excellent clients!

[+ Tom Isern]

here's a note of gratitude for excellent clients—one this past week rocked my world by just going above and beyond what i've come to expect. this guy hired me for an overnight that involved travel. not only did he happily pay my required deposit and travel expenses in advance, he paid for the ENTIRE thing in advance. and then he sent me extra money for incidentals. he carefully arranged for all my transportation to and from the airport, arranged to have things that i love to eat and drink there for me when i arrived, gave me two hours to "settle in" from the travel before he showed up (that is GOLD after a full day of connecting flights!!!), very thoughtfully left me a salad to much on, and when we went out to dinner told me to order whatever i wanted, regardless of cost. he sent me a carefully arranged "wish list," which i always appreciate because it helps me be the kind of dom top the client is looking for. he treated me like a prince in every little detail. i know he's already submitted a review and i hope he had as good a time as i did, but the whole experience made me think that this site is so much about the client's experiences of the escort. the escort's positive experiences don't get heard as often. and maybe sharing about the great things that clients do for escorts would help other clients be better clients. and maybe a happy escort is a happy performer! (i suspect that's true!) so with the new year approaching, here's an early toast to great clients!

[maxwellissmart]

I know exactly what you mean. Having an excellent run right now, and have met some great guys who know how to push every button (in the right way). Last month set an all-time record, and this month will top that one by at least $2K.

[nate_sf]

I'll second (or third) your sentiment too. The reason I've been in this business as long as I have is because of those great clients. I have a handful of regulars where the relationship is one of mutual respect and where both of us are looking after each others' needs. Sounds like the client you just visited fits that bill. It's not so much "showering with gifts" as much as it is looking after what you need to do your job well, like that time to recover after travel, the food, and the "wish list." All these things will make you feel good and allow you to perform at your best. As you say, a happy escort is a happy performer!

 

And the "wish list" I too find especially useful for dom top scenes because it gives you a sense of what turns the client on and satisfied. You can get yourself in that mental space ahead of time and take a lot of the guesswork out so you can focus on giving the client the best time. Whether or not it's a dom scene or something more vanilla, it's all part of giving you the tools to do your job well. Then both are happy at the end.

 

So yes I join you in your toast! These are the guys where the expression "pleasure doing business" really applies, and are often great friends too.

[bigvalboy]

here's a note of gratitude for excellent clients—one this past week rocked my world by just going above and beyond what i've come to expect. this guy hired me for an overnight that involved travel. not only did he happily pay my required deposit and travel expenses in advance, he paid for the ENTIRE thing in advance. and then he sent me extra money for incidentals. he carefully arranged for all my transportation to and from the airport, arranged to have things that i love to eat and drink there for me when i arrived, gave me two hours to "settle in" from the travel before he showed up (that is GOLD after a full day of connecting flights!!!), very thoughtfully left me a salad to much on, and when we went out to dinner told me to order whatever i wanted, regardless of cost. he sent me a carefully arranged "wish list," which i always appreciate because it helps me be the kind of dom top the client is looking for. he treated me like a prince in every little detail. i know he's already submitted a review and i hope he had as good a time as i did, but the whole experience made me think that this site is so much about the client's experiences of the escort. the escort's positive experiences don't get heard as often. and maybe sharing about the great things that clients do for escorts would help other clients be better clients. and maybe a happy escort is a happy performer! (i suspect that's true!) so with the new year approaching, here's an early toast to great clients!

 

Nice to hear that escorts actually appreciate clients, and that it isn't always about the money, though there is nothing wrong with that. As long as an escort tells me what I want to hear, treats me like gold, and sends me on my way with a smile on my face, then that makes everything worthwhile. I try to treat all my escorts with respect, and gratitude. Some appreciate that, some don't.

[+ Ace]

Consider MY coffee cup raised in this toast! I've been fortunate to have a "select group" of clients whose names make me smile when I see them on my phone or in my in box.

I know the treatment will be GREAT coming from them & in return, it doesn't feel like "work"....

Looking forward to reading the review of one of my FAVORITE guys as well!

Thanks for posting Tom...

[operalover21]

I hope he was a longtime client because paying in advance is something I would NEVER do!

