Escorts, do you play with (or hire) other escorts on your own free-time?

[newdad]

If so, does it become free or do you just guys get a better rate/discount?

[SteveEscort]

Neither and neither

 

I have a couple of gay escort friends who I meet socially, none of whom I do appointments with nor shag for free.

 

I am one of those escorts that value my privacy. I done appointments with other escorts but it was always me expected to accommodate and then a local escort knew where I lived without ever necessarily knowing where he lived.

 

Why would I hire.....I've had enough sex to last me six lifetimes. If I am in a another English city for the night in my other job I just stick an advert on local forums and I've usually an acquaintance or two calling around in a few hours.

 

Hope that answers the question from my perspective

 

Steve x

[+ purplekow]

Neither and neither

 

 

 

Why would I hire.....I've had enough sex to last me six lifetimes. If I am in a another English city for the night in my other job I just stick an advert on local forums and I've usually an acquaintance or two calling around in a few hours.

 

Hope that answers the question from my perspective

 

Steve x

Well you have had enough sex with men who are willing to pay for your services but that is not exactly the same as having sex with a man to whom you are attracted. Perhaps you are lucky enough to have the men to whom you are attracted falling at your feet and begging for sex. However not all escorts are. Although they are usually attractive and more than able to pick up a partner rather than a client, sometimes even an escort just wants what he wants in a sex partner. That would be why even an escort might hire.

[SteveEscort]

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Perhaps you are lucky enough to have the men to whom you are attracted falling at your feet and begging for sex

 

Oh no you got me wrong, I didn't mean it that way and never inferred that.

 

Yes I understand your point but when does an escort cross over into becoming a client. That's by default the question asked really.......... I related that I am not that person, I am not a client, I have enough going on in my life.

 

Attraction...... We've recently discussed this on here, attraction has nothing to do with escorting. I have had fantastic appointments with the most unassuming of men. Some of the worst appointments I've had are with Mr God's Gift who think you should be paying them. I am sure the clients on here can mirror that, a God's Gift escort you're attracted to doesn't necessarily make for a heavenly partnership.

[Kevin Slater]

I've been hired quite a few times by other current or former escorts. I do not lower my rates.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ poolboy48220]

A visiting escort said he checked out other escorts in the cities he travelled to, to see if they wanted to hook up for free (professional courtesy? pro bono?)

 

Another guy said he'd hired some of the competition just to see what he had to compete with.

[LookingAround]

I have a FB who, after months of knowing him, mentioned he was a rentboy (I had no idea). One evening we went online and had a third come over he met on grindr. After a couple hours of playing as the guy was leaving I asked what kind of work he did. He had referred to having an appointment with a client later so I thought maybe he was a therapist. He replied that he was a rentboy. Neither my friend or I knew! Haha

[Juan Vancouver]

If so, does it become free or do you just guys get a better rate/discount?

 

I hired a couple escorts when I first started escorting because I wanted to see how they conducted the booking process, how they behaved during the session and pretty much to learn the ropes. Paid the full fee and didn't mention that I was starting in the business. Best schooling ever! Learnt pretty fast what to do and what not to do.

 

When travelling in a strange city with a very tight schedule, in between trips with not much time to waste I have hired escorts. Some with really good reputations. I didn't mention I am an escort and paid full fee. I would never negotiate or ask for special treatment; if I want his time, I will remunerate him for it.

 

Also, it has happened that traveling in a strange city and I have time to go to a club, I meet someone really hot, we get along fine, we fuck, he is really good at it and sooner or later it comes up that we are both escorts. This has happened to me many times all over the world. It's strange, but escorts tend to gravitate towards one another. I think the good ones often have very good interpersonal skills and know how to facilitate a good time... when two people are doing this, this makes up for really good sex.

[+ Abel Rey]

I have played with fellow escorts for fun. The best way for me was to contact them directly (I prefer twitter as is less formal) and suggest a meeting or a mutual massage. You are presenting yourself as just a guy into another guy, not a client. Escorts are people too, so if I luck out, that fellow escort also finds you attractive and you have a good time together. Free of charge.

 

I got hired once by a formal escort. A guy in his 50's. Worse experience ever. He keep on remind me how he was an escort so he "gets it", yet, he was bossy, rude, the tried to short change me, he ask for discount and he forced me to stay pass the agreed time threatening me to a bad review if I don't. After that he texted me and asked me if I want to hang out again "as buddies" free of charge.

[newdad]

I got hired once by a formal escort. A guy in his 50's. Worse experience ever. He keep on remind me how he was an escort so he "gets it", yet, he was bossy, rude, the tried to short change me, he ask for discount and he forced me to stay pass the agreed time threatening me to a bad review if I don't. After that he texted me and asked me if I want to hang out again "as buddies" free of charge.

 

 

Damn. Sorry to hear that. =(

[+ Gar1eth]

I can't remember who it was. But an escort I had hired years ago said he hired an experienced escort, took him out for coffee or a snack,and asked him how to get started escorting.

 

Gman

[wklucas]

In one of the "remembrances" that was posted after Arpad Miklos' passing, one escort wrote of a special friendship that they had formed & that he would miss....from the reading of the post, he was going to miss a lot more about Arpad than just the free sex that the friendship made available.....It was a memorable, heartfelt post at the time.....(not going into a "search" to see who made that post about his friendship with the HUNGarian.....(or aptly named Peter).

[Guest ChrisW]

I rarely hire but when I do its for a niche, I have a type and interests that make it hard to find what I am looking for. Like most men that hire its just convenient and takes the hassle out of it. I make sure they are well reviewed or a friend has vetted them.

[Rudynate]

A long time ago, I had the good fortune to bump into a very attractive escort during his off-time. He was one of my archetypes, so he really struck a chord. We were chatting and getting acquainted and I asked him what he did for a living and he said he was an escort. I was surprised. He asked me if I had issues with that and I said no. We went home. It ended up with him telling me what he would really like to do. I said "Sure, I would love to do that," and gave him exactly what he wanted, over and over. It was one of my best experiences ever.