Are we all hard-wire to prefer men in their mid 20s?

[marylander1940]

So true. Exfoliate and sunblock. Done properly, with the emphasis on "properly" can visually take years off of your look

 

I almost started a thread about the following picture and article.

 

http://www.theworldsbestever.com/2012/06/01/the-effect-of-sun-on-a-face/

 

http://theworldsbestever.s3.amazonaws.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/trucker-face.jpg

[wisconsinguy]

I have never found one hour appointments appealing and thus I have never done them. At a minimum I hire for approximately three hours. Those three hours always includes a meal during which conversation is an important part of the experience. I also hire for overnights, for weekends, and for extended travel. The longer the hiring experience the greater the importance of conversation for me. I have found that the younger guys have, being young, fewer interesting life experiences and are frequently less well educated. I have stated over and over again on this site that I am a total body fascist. Believe me there are plenty of 30, 40 and 50 years old escorts out there with exactly the kinds of body that I demand. I insist the guy I hire be build like a brick shit house and be MATURE.

I so agree with you on the timing. Never interested in the one or two hour thing. Started out with weekends, and have stayed with them. Also, have stayed with my first gentleman. I also agree with the conversation thing. The older person gets, more life experiences, both good and bad to discuss. I also add brightness into my cauldron. I love to meet people that are "smarter" than myself. Helps me to think harder.

[justaguy]

I have to see the butts before I can answer the OP's question

[Decatur Guy]

Age and race don't matter to me. I'm more drawn to masculinity, confidence, even cockiness. That said, a balding, built Arabic/Mediterranean guy in his mid to late 30s never hurts!

[+ friendofsheila]

I have to see the butts before I can answer the OP's question

 

Indeed, sir.

[+ quoththeraven]

Agree! But of course, I, as a woman, am factory-equipped to search single-mindedly for resource-equipped men who can provide for my tiny kittens. Uh oh, I think I see QTR over there.

 

Touche, FF! We don't see eye to eye as to the usefulness of the evo psych approach (I'm assuming that although you phrased it humorously, you weren't being ironic). I'm not sure what people's preferences prove when their encounters are recreational and not reproductive in nature, which is how I'd characterize most sexual encounters between those who are not long-term partners intending to have children. Our preferences as to looks and some of what we value as personality traits differ as well, just as the preferences of the men on the site vary significantly.

 

And hell yeah about maturity and life experience.

[caliguy]

I just saw an article about this study on heterosexual men:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/30/dating-age-study-_n_5903804.html?cps=gravity

 

Although I have a wide range of interests, and my latest two hires were men in their 30s (the one before that 28), I must say that overall I do find that men are at their peak of their beauty in their mid-20s most of the time. Of course, some escorts seem to be able to keep busy even in their 50s. But when I look at my JO material, it's probably been for the most part men in their 20s every since I hit puberty. I don't feel as if my brain has changed that much, just my body (somewhat)...

You applied your own bias and of coarse read the study wrong. They didn't mean all men "prefer" women in their twenties. Men prefer 30s, 40s, etc too. Generally speaking population wise you get more attraction for the twenty somethings. Doesn't mean guys are limited to just that either.

[+ Italiano]

I would have loved to have met Derek Steel (for those who remember him) back when he was escorting- but he was an exclusive top. You can read his description from his old reviews if you are interested.

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/derek_steel_orlando

 

Gman

 

He is actually still escorting @Gar1eth!

I am actually curious if anyone has had recent experience with him?

Of his many 5* reviewers, 2 complain of the fact that his pics are outdated.

And I doubt he is only 57...

 

https://rentmen.com/dereksteel/

[MartyB]

I’m not really hard-wired for any particular age of escort! I guess I am a bit unusual in that my taste in men runs the gamut from 20’s through 60’s, very dependent not only on how sexually stimulating I find an escort’s look, but how interesting I find his most important sexual organ, his mind. If a guy in his 20’s, 30’s or 40’s is mature in attitude and outlook, I often find him much more attractive than the man with the perfect body/face/cock of any age!

 

I’ve found that the well-reviewed escorts that stay in shape and continue working after age 50 usually give me a bit more in terms of a true BFE than some of the younger men. I could give many examples of escorts of all ages who have the maturity and attitude to completely satisfy me and whom I enjoy hiring again and again. In other words, age is only a number, actually unimportant to me when it comes to engaging the greatest escorts!!!

 

TruHart1

Perfectly stated.

[colddonutinternet]

My taste is from legal age to mid twenties. Never been with any one older and have absolutely no intention to change. Actually the older I get, the younger I like

[gallahadesquire]

I like early thirties to mid-forties. That said, some of the specimens of 18-25 in the gym locker room are quite impressive. As long as they don't open their mouths. The age of "locker room" talk (filth) appears to be gone. They're more likely to talk about protein drinks.

 

What has amazed me is the builds on some of these fellows. I'm like a dog chasing a car: whatever would I do if I ever caught it? Impressive specimen, indeed.

