

[bostonman]

Could be true. I'm one of the rare guys who has his nipples hard wired to my dick. Nipple is the most erotic thing of all. So maybe they don't want to come too fast.

 

I'm not sure you're THAT rare...my nipples are also very responsive. I don't really go for rough nip play - gentle touching is enough to get me revved up - and I can easily give in to a guy who likes to take playful advantage of that weak spot. And for me, that can be fun. But yes, I can understand that a similarly-"hard wired" guy who wants to remain "in control" wound't want to tempt fate, even if it's a very sweet way to be tempted, lol.

[liubit]

You are NOT alone, Zman. My nipples are also connected to my dick....And like bostonman, I get turned on by soft nipple play, not rough pinching.

[Phil_musc]

Could be true. I'm one of the rare guys who has his nipples hard wired to my dick. Nipple is the most erotic thing of all. So maybe they don't want to come too fast.

 

I'm sure I know what you mean but this sounds funny to me - almost like you had a medical procedure in which the doctor (or some quack) used real wire to connect your pecs to your dick. Tell us, does Blue Cross pay for this kind of work? I'm sure my HMO would balk at this.

[+ Gar1eth]

I wish my nipples were wired that way. Mine are fairly inert and they definitely have no control over junior (I bet y'all thought I was going to say tallywacker, didn't y'all:):D).

 

Gman

[dcguy20]

Mine are - nope, nope, NOPE. They're sensitive and not in a good way.

[whipped guy]

Well it should be no surprise that my nips love it all from mild to wild... from the gates of Heaven to the gates of Hell! Either way it is sure bliss!

Along those lines I love giving as much as receiving. In fact nips are my favorite thing to suck. Accordingly I can see how it would make a guy cum before his time...

 

Consequently it always figures in as a significant part of the culminating dénouement during a play session.

 

Even on the rare occasions where I go for a massage I bring my special Japanese clover clamps to make the "happy ending" just a wee bit happier!

 

PS: If any of you have not checked out the "Hot Wired" thread in the Fetish Forum it more than covers all possibilities! I know that many guys (and gals) don't ever go there... Give it a shot, you might just enjoy what you see!

[Diverdan]

I used to see a masseur in SF who was definitely hot wired. He could get hard and cum by just having his nips worked on without ever touching "junior"... or what ever term you want to use. I on the other hand have no connection between the two whatsoever, and have met a lot of guys in a similar situation. So enjoy what you have and make the best of your wiring !!!

[+ sync]

I was oblivious to any sensation for many years, then an escort, with no prompting, went to work on them. Now I can't turn them off.

[+ Axiom2001]

Could be true. I'm one of the rare guys who has his nipples hard wired to my dick. Nipple is the most erotic thing of all. So maybe they don't want to come too fast.

 

I'm with you, Zman! My nips are highly sensitive to touch, and when they are being "pleasured," I rise very hard to the occasion! Recently, I have come to like very hard play, even light biting! Haven't come around to having "my twins" clamped!

[Zman]

I'm glad to run into other nipple play lovers. Yes, I'm a softie. I like gentle stroking and rubbing. Sometimes I ask for nipple play and guys get the wrong idea and start pinching or--worse--chomping down on them like they're attached to a turkey leg at a Medieval Times Restaurant.

 

While mine are hard wired to my dick, it doesn't make me come right away. I love long, long sessions of nipple play. Hours even:p. And, when I'm hiring, it's a service I look for the escort to provide. I'm sure I send some of home with cramping fingers from pleasuring the nips.

[wisconsinguy]

Well it should be no surprise that my nips love it all from mild to wild... from the gates of Heaven to the gates of Hell! Either way it is sure bliss!

Along those lines I love giving as much as receiving. In fact nips are my favorite thing to suck. Accordingly I can see how it would make a guy cum before his time...

 

Consequently it always figures in as a significant part of the culminating dénouement during a play session.