[East2West]

Tom, great to see you post again!

 

You provided a great time for me a few years ago when I was visiting NYC for work and the experience still rates as one of my best. I remember you as a true gentleman who ensured a great time before, during, and after our meeting.

 

E2W

[Cooper]

Experiences....

 

Tom, I join East2West in saying it's good to see you back posting. You were missed.

 

The experience you mentioned with this client is very special, I enjoyed reading it. However, it's an "overnight" that most of us couldn't afford. It's nice to say, order what you want "regardless of the cost" and send spending money in advance but I doubt many here would say or do that. I assume that this very special client either won the lottery or is the in the Top 1%. So, does this mean that those of us who pay just the asking rate aren't "appreciated" or good clients?

 

Some thoughts.... I'm a simple man who hires regularly. I'll pick my escort up at the train station, no limo. I'll provide a drink or sandwich, certainly not order what you want "regardless of price". I'll always make sure my house is clean and that the sheets and the towels are fresh. I watch the clock and pay at the end like most clients should do. And, most importantly, I'll treat you with respect, after all, you are a guest in my home. So, after reading about your wonderful experience, I would be extremely disappointed to learn that the escort might not be happy with my arrangement and have higher expectations about how I should treat him.

 

I'm not sure if I'd agree with your comment that "maybe sharing about the great things that clients do for escorts would help other clients be better clients. and maybe a happy escort is a happy performer! (i suspect that's true!)...." To me, this sounds like the more tangibles $$$'s I provide, the better the service. I would hope that paying you your asking rate, treating you with respect, and living up to our agreement would be sufficient.

 

I'd be interested in hearing how other escorts feel about Tom's comments.

 

Thanks again Tom for sharing this wonderful story.

 

Coop

[jimboivyo]

Tom, I join East2West in saying it's good to see you back posting. You were missed.

 

The experience you mentioned with this client is very special, I enjoyed reading it. However, it's an "overnight" that most of us couldn't afford. It's nice to say, order what you want "regardless of the cost" and send spending money in advance but I doubt many here would say or do that. I assume that this very special client either won the lottery or is the in the Top 1%. So, does this mean that those of us who pay just the asking rate aren't "appreciated" or good clients?

 

Some thoughts.... I'm a simple man who hires regularly. I'll pick my escort up at the train station, no limo. I'll provide a drink or sandwich, certainly not order what you want "regardless of price". I'll always make sure my house is clean and that the sheets and the towels are fresh. I watch the clock and pay at the end like most clients should do. And, most importantly, I'll treat you with respect, after all, you are a guest in my home. So, after reading about your wonderful experience, I would be extremely disappointed to learn that the escort might not be happy with my arrangement and have higher expectations about how I should treat him.

 

I'm not sure if I'd agree with your comment that "maybe sharing about the great things that clients do for escorts would help other clients be better clients. and maybe a happy escort is a happy performer! (i suspect that's true!)...." To me, this sounds like the more tangibles $$$'s I provide, the better the service. I would hope that paying you your asking rate, treating you with respect, and living up to our agreement would be sufficient.

 

I'd be interested in hearing how other escorts feel about Tom's comments.

 

Thanks again Tom for sharing this wonderful story.

 

Coop

 

 

I hate it when folks play devils advocate for the sake of nothing. I didn't take the op's post as anything but thankful. He was treated well, treated his client well in return. good story, all are happy

 

I treat my escorts very well because I like to and because I can afford it. It makes me no better than any other man. what tom describes would be exactly how I set someone up if I were doing something short term. sure, not everyone can spend that kind of money but if you can, why not make the arrangement as comfortable as possible. I love hearing about escorts who have great times with their clients.

 

this isn't 1% kind of money. lots of folks have cash to spend, still. don't get sucked into the news cycle and begin to believe it

[operalover21]

Tom, I join East2West in saying it's good to see you back posting. You were missed.

 

The experience you mentioned with this client is very special, I enjoyed reading it. However, it's an "overnight" that most of us couldn't afford. It's nice to say, order what you want "regardless of the cost" and send spending money in advance but I doubt many here would say or do that. I assume that this very special client either won the lottery or is the in the Top 1%. So, does this mean that those of us who pay just the asking rate aren't "appreciated" or good clients?