 

For true attraction, I go to my fraternity. Reasonably healthy young men and smart. Thank god I behaved myself at that age or there would still be paternity suits.

[LADoug1]

I for one am not.

[MikeBiDude]

I appear to be extremely attracted to that age group. I relate very well to that age group, which helps a lot. I go outside my "type" on occasion and have a great time, but find myself back to perusing the 20-26 age group.

 

Sometimes I think it's related to my being so closeted in my teens/twenties (with raging hormones) when I was surrounded by all these young men, and did nothing about it.

[marylander1940]

I appear to be extremely attracted to that age group. I relate very well to that age group, which helps a lot. I go outside my "type" on occasion and have a great time, but find myself back to perusing the 20-26 age group.

 

Sometimes I think it's related to my being so closeted in my teens/twenties (with raging hormones) when I was surrounded by all these young men, and did nothing about it.

 

24 to 30 would be my preferred age, but I've hired guys in their mid 30's like my regular in DC if they have a youngish looking face.

[+ glennnn]

My experience as a high school teacher helped to solidify my preference for 35+ men. Number one, the school boys were, of course, off limits. I never allowed myself to even think about them. Number two, the HS boys were too shallow and self absorbed. Number three, I have a Daddy fetish, even tho I'm a Daddy myself now (a dylf I hope)! Seriously, presence, experience and body hair equal sexiness to me.

[escortrod]

Beyond physical attraction, I think that a lot of men (gay men especially) are in a state of arrested development, and so even in their later years they identify better with young guys. My partner is fourteen years older than me, and we met when I was 20. Despite that I was the more mature one in many ways. He had never lived alone, cleaned for himself, etc. Luckily I prefer older guys physically, so the fact that our maturity levels were similar was beneficial.

[escortrod]

is your partner an escort as well or no? How does he feel about you meeting other guys for money and does that mean he can sleep around with anyone else as well?

He's not, but we have an open relationship, so he has no problem with it.

[escortrod]

thanks for the quick answer, I'm always dealing with not wanting a bf or even dating bc I escort. Its hard, sometimes I want a hubby but scared they will run away once I tell them what i do

It's not for everybody. Like me, my partner is able to separate sex and love. There's no jealousy, and absolute trust. It seems to be pretty rare, and I got lucky.

[BasketBaller]

I am most attracted to guys more or less my own age, although I have hired both younger and older escorts. Still, my fantasies revolve around someone similar in age and experience. As a father and a coach I am, like @glennnn as a teacher, pretty unable to even consider very young men as sexual fantasies, and as I get older "very young" seems to get older too. One of my earliest escort hires was a great young man who was only barely older then than my oldest son is now. I can't imagine hiring someone that age these days. (We're still in touch, although he's long retired and now partnered.)

[wisconsinguy]

I’m not really hard-wired for any particular age of escort! I guess I am a bit unusual in that my taste in men runs the gamut from 20’s through 60’s, very dependent not only on how sexually stimulating I find an escort’s look, but how interesting I find his most important sexual organ, his mind. If a guy in his 20’s, 30’s or 40’s is mature in attitude and outlook, I often find him much more attractive than the man with the perfect body/face/cock of any age!

 

I’ve found that the well-reviewed escorts that stay in shape and continue working after age 50 usually give me a bit more in terms of a true BFE than some of the younger men. I could give many examples of escorts of all ages who have the maturity and attitude to completely satisfy me and whom I enjoy hiring again and again. In other words, age is only a number, actually unimportant to me when it comes to engaging the greatest escorts!!!

 

TruHart1

I guess I can think of one such escort we both mutually may know? Ummm and yummy!!

[liubit]

My taste is from legal age to mid twenties. Never been with any one older and have absolutely no intention to change. Actually the older I get, the younger I like

Exactly.

[escortrod]

My taste is from legal age to mid twenties. Never been with any one older and have absolutely no intention to change. Actually the older I get, the younger I like

Hopefully that's a trend that will be arrested while you remain on the right side of the law.

[+ OliverSaks]

I'm curious about something.

 

I am 27, but I look probably early 20's.

 

Does the look matter or the actual number? I would imagine that I get filtered out by age when someone searches for a certain age cutoff, but I think generally I would capture the aesthetic that those clients might be looking for - what do ya'll think?

[MartyB]

I'm curious about something.

 

I am 27, but I look probably early 20's.

 

Does the look matter or the actual number? I would imagine that I get filtered out by age when someone searches for a certain age cutoff, but I think generally I would capture the aesthetic that those clients might be looking for - what do ya'll think?

Personally I would move on if I thought you were in your early 20's. Makes me uncomfortable and I would think hard to relate to.. but it seems like I'm not the majority on this opinion. Lol

[TruHart1]

I guess I can think of one such escort we both mutually may know? Ummm and yummy!!

YES! But the particular escort you reference is so unique and special that the usual "escort" descriptives do not apply to him, @wisconsinguy. Both our lives are richer for our respective friendships with him and, to get back to topic, he is a mature man with expertise both in the bedroom AND in life! :)

 

TruHart1