Do most clients look like their review say?

[terp]

I am an average looking guy not a gym guy. I feel intimated to get an escort because they look so hot and a lot of the reviews make themselves sound great. Can an average guys be a turn on or does everyone want a clone?

[+ Gar1eth]

The hallmark of a good escort is that they can perform with the majority of clients. Some obviously can get turned on by many types of guys-some can't. But performing satisfactorily with a client doesn't mean that they are necessarily turned on by the client. However that doesn't mean they can't be turned on by the situation with a client.

 

I mean I'm a totally unattractive guy. But the majority of escorts have been able to have erections with me. Now obviously in most of many cases they have had the help of Viagra or the like-but those can only help. If they were totally turned off by what we were doing together , Viagra wouldn't be much help. So if you are average as you say, you are probably ahead of the game regarding the types of clients escorts often get. Don't worry so much. The point is not so much whether the escort is into you. But for the two of you to find mutually enjoyable activities in your time together.

 

Gman

[terp]

Thanks for your input.

[+ Gar1eth]

Sent you a Conversation.

 

Gman

[+ stevenkesslar]

I feel intimated to get an escort because they look so hot and a lot of the reviews make themselves sound great.

 

Actually, your language here is a little off, and can be taken two ways, and the difference in interpretation is the answer to your question.

 

Reviews that say that escorts view themselves as "all that" probably should be taken as a warning that you might be intimidated well after the appointment begins, because the escort feels he is God's gift. Unless you are paying to worship them, which is perfectly fine, be careful.

 

Reviews that make escorts sound great in their client's opinions, because they demonstrate humility despite good looks, sexual prowess, or whatever else you might find appealing about them, should be taken exactly the opposite way. Such reviews suggest the escort knows how to help you get over feeling intimidated and have fun exploring.

 

I note you are from DC. Rumors about him notwithstanding, I find Chris Eisenhower to be highly approachable, and literally warm and fuzzy. Not that I would know, because the only time we had sex was apparently when I was asleep.

 

In my neck of the woods, JD Daniels, Dane Scott, Alec Andrews, and Ryan Thick all match up in the "humility" category, even though they are all very sexy. Not that I've ever had sex with any of them, because I'm so fucking intimidated by them, but I hope I'll get up the courage to do so someday.

[+ Gar1eth]

Actually, your language here is a little off, and can be taken two ways, and the difference in interpretation is the answer to your question.

 

Reviews that say that escorts view themselves as "all that" probably should be taken as a warning that you might be intimidated well after the appointment begins, because the escort feels he is God's gift. Unless you are paying to worship them, which is perfectly fine, be careful.

 

Reviews that make escorts sound great in their client's opinions, because they demonstrate humility despite good looks, sexual prowess, or whatever else you might find appealing about them, should be taken exactly the opposite way. Such reviews suggest the escort knows how to help you get over feeling intimidated and have fun exploring.

 

I note you are from DC. Rumors about him notwithstanding, I find Chris Eisenhower to be highly approachable, and literally warm and fuzzy. Not that I would know, because the only time we had sex was apparently when I was asleep.

 

In my neck of the woods, JD Daniels, Dane Scott, Alec Andrews, and Ryan Thick all match up in the "humility" category, even though they are all very sexy. Not that I've ever had sex with any of them, because I'm so fucking intimidated by them, but I hope I'll get up the courage to do so someday.

 

 

Steve,

 

I was a little confused by the Title Of This Thread. But unless Terp-worded it wrong- I think he was wondering on the reviews when the Review-er describes himself-ie the Review-er being in good shape whether they really were or not. That would go along with him wondering whether escorts can be 'into' average looking non-gym G*d clients.

 

Gman

[terp]

Actually, your language here is a little off, and can be taken two ways, and the difference in interpretation is the answer to your question.

 

Reviews that say that escorts view themselves as "all that" probably should be taken as a warning that you might be intimidated well after the appointment begins, because the escort feels he is God's gift. Unless you are paying to worship them, which is perfectly fine, be careful.

 

Reviews that make escorts sound great in their client's opinions, because they demonstrate humility despite good looks, sexual prowess, or whatever else you might find appealing about them, should be taken exactly the opposite way. Such reviews suggest the escort knows how to help you get over feeling intimidated and have fun exploring.