 

Some thoughts.... I'm a simple man who hires regularly. I'll pick my escort up at the train station, no limo. I'll provide a drink or sandwich, certainly not order what you want "regardless of price". I'll always make sure my house is clean and that the sheets and the towels are fresh. I watch the clock and pay at the end like most clients should do. And, most importantly, I'll treat you with respect, after all, you are a guest in my home. So, after reading about your wonderful experience, I would be extremely disappointed to learn that the escort might not be happy with my arrangement and have higher expectations about how I should treat him.

 

I'm not sure if I'd agree with your comment that "maybe sharing about the great things that clients do for escorts would help other clients be better clients. and maybe a happy escort is a happy performer! (i suspect that's true!)...." To me, this sounds like the more tangibles $$$'s I provide, the better the service. I would hope that paying you your asking rate, treating you with respect, and living up to our agreement would be sufficient.

 

I'd be interested in hearing how other escorts feel about Tom's comments.

 

Thanks again Tom for sharing this wonderful story.

 

Coop

 

I'm glad Coop said it because I had the same feeling but didn't want to express it since I didn't want to be accused of being "negative." I do think it goes both ways. How about the escort bringing some of the same niceties to experience?

 

I don't think there's anything more unpleasant in the experience -- as someone who hires very regularly -- of picking an escort up from the train in the morning and having him get in the car, slump into the seat and declare "I'm not really a morning person, but I'll perk up later." Or having the first words out of their mouth be "let's go through the drivethrough McDonald's so I get a breakfast burrito."

 

I'm sure -- and isn't that the point of this forum -- clients and escorts can both learn a lot about making the experience better from what many have to say here.

[+ Tom Isern]

oh cooper! i'm so glad you said what you said. it's certainly NOT all about the money and i super super regret if i gave that impression!! i really meant to stress—for instance—the 2 hours he gave me to relax and recover from a day of travel!! that was so nice—GOLD i called it—and it did prepare me mentally, physically (shower), etc. to be more present and a better escort in that situation! and the $2.95 salad (i didn't mention the price. it didn't matter. it was delicious and thoughtful.) and yes, a little fuel before a session—that works for both of us! the point was the overwhelming thoughtfulness of the client that manifested itself in diverse ways—like the wish list. a wish list costs NOTHING. i think you're being a little unfair with me. i honestly don't know what this client could have done to make it a better evening—and that has nothing to do with money. and we weren't living it up in some fancy NYC restaurant—we were literally in the middle of nowhere (at least from my bent nyc perspective!!). i've had clients spend a lot, lot more money on me—that was really not the point. it never is. of course we should each (escorts and clients) go as far as we can to treat each other with respect, to be as prepared as we can be, and to fulfill our end of the agreement. but isn't it nice? isn't it really, really nice? when someone goes above and beyond and makes you feel like your presence in their life really matters, even if it's only for a few hours? i kind of think so! i'll tell you this: when someone treats me like a prince and let's me know they are really into me and how they dig spending time together and love what we do in-between the sheets, so to speak—that person gets me hard, gets my attention, gets my engine revved up. that person will experience a different me. and i don't think it's about professionalism—it's human nature. it's about chemistry and energy and bonding and knowing how to have fun with another human being. isn't that all good?

[maxwellissmart]

...i don't think it's about professionalism—it's human nature. it's about chemistry and energy and bonding and knowing how to have fun with another human being. isn't that all good?

 

I think I shocked my client the other day when I said: "You're here for my pleasure as much as I am for yours. If I didn't think we were going to have a good time, I wouldn't have come."

 

So many people think they can throw an amount of money at an escort and he'll bend over to pick it up. Money is secondary to enjoyment—in escorting or in any occupation. I believe escorts who truly do this only for the money are missing out.

[miguy]

I pay in advance when I can. I have been with several escorts. Most of the time I have paid in full in advance between 1200 and 1800 with travel etc. The reason is simple. I am sincere and want the escort to know that. I would never send money to someone who isn't WELL reviewed on Daddys. Reviews on men4rent and others sites "star" ratings are not good enough for me. Daddys takes care in making sure people are legit. A negative review can reverberate in lost income for escorts. I feel the likely hood of paying in advance and then having a negative experience is slim to none, with previously reviewed escorts.

