Recommendations for a NY escort for a virgin

[mattr]

I am a man in his mid-50's who is a virgin, 5'9, and 165lbs. I am looking for an escort who will show me the ropes, so to speak. I am not sure how far I would go but would like someone versatile so there are options. Passionate kissing is extremely important and so is patience and someone who could provide a masculine intimate seductive bf experience. I prefer well built masculine men more than twinks or effeminate men. White, Black, Latin is fine but not attracted to Asian men. It could be someone who is based in NY or someone who is traveling to NY in the next couple of months. Responses for escorts are fine if you think you know someone or you think you are a good fit for me.

[Treehorn]

You should give Adam/simply adam a try. http://simplyadam.com (reviews under Adam Simply on Daddy's site). Very warm guy, very sensual, and very good talented at making one comfortable. Doing a massage/escort combo night be a great way to approach your first time and explore options and comfort levels.

[+ Gar1eth]

My choice would be Arek. My understanding is that he isn't running ads anymore but is still seeing clients. He is a great guy. While I wasn't a virgin when I met him, I think he would be great for someone's first male to male experience. He is very friendly, built, large tallywacker, and a great kisser!!!

 

Here is the link to all his reviews on Daddys.

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/newest/arek_nyc

 

Gman

[+ purplekow]

If he is coming to NYC Tyger B based out of Portland would be a great choice as would Legendary Dave. Neither of them would qualify as a twink and as they are closer to your age, you may feel more comfortable than you might with a twenty something Adonis. They are both very experienced, intelligent versatile and very patient and both are willing to talk with you prior to an encounter. Speaking with them may make it so tyou feel more that you are meeting with someone you know rather than a stranger.

Matty are you a total virgin or have you been with women and are now considering men? Both Dave and Tyger escort for men and women and that may make them more relatable to you.

Take your time. Choose cafefully and relax, if you have come this far, you are ready to go further.

[+ bigjoey]

Arek would be a great choice. He has a warm, caring and comforting personality that you would find encouraging.

 

Congratulations on a step forward.

[bobchitown]

Frank for a combination massage/escort session is another option.

[bdcjskm]

As someone who also "started" in his 50's and has been with The Legendary Dave (based in DC) on several occasions, I would echo the comment made earlier that he would be a great introduction. He is not only talented, but sensitive to any and all insecurities you may have. He will, immediately, put you at ease and give you the confidence you desire to enjoy and explore. I trust this will just be a great beginning for you. Keep this site as a basis for making other good choices down the road. Essential....

[+ azdr0710]

all good comments here, matty, and I'm sure all the recommended guys would be excellent....I'm going to also suggest Legendary Dave for a first time meeting because his intuition and savvy knowledge impressed me - good qualities for a first-timer....the comments by purplekow above are very good, by the way.....

[+ Gar1eth]

Frank for a combination massage/escort session is another option.

 

From what I remember, Frank doesn't kiss.(self-reported by him when I inquired years ago). So if that is important to you, and I'm so glad my first hire liked passionate kissing and taught me how, he's not the one for you.

 

Gman

[bobchitown]

From what I remember, Frank doesn't kiss.(self-reported by him when I inquired years ago). So if that is important to you, and I'm so glad my first hire liked passionate kissing and taught me how, he's not the one for you.

 

Gman

 

True, and I sort of sped-read the OP the first time. Frank does not kiss, the most you'll get is a peck, but I've forgiven that since he's hot as fuck in other ways.

[mattr]

Thanks guys... keep em coming... You have given me lots to think about.

[mattr]

Just wanted to update you guys that i finally took the plunge. It was an awesome experience and the escort was kind, calming, and incredibly sexy. I did way more than I thought I would do on the first go round, making out, sucking, getting sucked, rimming, getting rimmed, and getting fucked. The only thing I did not experience was fucking and that was because the escort felt my cock was too fat and could due damage. I want everyone to understand that he did this in the most honest and respectful way and it did not diminish the experience at all. I am looking forward to seeing him again as soon as my finances permit because the experience was that good. At some point though, I do want to top and I am wondering how to proceed. Any suggestions on that front?

[tsgarp]

Congratulations. Delighted for you. I am sure many will chime in with ideas of guys who can handle bigger boys like yourself.

[+ bigjoey]

Please write a review of your first experience. Thank you.

[+ azdr0710]

Please write a review of your first experience. Thank you.