 

I note you are from DC. Rumors about him notwithstanding, I find Chris Eisenhower to be highly approachable, and literally warm and fuzzy. Not that I would know, because the only time we had sex was apparently when I was asleep.

 

In my neck of the woods, JD Daniels, Dane Scott, Alec Andrews, and Ryan Thick all match up in the "humility" category, even though they are all very sexy. Not that I've ever had sex with any of them, because I'm so fucking intimidated by them, but I hope I'll get up the courage to do so someday.

I am sure most escorts are hot as hell. I meant the reviewers/clients that hire them say they have gym bodies and are great looking.

[+ stevenkesslar]

I meant the reviewers/clients that hire them say they have gym bodies and are great looking.

 

Yup, got that. You are asking about clients who are "average looking," in your words, and do not look like "clones" of the escorts they hire.

 

That's what I thought you meant when I drafted my reply.

[big-n-tall]

If you're interested... go for it. I am in no way consider myself ugly. I think I'm cute. Some say boarding on handsome, but cute definitely. I'm definitely no built Adonis. When I first started this hobby, as some call it, yeah I was hella intimated. But you know what, I got over that quickly because of the fun that can be had. And sometimes the lasting friendships that can be made from regular encounters.

 

Anyway, as has been stated, a good escort can find something appealing about anyone. You may be surprised by this, but some escorts are just as nervous meeting clients (even ones they know). We all have our insecurities... including the beautiful people. Besides, you may encounter an incredibly hot guy/escort and just click. Click to the point the guy may be more into you or the experience, than you know. Trust me you'll be amazed by what could happen if you let go and give in to the situation.

 

Don't ever sell yourself short... self doubt is a killer.

[+ poolboy48220]

I honestly don't remember how I've described myself in my reviews, but if I didn't say chubby (more than a 'few' extra pounds) guy in his 50's going gray, I should kick myself. But at least I've still got my hair :-P

 

I've rarely encountered an escort visibly put off by me. Most don't ask. If they ask I'm frank. If they ask for pics, I pass.

[+ Gar1eth]

I honestly don't remember how I've described myself in my reviews, but if I didn't say chubby (more than a 'few' extra pounds) guy in his 50's going gray, I should kick myself. But at least I've still got my hair

 

Thank gosh I've still got my hair too. Unfortunately it's located everywhere but my head.

 

I've rarely encountered an escort visibly put off by me. Most don't ask. If they ask I'm frank. If they ask for pics' date=' I pass.[/quote']

 

I'm sure they have no reason to be put off by you, PB. With me on the other hand, I've always been impressed how they totally ignore that eye of mine in the middle of my forehead.

 

Gman

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm sure they have no reason to be put off by you, PB. With me on the other hand, I've always been impressed how they totally ignore that eye of mine in the middle of my forehead.

 

Gman

Pity the hair's gone or you could do a combover to hide the eye.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've never been off put by looks, but always always have good hygiene. Always shower before or on a sweaty day ask to have one. If uncut please pull all the way back and scrub

Scrub? Or gently massage with a nice soap product?

[terp]

I've never been off put by looks, but always always have good hygiene. Always shower before, or on a sweaty day ask to have one. If uncut please pull all the way back and scrub

No problem. Always wondered do you guys wax your butts or shave? Always look perfect.

[Mocha]

I've never been off put by looks, but always always have good hygiene. If uncut please pull all the way back and scrub

 

There's a thing call phimosis, where pulling the foreskin all the way back would be akin to getting fucked for the first time....by their own dick, on the dick. Very painful.

 

However, it's not really a disease, just something that has to be worked and stretched. It took me months. I never knew it was abnormal to not pull back until I started meeting uncut guys who could pull all the way back.

 

I met a guy a couple months ago who wanted me to suck his phimosis dick. Let's just say, I ran. I ran so far away. And I ran, I ran all night and day. Because it just wasn't clean. And being uncut myself, that was just a little too much.

[instudiocity]

Most of my escorts tell me I'm cute, funny, and fun to be around.

 

I'm not pretty, have white hair, a belly (there's an 8 pack in there somewhere), could be their father, and they don't seem to mind

[ZhenXBear]

Well, I've got hair, it's brown , blue eyes, I've lost 28 pounds since I started this road and fulling intend to get to my old weight. People said I looked like a young Tom Hanks in my 20s and when I was lifting all the time in my 30s I was told I looked like Henry Rollin! Became a bit weird though.

