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He's bisexual, not straight, which is in the Rentboy profile you linked to. There was a time when I watched a lot of scenes with Defendi in it; he's versatile, at least onscreen. (I forgot to check that when I looked at the profile.)

 

As for rates, I remember seeing $400/hr. mentioned/quoted somewhere, so a session with him ain't cheap. Before I found this site, Defendi was the only bisexual escort I knew of, but at that rate and living on the other coast, it was out of the question. That's assuming he sees women as clients. Not all bisexual escorts do.

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I would double check to see what his current look is, and if it is to your liking I think he is VERY hot, either cleanshaven or with a trimmed beard ... and on a couple of websites lately, he seems to have been aiming for the "lumbersexual" look, with a long, scraggly, unkempt beard, which is a total turnoff for me. (He has one photo in his ad with a longish beard, but I've seen images with it much longer. Ugh ... IMHO.

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He has a girl friend that he has to check with before he scheduleds. I would PM you but I don't know how with the new format.

 

OK, gotcha, but that makes it a relationship issue, not an orientation issue. Possibly even a scheduling issue -- most guys I know have no idea what their and their significant others' calendar is even if they've been told three times. Sometimes even when they were just told five minutes ago! (Personal experience.)

 

As for PMing: Find conversations on the menu and start one there. Once you get used to it, it's much easier than the earlier format. No hunting through the index for user names, just start typing it in and it pops up. "Start a conversation with you" sounds really ridiculous; I'm going to continue to call it "sending a PM" even though that's not what it's called now.

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He has a girl friend that he has to check with before he scheduleds. I would PM you but I don't know how with the new format.

 

Hi Edward. Click on "quoththeraven" under her avatar in any of her posts and an oblong box will pop up. Among the choices available there is a link "Start a Conversation." Click on it and you will be taken to a blank mail form. Title it and tab down to the next section to type the text of your new PM. After it is to your liking, click the button at the bottom that says "Start a Conversation." Hope that helps.

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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I've heard from two reliable sources that Defendi is great looking, has a huge dick, and is fantastic in the sack, but that interactions with him tend to be very business-like... i.e. not a lot of small talk and not much of a personal connection beyond the sex - he there's to perform a service, he performs it (very well), and then he's out of there. I hear he is a bit of a party boy, is definitely bi, and as of last fall was charging the unofficial A-list porn star rate ($400/hr.).

 

That's about what I would expect: you're paying to have sex with him (I assume he tops most, if not all, times) and to be able to boast about it afterward. You're not there for a BFE or anything like what an escort who was not also a top porn star would offer.

 

For whatever reason, Men.com had a contest to find a fan who wanted the Tommy Defendi experience. The guy who won had to lube up twice; that's how big Defendi is. Defendi was personable but not personal, and threw a great but near-brutal fuck. That probably comes close to exemplifying what one would experience on a hire.

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is there anywhere we can see this on film, assuming thats how you can give the description of it?

 

Sorry, horntywells; I saw this and forgot to respond. There is if you're a subscriber to Men.com. That's assuming the video is still on the site. I don't know if it's on any tube sites. You'd need to do your own search for that.

 

The fan is French-speaking. I don't remember if he's French-Canadian, French, or Belgian.

 

On the Men.com site, search for Tommy Defendi. It's not a BTS (behind the scenes video); I think the title had something to do with number one fan or fan contest. But it's been awhile since I saw it.

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