 

yes, a review could really help others in the same situation...and here's the link!

 

http://daddysreviews.com/submit

[+ Gar1eth]

Just wanted to update you guys that i finally took the plunge. It was an awesome experience and the escort was kind, calming, and incredibly sexy. I did way more than I thought I would do on the first go round, making out, sucking, getting sucked, rimming, getting rimmed, and getting fucked. The only thing I did not experience was fucking and that was because the escort felt my cock was too fat and could due damage. I want everyone to understand that he did this in the most honest and respectful way and it did not diminish the experience at all. I am looking forward to seeing him again as soon as my finances permit because the experience was that good. At some point though, I do want to top and I am wondering how to proceed. Any suggestions on that front?

 

While I am under-endowed lengthwise, my (only) saving grace is that I am slightly thicker than average. I'm not talking coke can or porn star thick- just no one could ever claim I had a pencil thin tallywacker. So normally-especially with escorts that I haven't been sure really like to bottom (some versatile or versatile-top guys-sometimes in their ads seem to stress topping)-I tell them ahead of time about me being thick. And while I've not usually sent pictures of my face to escorts, if I've wanted to be sure they are ok with me, I've sometimes sent some pictures either by text or email of my tallywacker. Put something else like a coke can or tube of toothpaste in the picture for a size reference.

 

But it all starts with the discussion with the escort before you meet when you describe what type of experience you'd like.

 

Another suggestion is to pick a well-reviewed guy who likes to bottom. One suggestion might be Arek

 

He's a versatile top. He's never had problems with me. And he's really a nice guy.

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/search/Active/Arek/arek_nyc

 

Gman

[rvwnsd]

Just wanted to update you guys that i finally took the plunge. It was an awesome experience and the escort was kind, calming, and incredibly sexy. I did way more than I thought I would do on the first go round, making out, sucking, getting sucked, rimming, getting rimmed, and getting fucked...

 

That is great! Good for you!!!

 

...The only thing I did not experience was fucking and that was because the escort felt my cock was too fat and could due damage. I want everyone to understand that he did this in the most honest and respectful way and it did not diminish the experience at all...

 

I'm glad the escort approached that topic in a respectful manner. However, I think most guys receiving the news that their cock was just too thick to handle would take it well, no matter how it was delivered.

 

...I am looking forward to seeing him again as soon as my finances permit because the experience was that good. At some point though, I do want to top and I am wondering how to proceed. Any suggestions on that front?

 

Not living in New York, I can't provide suggestions on specific escorts. However, I think you should measure the length and circumference of your erect cock. When you hire a guy, explain that another escort was not able to accommodate your size, give him the measurements, and ask him whether he could accommodate you.

[Lewis H]

Just wanted to update you guys that i finally took the plunge. It was an awesome experience and the escort was kind, calming, and incredibly sexy. I did way more than I thought I would do on the first go round, making out, sucking, getting sucked, rimming, getting rimmed, and getting fucked. The only thing I did not experience was fucking and that was because the escort felt my cock was too fat and could due damage. I want everyone to understand that he did this in the most honest and respectful way and it did not diminish the experience at all. I am looking forward to seeing him again as soon as my finances permit because the experience was that good. At some point though, I do want to top and I am wondering how to proceed. Any suggestions on that front?

 

Which escort did you end up hiring?

[mattr]

I hired Simply Adam and he was fantastic. I did write a review but it may take a while to be published given Daddy's policies.

[+ Gar1eth]

I hired Simply Adam and he was fantastic. I did write a review but it may take a while to be published given Daddy's policies.

 

I'm surprised Adam wasn't able to bottom for you. He's experienced enough that I would have thought he could handle most guys. I'm going to have to assume from this that you are 'blessed'.

 

Gman

[+ SimplyAdam]

"Mattr" will have plenty of admirers, as much for his massively fat cock as for being a tremendously sweet guy - and we had a good talk about the pluses and minuses of having/being both. He is truly 1 in 1,000+.

 

Let's find him a more accommodating bottom attached to an incredible guy.

[mattr]

"Mattr" will have plenty of admirers, as much for his massively fat cock as for being a tremendously sweet guy - and we had a good talk about the pluses and minuses of having/being both. He is truly 1 in 1,000+.

 

Let's find him a more accommodating bottom attached to an incredible guy.

 

Adam, you are the kindest, sexiest man I know. Can't wait to get together again!

[curiousnomore]

Check out Killian James.