 

Now days bundled into this extra weight I'm just me I was intimidated at first but not now: he did am amazing job of tenderly raising my comfort level until I could feel okay with me being shirtless against him

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm sure they have no reason to be put off by you, PB. With me on the other hand, I've always been impressed how they totally ignore that eye of mine in the middle of my forehead.

 

Gman

 

Pity the hair's gone or you could do a combover to hide the eye.

 

Don't I just know it.

 

Gman

[thickornotatall]

There's a thing call phimosis, where pulling the foreskin all the way back would be akin to getting fucked for the first time....by their own dick, on the dick. Very painful.

 

However, it's not really a disease, just something that has to be worked and stretched. It took me months. I never knew it was abnormal to not pull back until I started meeting uncut guys who could pull all the way back.

 

I met a guy a couple months ago who wanted me to suck his phimosis dick. Let's just say, I ran. I ran so far away. And I ran, I ran all night and day. Because it just wasn't clean. And being uncut myself, that was just a little too much.

I met a very handsome man inCentral Park....we walked back to my apartment....he asked to wash up....but I guess he forgot to clean under the skin..the ripeness made me gag....from the odor...there was a clear shiny liquid oozing from the head..he said pre-cum....I said pre-go....still gagging thinking about that...

[ZhenXBear]

I met a very handsome man inCentral Park....we walked back to my apartment....he asked to wash up....but I guess he forgot to clean under the skin..the ripeness made me gag....from the odor...there was a clear shiny liquid oozing from the head..he said pre-cum....I said pre-go....still gagging thinking about that...

:eek:

[Rudynate]

One of the reasons to hire an escort is that payment levels the playing field. Because you're paying an escort, you're not supposed to have to worry about your looks, even if he looks like Adonis. In fact, one of the things you're paying for is for him to help you feel desired/desirable no matter what you look like. I guess I have been lucky in hiring, but I have never been asked, in advance, by someone I was considering hiring, about my looks or to provide a picture. If someone did, that would immediately disqualify him for me because it would violate a fundamental rule of the client/escort relationship and I would view it as being unprofessional.

 

I think an escort, if he has any limitations as to size, age, appearance, ethnicity, etc. should be very forthcoming with them.

[ZhenXBear]

One of the reasons to hire an escort is that payment levels the playing field. Because you're paying an escort, you're not supposed to have to worry about your looks, even if he looks like Adonis. In fact, one of the things you're paying for is for him to help you feel desired/desirable no matter what you look like. I guess I have been lucky in hiring, but I have never been asked, in advance, by someone I was considering hiring, about my looks or to provide a picture. If someone did, that would immediately disqualify him for me because it would violate a fundamental rule of the client/escort relationship and I would view it as being unprofessional.

 

I think an escort, if he has any limitations as to size, age, appearance, ethnicity, etc. should be very forthcoming with them.

 

 

Oh, I agree that any Escort that has reservations should be forthcoming, but for some clients (myself included) the Escort could perform flawlessly in this department and it could still be an issue.

 

People who are self conscious about their appearance sometimes view themselves negatively in physical appearance, even more so than others would. This could be due to any number of experiences in life from rejection to traumatic experience. Oftentimes, the clients own mental limitations are the barrier.

 

In reality that client might be better looking than the escort's average clientele or weigh less than the escorts heaviest client. The perception of self is powerful but a patient, caring companion can navigate those obstacles and belay those insecurities in time.

[Walker1]

I recently wrote to a masseur while traveling. He asked me to send him my stats-height, wt etc. I laughed, but didn't reply.

[ZhenXBear]

I recently wrote to a masseur while traveling. He asked me to send him my stats-height, wt etc. I laughed, but didn't reply.

 

[Steven_Draker]

I am an average looking guy not a gym guy. I feel intimated to get an escort because they look so hot and a lot of the reviews make themselves sound great. Can an average guys be a turn on or does everyone want a clone?

 

Terp, I can understand your apprehension, if you're new to hiring.

 

Most "professional" escorts wouldn't mind how you look, but how you treat them. It's all about attitude and the interest you put in the session and your escort. Your looks is the last thing you should worry about.