Second chances

[clive101]

Do clients here give escorts a second change? I didn't have the greatest time with this escort close to my city. His pics matched perfectly and he was extremely hot and into the session. My issues with the encounter were that he offers an incall service and is discreet but after I travelled an hour to meet him the place was a public strip club. After texting him my arrival I didn't get a response or see him at least for a half hour. Secondly, when we finally got together he brought me into a tiny both where we couldn't do most of the things he advertised, ie topping, wrestling etc. Since he took my money before hand I didn't really have any other recourse. He asked me to stay longer so he would make it up to me but completely ignored me after. This is a a very condensed recounting.

 

Not sure if this all happened because he was busy that night but didn't want to rearrange. But he was extremely hot and I'm tempted to try again. Should I?

[tyro]

No, no, a thousand times no.

There is a difference between a geisha and a hustla. Guess which one he is.

T

[+ Funguy]

Are you freaking kidding!!! After all that happened before, you still gave him the $ up front? and this is how he treated you? No way, no how, no, not in a million years. There are plenty of sizzling hot guys. I bet, with a bit of time well-spent, you could find.

 

And, even tho you have few posts, you have been here for a long time. PLease read the posts re: pre-payment. There are many, many because too many guys do it.

 

Please find a new great guy and spend your time, relaxed, with him.

 

Funguy

[anotherjohnindupont]

Do clients here give escorts a second change?

 

Unless there are other choices around, yes.

 

I didn't have the greatest time with this escort close to my city. His pics matched perfectly and he was extremely hot and into the session.

 

From 1 to 10, where would you grade him?

 

My issues with the encounter were that he offers an incall service and is discreet but after I travelled an hour to meet him the place was a public strip club. After texting him my arrival I didn't get a response or see him at least for a half hour.

 

Next time, just leave... he was late for an incall at his own place.

 

Secondly, when we finally got together he brought me into a tiny both where we couldn't do most of the things he advertised, ie topping, wrestling etc. Since he took my money before hand I didn't really have any other recourse. He asked me to stay longer so he would make it up to me but completely ignored me after.

 

And you still pay him in advance? It makes no sense. I have never asked an escort if he has a bed, but I assume he does have one. It's a good idea to google the address to see where he lives or is staying while visiting.

 

This is a a very condensed recounting.

Not sure if this all happened because he was busy that night but didn't want to rearrange. But he was extremely hot and I'm tempted to try again. Should I?

 

Will you get a room yourself? Will he be there on time?

I think it's up to you, I'm shocked you continued the arrangement after waiting 1/2 hour for your time and having sex without even having a bed.

[clive101]

Unfortunately my head at that moment was sounding the alarm but his body was giving me the green light. It was probably a minute after I decided to give him the cash after being reaffirmed by him it would be okay. Was also thinking that legitimate escorts here do ask for money upfront so they don't scammed themselves so I gave him the benefit of the doubt since I've done it before and didn't feel cheated with someone else.

 

Everything he did, flexing, lap dance, hand job etc, was a 9 out of 10. There was no sex because there was no bed or room to lay down as well as performance issues(according to him). I'm just imaging now if he had the same skill at topping like everything else I could excuse everything.

[+ Funguy]

OK, I get that legitimate escorts do ask for upfront $ unless they know you from before. But, as even you said he was considerably late, didn't have a private room with a bed, it was obvious he wasn't going to do what he promised. Not professional or legitimate at all! Now you've experienced what too many have also. Simply learn from this experience. That's all you need to take away from this.

 

Where are you located? Are there not well-reviewed guys hitting your area? If so, go with one of them. If not, and entirely possible, you have to use your BIG head and not your LITTLE head. Little head leads you to loss every time.

[imrthr]

Do clients here give escorts a second change? I didn't have the greatest time with this escort close to my city. His pics matched perfectly and he was extremely hot and into the session. My issues with the encounter were that he offers an incall service and is discreet but after I travelled an hour to meet him the place was a public strip club. After texting him my arrival I didn't get a response or see him at least for a half hour. Secondly, when we finally got together he brought me into a tiny both where we couldn't do most of the things he advertised, ie topping, wrestling etc. Since he took my money before hand I didn't really have any other recourse. He asked me to stay longer so he would make it up to me but completely ignored me after. This is a a very condensed recounting.

 

Not sure if this all happened because he was busy that night but didn't want to rearrange. But he was extremely hot and I'm tempted to try again. Should I?

 

 

Of course not!

 

The guy is a supposed “professional” and has no bed for a booked appointment!

 

If you contracted with a professional in a different profession and that professional did not have the tools of his trade, would you think the professional deserved another chance?

 

Putting it into prospective, suppose you went to your dentist (a professional) and when you got to his office, he asked to be paid in advance. Then, after payment was made, you learned that the dentist did not have a dental chair or dental tools. Worse, the dentist tried to makeshift your session into a cubby hole rather than in a customary place. Following this, the dentist asked you to remain and he would make it up to you, but proceeded to ignore you. The dentist did not offer to reduce his fee despite his failure to deliver services promised.

 

Now, considering the above reasonable analogy, do you think the dentist deserves another chance?

 

I hope you realize that the behavior of the escort you described demonstrated that he does not give a hoot for you or your feelings. Sadly, it was and remains, all about the money.

[clive101]

There's a fair amount of people in Toronto but very few escorts that have muscles and do Incalls. Too many average looking guys and twinks in the area and I'm only into really muscular guys. I know escort are human beings and I can't make them do whatever I want since they are people not my robots. Don't like these encounters to be a cash transactions but passionate experiences. That's why I love people like Juan and Thor when they travel.

