Second chances

[+ Robster]

When I have to pay I want everything to be perfect or close.

 

There's your answer. Was this a perfect encounter? It certainly doesn't sound like it even came close, and I doubt a second one with him would be any better.

 

Rob

[rvwnsd]

In answer to your original question ("Do guys give escorts a second chance?"), "yes, some guys give second chances depending on the situation." This guy has given second chances and was thrilled the second time around. However, this guy would not give a second chance to someone whose idea of an incall was a booth at a strip club, admitted to having done cocaine prior to the session, was a half hour late without providing a plausible excuse ("oh, sorry, I had to let the cocaine settle in first" is NOT plausible), and asked for the fee up-front. I don't care how few muscle escorts live near you, this is not someone who deserves repeat business.

[+ bigjoey]

Perhaps if you gave us your general location, members here could help find you your ideal man.

[+ Gar1eth]

... only have sex when I hire guys.

I don't know if misery loves company, but I wanted you to know that I totally understand this predicament. It's horrible and I feel for you. This was me up until about 2 years ago. And it's still basically true for me as (figuratively) February 29th occurs more frequently than me having an unpaid hook-up. So if it helps knowing someone else is in the same boat, here I am.

 

Gman

[MrMiniver]

In the situation you describe, the answer would be NO. But I have had encounters in which I didn't think it really worked but I did feel a connection with the escort. I have, occasionally, given the guy a second chance after he recognized that it didn't quite work. of the 3 or 4 where I've done that, the second time went much better and today a couple of those guys are good friends of mine.

 

So sometimes second chances work.

[Michael Wayne]

tell the boy no drugs and you book a hotel for the encounter. he sounds hot enough to offer grace too! But only once and if he still cant get it up then move on. Also let him know that payment will be rendered after services are complete. If he balks then move on........ http://www.rentboy.com/magicmikey

[Bart]

Clive

Toronto see Brad. I have seen him on numerous occassions. He will give it to you in spades. He is special, he can be and is dominant but can give great boyfriend sex as well. He will treat you right. He has reasonable charges. http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=261261&scid=115605977&sp=1&pos=0&locid=525&iid=123972 I just saw Eli excellent young man, does incalls. Young muscles energetic and dominant or boyfriend. He loves to talk and connect with this clients. I just had a super time with him. http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=337783&scid=115605882&sp=2&pos=26&locid=538&iid=177011 but he is leaving in two months. I think Ryan Taylor who also does incalls is a great choice for you as well. Sometimes you have to try people even if you think the ad is not perfect. I started this 13 years ago and thought I knew what I wanted. I didn't. It evolves over time. Clive you are insecure than go see someone who will not make you feel that way. Brad is the best but Eli and Ryan will do a fine job for you.

[clive101]

The guy was Brad

[+ Gar1eth]

Isn't Joey Jordan usually in Toronto? He's very muscular. And I don't remember any bad reviews about him.

 

And is Brad from Canada? A few of his pictures remind me of a guy that used to escort out of Los Angeles years ago.

 

Gman

[clive101]

Joey was a great hire and he was the first I guy booked a hotel for because he only does outcalls in his hometown. I can't host and can't disappear overnight at a hotel because of family. I can only does this once a year without it being suspicious and that's why I look for guys that do Incalls. I'd love to hire Romeo92 http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=428239&scid=115605882&sp=1&pos=20&locid=538&iid=485790 but he only does outcalls too.

I wanted to acknowledge everyone for their great advice. Everyone has different circumstances and requires different resolutions. This topic is not something you can easily share with anyone that's why this board is great.

[jawjateck]

Interesting thread. I'm a gracious southern gent in every area of my life......except one......and that's this lil ole hobby. If the first impression aint good, there won't be a second meeting. In fact, if, at any point during the pre-meet communications, I sense compatibility issues, I quickly move on. There are far too many outstanding providers to get hung up on one who doesn't excel in making me happy. I know......selfish SOB, aint I?

[manTOman]

clive101,

There are two Brads in Toronto. Bart's Brad and Brad the muscle stud who dances at Remington's. So you might be speaking of two different people.

[Phil_musc]

I would suggest a two-tiered course of action that will involve using both the big and little heads (and in that order).

 

Step #1: Write a review of this experience. Guys come here to read about service-providers and the only way we discover who the stinkers are is through reviews from guys who have taken the test drive. I'm actually surprised that no one else has suggested that you write a review.

 

Step #2: If after writing an objective review you re-read what you have written and your little head still clamors for attention and gratification, then by all means hire him again. Perhaps the second time will be truly stellar and you can then write a second review as a means of ameliorating the first one. Good luck and keep us posted.

[clive101]

Won't write a review because I'm afraid about how my personal information is handled. The form asks for a name and phone number which I don't feel comfortable sharing. Now a days no ones info is safe on the Internet and if that info was exposed I'd be very nervous. Don't believe Daddy would expose the info but what happens if the info is ever hacked or obtained?

 

I did get Bart's Brad mixed up since mine was the Remington's guy.

[instudiocity]

Won't write a review because I'm afraid about how my personal information is handled. The form asks for a name and phone number which I don't feel comfortable sharing. Now a days no ones info is safe on the Internet and if that info was exposed I'd be very nervous. Don't believe Daddy would expose the info but what happens if the info is ever hacked or obtained?

 

I did get Bart's Brad mixed up since mine was the Remington's guy.

What's appearing now as info leak what with Google and the NSA, you're already exposed to the computer gods. Hell, if you've got a Google email account that you use for our hobby, Google ALREADY KNOWS and is targeting advertising toward your, um, proclivities.

[daviddd49]

Won't write a review because I'm afraid about how my personal information is handled. The form asks for a name and phone number which I don't feel comfortable sharing. Now a days no ones info is safe on the Internet and if that info was exposed I'd be very nervous. Don't believe Daddy would expose the info but what happens if the info is ever hacked or obtained?

 

I've written lots of reviews ... never had a problem ... yet.

[Bart]

Clive thank you for clearing that up. It was giving much angst thinking he could do that. Plus I almost hired that other Brad when in Toronto but a sixth sense that pops once in a blue moon said not sure.

 

Clive you do what you wish regarding reviews BUT I do have an alternative email, name and such that I use for this and actually contacting gentlemen initially. I too wish to keep things private but I find that is the best way to handle this side of my life. Do some know? Yes but on a trust basis and there are quite a few I do. So you can and should have an alternate email, phone and excetera for events such as this.

[Becket]

If I really am into the guy, then yes I will give second chances. I actually had a so so time with one of the EOY guys on a first appointment a few years back. I figured out it could well have been me, not him. So we tried again. My second appointment----and third, and fourth, and eighteenth--------have all been marvelous. cheers