Weekend In-Call

[guptasa1]

Hey all,

 

So I'm doing something in December that I've not yet done - a weekend appointment, and an in-call with the escort as well. This is with an escort I've been with before and enjoyed spending time with VERY much. I'm traveling to his location (New York City) since I've never been there before and have always wanted to see it around Christmas time especially, so I should have a blast!

 

He offered something completely unexpected but at the same time really made me happy and a bit flattered, and that's to stay at his place. I knew he did in-calls, but frankly I would have never expected an escort to do longer appointments like this. It'll save me a lot of money and was super nice of him, so I accepted.

 

I will say, though, I'm nervous! LOL. I have a few questions, since I'm used to being at hotels instead. Obviously even at hotels I take my own basic toiletries (toothbrush, toothpaste, deoderant, shaving stuff, etc.), but since this will be an in-call, should I take my own soap/shampoo (guessing probably), but of more question, my own towels, washcloth, etc. too? I'm worried because I tend to be a duck in the bathroom (I'm not the neatest guy on the planet...not the messiest either, but from our last encounter, I get the feeling he's really neat), so I'm going to be paranoid about keeping everything as nice as possible for him! LOL.

 

I also have a very minor issue where sometimes my back is a little broken out (I've always had a complexion problem - I'm working on it, but it's not perfect), and sometimes (fairly occasionally I think), I bleed just a tiny bit on the sheets. (I'm safe and all - this isn't about safety as much as just...not wanting to stain his sheets - lol). But I'm paranoid about that too.

 

Any other suggestions or tips for a longer in-call from either clients or escorts? It would be appreciated!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Mi Case Es Su Casa

 

This question probably belongs in Ask The Escorts, since the clients will also respond there as well.

 

That said, as with all such questions, the correct answer is "It Depends" and good communication between you and your escort is important. You questions about neatness, towels, etc., are matters you should simply discuss with him advance. In fact, anything you think should be discussed (on his part or yours) should be discussed in advance as this will make the trip more pleasant for both of you.

 

I hosted a client from the Bay Area at my home for an overnight. He visits relatives here and always stays with them, so I felt that asking him to get a motel room for us would be both hard for him to explain to his brother and sister-in-law as well as an unnecessary inconvenience. As I do IN calls at my place, I have plenty of towels and the like; I do not use bar soap. That is why you should discuss this your escort. I have taken to bringing home some of the small, nice bar soaps provided at the hotels I have stayed in the last year so that someone would not need to be inconvenienced in the future. That said, you might need a certain type of body care product and you should just bring it, as you would to a hotel. I like a very specific type of shaving cream, so I always bring that with me, even though many four star hotels will provide small, complimentary short term use products.

 

I have offered to have another client come stay with me in a few months; I am not sure yet if he will. However, he and I have also not simply met, but have already spent nearly a one day block of time together at a hotel. Thus, I have a good sense of how we sleep with one another and so forth.

 

As for your specific question about your back, I might suggest you sleep with a t-shirt on, which given that it is winter in New York, might otherwise be excellent advise.

 

Good luck.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Mi Case Es Su Casa

 

Sleeping with a t-shirt on may cover the zits, but, Franco, what would you suggest about the blood staining the sheets? Yeah, yeah, I know, it depends! But on what?

[Luv2play]

I've only stayed once at an escort's place for an overnite and it went well, even though we had never met before but had exchanged a number of e-mails and phone calls. Of course I had all my own toiletries but he supplied the towels, facecloth etc that any host would do. I took him out to dinner and he supplied coffee in the morning. Of course, you will be spending the weekend, so I expect you will cover all meals outside.

 

As for your skin problem, I would level with him and then offer to wear a teeshirt to bed when you turn in to sleep. If you do not want to discuss it, then just put the teeshirt on anyway. I often sleep with one in the winter anyway, as I don't like waking up with cold shoulders LOL. Don't make a big deal of it tho, and you should have a great time. Enjoy.

[guptasa1]

Thanks for the responses all.

 

I think I'll just talk to him about it and see as you suggest. Thought I'd run it through here first.

 

We got along well before (and he should know me well enough to know what to expect - lol). He's a great guy, and I don't think he would have offered had he not wanted me there (I did double check with an "Are you sure that's really okay with you?").

 

As to the bleeding thing, I'm actually hopeful that'll be clear by the time I'm there - trying some new skin stuff yet again - lol. If it isn't, though, the T-shirt idea is a good one, if a bit unpleasant for me (I like the feel of sleeping naked generally - lol), but I'll certainly offer and bring it up if I think it'll be a problem.

 

Aside from being a bit hairy and prone to shedding (LOL), that should take care of everything. I prolly just need to chill and relax a bit.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

The T-Shirt . . .

 

. . . should eliminate most of the problem by acting to absorb most of the blood during sleep, thus keeping most of it off the sheets.

[guptasa1]

RE: The T-Shirt . . .

 

Half works (I used to wear pajamas or a t-shirt/shorts to bed, and if I remember right, a little bit sometimes soaked through anyhow...could be mis-remembering though - seems so long ago since I wore pajamas, but I still take a snuggling blanket to bed - lol).

 

Gahhh...I only have the breakouts in a few areas (mostly shoulders and upper back...sometimes face) and it's sporadic, but it certainly is annoying. I'm trying everything I can think of to get rid of it (special body wash, on-the-spot treatment at night, and skin vitamins currently...starting a coverup treatment in the morning too). LOL.

 

Anyways, appreciate the responses.

[theDCeBOY]

relaxing and lowering your stress level might just help with the breakouts as well.

[guptasa1]

You have a point. I really need to work on learning to chill more - lol.