 

Even on the rare occasions where I go for a massage I bring my special Japanese clover clamps to make the "happy ending" just a wee bit happier!

 

PS: If any of you have not checked out the "Hot Wired" thread in the Fetish Forum it more than covers all possibilities! I know that many guys (and gals) don't ever go there... Give it a shot, you might just enjoy what you see!

Well, I do have sensitive nippers. I would love to have them hot wired to "junior." When I was married, my ex would attempt to tweak them, and I would say, "stop that hurts!" WELL, I did find out, with some gentle guidance and encouragement that having them kissed and sucked gently, at first, can be quite stimulating. Also, led to the use of clamps. Never would have thunk it! I do get great pleasure out of being the giver as well. The "Hot Wired" thread is great regarding all possibilities. WG2

[Lankypeters]

My nips are so sensitive I've decided I have three dicks.

[mike carey]

My nips are so sensitive I've decided I have three dicks.

Could three dicks come and visit me??

[Lankypeters]

Could three dicks come and visit me??

I'd need three plane tickets.

[+ Gar1eth]

My nips are so sensitive I've decided I have three dicks.

I thought you were going to say that you had a third nipple implanted.

 

True story- my cousin is a nurse. Back in the '70's she worked at a hospital in Dallas. She said that one of the Dallas Cowboys who was doing t-shirt commercials had his nipples removed so they wouldn't make indentations in the shirts.

 

Gman

[bostonman]

True story- my cousin is a nurse. Back in the '70's she worked at a hospital in Dallas. She said that one of the Dallas Cowboys who was doing t-shirt commercials had his nipples removed so they wouldn't make indentations in the shirts.

 

I can't imagine how weird that must have looked when he had his shirt off.

 

That said, I'm sure there are plenty of straight men who enjoy a visible outline of a woman's nipples through her clothes - but I do wonder if some men do feel self-conscious when they notice that their own nipples stick out like that. I think it's amazingly sexy to see that, though.

[+ poolboy48220]

There was a bit on "Friends" - Chandler was wearing a white dress shirt and asked "Can you see my nipples through this shirt?" One of the women answered "No, but I'm sure they're still there".

[+ Gar1eth]

I can't imagine how weird that must have looked when he had his shirt off.

 

That said, I'm sure there are plenty of straight men who enjoy a visible outline of a woman's nipples through her clothes

 

I'm sure many of them love it. I mean I know I've been around guys mentioning it in my younger days.

 

- but I do wonder if some men do feel self-conscious when they notice that their own nipples stick out like that. I think it's amazingly sexy to see that' date=' though.[/quote']

 

I for one!!!

 

Gman

[+ quoththeraven]

That said, I'm sure there are plenty of straight men who enjoy a visible outline of a woman's nipples through her clothes

 

I can affirm that many men who are attracted to women enjoy seeing visible nipple outlines.

 

Hey, it's not as though the world is divided into straight and gay/lesbian.

[Lankypeters]

I wonder if some men wear "pasties." Do actors wear them in films?

[Racketjock]

Nothing better than a man with nice, suckable nips and a hairy chest. Love to have mine played with and it does affect the volume and distance of ejaculate for me.

[+ Gar1eth]

Nothing better than a man with nice, suckable nips and a hairy chest. Love to have mine played with and it does affect the volume and distance of ejaculate for me.

 

I do like sucking on them. It's too bad you can't really train them for most of us whose nips aren't connected to our tallywackers. I've met multiple escorts over the years with great nips, but while they don't mind them being sucked, they aren't particularly sensitive.

 

Gman

[+ Oliver]

I've seen a couple of guys in porn who "have sensitive nipples" ... ("Kurt" and I think "Doug" at Sean Cody were like this) ... enjoy it a whole lot and will just be laying there gasping and happy, and NOT in control ...

 

Especially true of "Grant" at Sean Cody, in a scene with "Ashton" (http://www.seancody.com/?frame=movie&movie=1511)