[Bosguy]

There's a fair amount of people in Toronto but very few escorts that have muscles and do Incalls. Too many average looking guys and twinks in the area and I'm only into really muscular guys. I know escort are human beings and I can't make them do whatever I want since they are people not my robots. Don't like these encounters to be a cash transactions but passionate experiences. That's why I love people like Juan and Thor when they travel.

 

Wow. To go from Juan and Thor to the boy in the booth. I think I'd watch some porn and wait. Besides the only guy I would get in a booth with would be SuperMAN! :-)

 

Boston Bill

[+ Socalguy]

There was no sex because there was no bed or room to lay down as well as performance issues(according to him).

 

So an escort booked an appointment knowing he was having performance issues?? Or am I reading that wrong?

[down_to_business]

Do clients here give escorts a second change? I didn't have the greatest time with this escort close to my city. His pics matched perfectly and he was extremely hot and into the session. My issues with the encounter were that he offers an incall service and is discreet but after I travelled an hour to meet him the place was a public strip club. After texting him my arrival I didn't get a response or see him at least for a half hour. Secondly, when we finally got together he brought me into a tiny both where we couldn't do most of the things he advertised, ie topping, wrestling etc. Since he took my money before hand I didn't really have any other recourse. He asked me to stay longer so he would make it up to me but completely ignored me after. This is a a very condensed recounting.

 

Not sure if this all happened because he was busy that night but didn't want to rearrange. But he was extremely hot and I'm tempted to try again. Should I?

NO!

[adriano46]

NO!

 

+1 again tonight down-to-business.

[+ bigjoey]

No second chance….do NOT think with your small head.

[jimboivyo]

NO!

 

thats a hell of a no

[clive101]

So an escort booked an appointment knowing he was having performance issues?? Or am I reading that wrong?

 

The appointment was booked but the performance issue occurred because he told me he took coke and wanted me to wait later for his Viagra to kick in therefore I waited like an idiot.

[imrthr]

The appointment was booked but the performance issue occurred because he told me he took coke and wanted me to wait later for his Viagra to kick in therefore I waited like an idiot.

 

 

Damn, it gets worse with the addition of the coke.

 

I hope you go back and read this thread. Don't you see that the guy is a piece of s - - t?

 

Any escort who would take your money up front after knowing that he was on coke cannot be a nice guy. And, you are even contemplating a repeat?

 

Find someone else, pronto!

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[+ Socalguy]

The appointment was booked but the performance issue occurred because he told me he took coke and wanted me to wait later for his Viagra to kick in therefore I waited like an idiot.

 

I really like to take people at face value, but I'm beginning to think your story is BS. After all you just listed and wanting to see him again? You have to be either conning us or you have even lower self esteem than me, and that ain't easy, nor is it meant as an insult

[bomerrang]

NO! And get a psychiatrist if your story is true.

[clive101]

The story isn't BS. I do have low self esteem and only have sex when I hire guys. This can be difficult when your only turn on is muscle and tattoos turn me off. It limits my options to only 2 or 3 guys when all their ads are up. When a travelling guy visits my city and has good reviews on this site I will hire them but they are few and far between. Really want someone I can frequent when no one is visiting since you can't plan when you are horny. That's the only reason I'm even contemplating him again- I'm running out of options. The drug thing was his excuse to me and he could of been lying just to finish the session and time with me. I'm just repeating what he told me.

[bigvalboy]

The appointment was booked but the performance issue occurred because he told me he took coke and wanted me to wait later for his Viagra to kick in therefore I waited like an idiot.

OK...so it's not BS, I'll take that at face value, but he does Coke and takes Viagra? Seriously? Might I refer you to down_to_business's post.

[+ Socalguy]

The story isn't BS. I do have low self esteem and only have sex when I hire guys. This can be difficult when your only turn on is muscle and tattoos turn me off. It limits my options to only 2 or 3 guys when all their ads are up. When a travelling guy visits my city and has good reviews on this site I will hire them but they are few and far between. Really want someone I can frequent when no one is visiting since you can't plan when you are horny. That's the only reason I'm even contemplating him again- I'm running out of options. The drug thing was his excuse to me and he could of been lying just to finish the session and time with me. I'm just repeating what he told me.

 

In that case, I apologize. I'd like to suggest you look into other things than just muscle that turn you on. to paraphrase Auntie Mame "Sex is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death"

[tyro]

Clive, find someone else -- someone with a great body, great skills, and a great big heart. They do exist in this profession. Really. For a while, sex with working guys was the only sex I was having too, and that both boosted and deflated my self-esteem. Giving your time and money to this guy isn't helping anybody. Fo' realz.

T

[bomerrang]

Well your friend is taking a great cocktail. Seeing that cocaine is a vasoconstrictor and Viagra is a vasodilator, he is going to need a Physician too.

 

As an aside, what did said 'muscle' and 'no tattoos' charge you for this encounter?

[bigvalboy]

well your friend is taking a great cocktail. Seeing that cocaine is a vasoconstrictor and viagra is a vasodilator, he is going to need a physician too.

 

.....lmao!!!

[clive101]

In that case, I apologize. I'd like to suggest you look into other things than just muscle that turn you on. to paraphrase Auntie Mame "Sex is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death"

 

Too bad my penis doesn't respond to anyone else. Got a thing for guys that are powerful and dominate. The tattoo thing I usually can work around. There's a muscle to tattoo ratio I have in my head, the more muscle mass they have the more I can ignore. Rogan Richards or Vin Marco would not be ignored if they came around but normally sleeves and tons of random tats are not attractive to me. When I have to pay I want everything to be perfect or close.