How Do I Find a Friendly, Discrete, Non Judgemental Escort for Travel

[rocky]

Happy New Year to all. Some of you may be aware that I've been linked to an escort for over 15 years and we travel well together. But I want to find some escorts who like to travel, are not judgemental, are not expecting an extra ordinary amount of compensation (I pay for everything on cruise) and not sex every day but someone to be with me. I don't know where to look. I was lucky to hook up with the one I'm with but I have travel plans not within his schedule. It's amazing when I hear of men my age (60, pudgy) who are traveling with younger men without hesitation. I also know of someone local in upstate NY who travels with many different escorts from Montreal to down south. How do I get connected to those? Of course I want to be safe, but looking for fun men..am I reaching to areas I should not?

[BigK]

Have you considered asking the escort you've been traveling with over 15 years for a recommendation?

[adriano46]

Rocky, the description you wrote would be enticing to some -- perhaps there is a way to write it a bit more succinctly as an "ad" and give parameters (time span, cruise destination etc... and [noting what is written in other areas] whether you expect him to be exclusively YOURS or he can mix and mingle in free time [e.g. often when I am traveling for a length of time with a guy, we work out in advance "free time" where we are not joined at the hip, where I can do things that only interest me (and vice versa) and where he can do gym, exercise, sightsee and even meet up with interesting guys].

 

Some escorts love to travel and are willing to work out a special fee for long-term travel under such conditions. Good luck. (It also helps to describe a "type" of guy you like and as Big K mentioned, ask the escort who traveled with you in the past for his own recommendations as he knows you and your likes and dislikes.

[armadillo]

Rocky, no judgement here, but you seem to be a broken record.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?99900-Looking-for-Nice-Travel-Companion&p=919595#post919595

 

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I know someone will say post this on another forum section but thought I'd try here first. I'm looking for a you, masculine travel companion for a cruise or other vacation activities. I pay a "stipend" for the week plus and all expenses. But I've been traveling with someone for a number of years who is only available at certain times. Now I'd like to travel at my schedule, i.e. September. Question; is there somewhere you go to find male travel companions who will treat you well? I know a person who picked up several in Montreal for cruise visits but I'm not comfortable not knowing someone. Thanks

[+ purplekow]

Really 6 months later and you dig it up and bring it up. The man is looking for advice again, so what. Perhaps he did not find anyone or the guy he found can not make it. How about a bit of tolerance. As an aside, as the man who started the Broken Record thread, I appreciate to holler back.

[armadillo]

Actually, my response was to be a 'tie-in' to the 'broken record - drop a dime' thread.

And I did say no judgements in my post, maybe just a bump-up of the old thread would have been sufficient?

[natmas02]

So, that weird drama aside, If I were you I would "shop" around with other escorts before I take them on trips with me. Spend a couple of sessions with an escort that you find that you like and then discuss vacationing plans. I think a cruise (which is a minimum of a week?) is a LONG time to spend with someone you do not know right off the bat. There's plenty of great escorts in New York - Nick Sterling for one, is great to travel with - but you're not going to have a good time if you and the escort don't have some sort of chemistry or a background of understanding.

[down_to_business]

Do not go on a cruise with an escort you don't know well.

 

Do not go on a cruise with an escort you do know well.

 

That's a lot of time to be trapped with someone in a very small space. From my own experiences 3 times, different people, different circumstances, and the best result was a C-.

[Guest countryboywny]

It's amazing when I hear of men my age (60, pudgy) who are traveling with younger men without hesitation. I also know of someone local in upstate NY who travels with many different escorts from Montreal to down south. How do I get connected to those? Of course I want to be safe, but looking for fun men..am I reaching to areas I should not?

 

Rocky,

Men OUR age often travel with younger men if it is our desire. This is how escorts make their money. There are a lot of escorts who specialize in longer travel bookings.. kind of a specialty.

As far as getting connected with escorts outside your location, it's as easy as a friendly, respectful email, a hire and if all goes well, you're in.

Two of the escorts I see most often are located in different parts of the country from me. (I'm in upstate NY too.) They are used to traveling to me, the expense is pretty minimal (the cost of a flight) and I've been fortunate to have met them.

 

Check your PM's.

[+ bigjoey]

Wonderful success in cruising with escorts. However, they have been men that I have known from previous hires and we got along well. Doing it again this summer. My advice is to hire the escort for short visits first and if you get along, then try the longer trips.

[+ Gar1eth]

Also if we knew what type of guy you are looking for, we maybe could post some suggestions for you to contact.

 

Gman

[robberbaron4u]

Adam Michaels fits the bill. . .

[rguer]

Do not go on a cruise with an escort you don't know well.

 

Do not go on a cruise with an escort you do know well.

 

That's a lot of time to be trapped with someone in a very small space. From my own experiences 3 times, different people, different circumstances, and the best result was a C-.

 

I'm curious what kind of cabins you were in. I don't think it would be much of a problem in a balcony cabin, and not a problem at all in a two room suite. On the other hand, I'm not sure there's ever been anyone I would have been able to travel with in a small inside cabin.

 

Did you try to spend all of your time together on those three occasions? Sending him off to a day at the spa might help.

 

There was a thread a while back in which someone described a disastrous cruise where the escort decided to ignore the client and spend all his time with a couple of young gay passengers. I don't know how you could be sure to avoid that if you travel with someone you don't know well.

[+ bigjoey]

My trips that all worked out well were in two room suites (sometimes with two bathrooms). The ships should have a good gym, too. If it is a large ship, there are usually activities or locations (library) where one can go for some free time on ones own. All the cabins had a balcony as well for another "get away" space to do some reading or relaxing.

 

Even when hiring for a weekend at home, I always allow for some time apart and being on a cruise is no different.

[adriano46]

My experience on a cruise (with a good friend, not with an escort) was that the space was indeed small and close. This was a friend I know well, and often we travel together and so there was only a tinge of "cabin fever." I do agree that if I ever splurged to take an escort on a cruise, it would be someone who I have been with on multiple occasions (and one with whom I have dined, toured around, relaxed with and in general been with morning, noon, evening AND night [not necessarily ALL at once, but on a cruise you do see each other at all times].

 

There are some guys I am with for short-term; others I can be with for multiple hours (dinner and show; lunch and touring; breakfast and shopping... you get the idea). BUT I have learned there are very few with whom I am comfortable sharing a bed overnight (either I do not sleep comfortably; or I snore, or he snores, or we both snore, or he is Mr Grumps in the A.M. when I am an early riser; or he has certain bedtime habits I find... well.... ). If I did decide to bring a guy on a cruise, I would probably be more comfortable with the two-room suite approach, but would also agree ahead of time when and if he had not only time off from me, but when he might play with others (so no misunderstandings).

 

My preference for longer than overnight encounters is for more wide-open spaces (gentlemen, minds out of the gutter for a minute), large hotel room with either opportunities for private time (e.g. I always consider his time at a gym, shopping alone, even occasional meals separately if he so wants). I know and recognize that I am paying for his "time" but even so, any normal person - outside of those in a deeply loving relationship - needs private personal time.