Tom has tons of great feedback and it is not a stretch to believe my time will be just as good. I spend hours deciding on who to contact and once I am satisfied that we will click then paying up front, sending a little extra for travel incidentals, having things the escort (and myself) wants available for the session and at least a decent meal when time allows.

When an escort travels to me, I see them as a guest. Yes I am a paying customer, and don't hesitate in letting the escort know when I want more.

I am not rich, nor in the 1% more like in the 47% but, one or two times a year doesn't break the bank. Of course if I was in the 1% then my escorts would be a travel related tax deduction off money I already don't pay a fair rate on.

I don't get to connect too often but when I do, I have every intention on making it as great as I can and expect the same of my escorts.

[Adam Michaels]

Well said Tom! Glad to see you're doing well these days too. I agree with all you said. I too get paid in advance for travel in particular. I only ask for 50% in advance and thought that was really cool that your client paid you in full in advance even though he didn't need to. I will say that I have several clients who do the same with me as well. It does feel nice, yes. I don't require it but always is nice. I do a few things to help develop, or foster a sense of trust with clients and daddys reviews helps for some, too. I guess it's easy to misconstrue your message for some, but I get how you meant it, and the intentions behind your posting such a thank you message too. Overnights are not always affordable by many, and this is not a bad thing since they do require a-lot from us escorts who care to prepare, make sure we're in great shape to give said client whatever great time he is wanting.

[Adam Michaels]

Agreed there maxwelissmart..... lol. I thoroughly enjoy what I do and personally feel it would be very difficult work if you really didn't love doing it. The personal satisfaction for me is everything too. It is a huge sacrifice on many levels. The money helps offset but would not be the sole reason because the sense of isolation, and constant, "being on call" tends to place severe limits on ones social life.

[maxwellissmart]

I pay in advance when I can. I have been with several escorts. Most of the time I have paid in full in advance between 1200 and 1800 with travel etc. The reason is simple. I am sincere and want the escort to know that. I would never send money to someone who isn't WELL reviewed on Daddys. Reviews on men4rent and others sites "star" ratings are not good enough for me. Daddys takes care in making sure people are legit. A negative review can reverberate in lost income for escorts. I feel the likely hood of paying in advance and then having a negative experience is slim to none, with previously reviewed escorts.

Tom has tons of great feedback and it is not a stretch to believe my time will be just as good. I spend hours deciding on who to contact and once I am satisfied that we will click then paying up front, sending a little extra for travel incidentals, having things the escort (and myself) wants available for the session and at least a decent meal when time allows.

When an escort travels to me, I see them as a guest. Yes I am a paying customer, and don't hesitate in letting the escort know when I want more.

I am not rich, nor in the 1% more like in the 47% but, one or two times a year doesn't break the bank. Of course if I was in the 1% then my escorts would be a travel related tax deduction off money I already don't pay a fair rate on.

I don't get to connect too often but when I do, I have every intention on making it as great as I can and expect the same of my escorts.

 

You need to be very careful with this sort of logic and generalizations about what will "ensure" a good appointment. It may be an expensive lesson for you one of these days—and there are plenty of threads detailing just that.

[Cooper]

oh cooper! i'm so glad you said what you said....

 

Tom, No problem and thanks for your very professional response. It did clear things up for me. Stay well... Coop

[Scorpio]

Of course if I was in the 1% then my escorts would be a travel related tax deduction

 

No they wouldn't. It's non-deductible whether you're the 1%, the 99%, or the 47%

[+ Tom Isern]

No they wouldn't. It's non-deductible whether you're the 1%, the 99%, or the 47%

 

of course it could be, and no doubt often is. how easy to pad a travel expense account with $1k or $2k in cash out when you're paying that for dinner and hotel.

[AdamSmith]

I don't think there's anything more unpleasant in the experience -- as someone who hires very regularly -- of picking an escort up from the train in the morning and having him get in the car, slump into the seat and declare "I'm not really a morning person, but I'll perk up later." Or having the first words out of their mouth be "let's go through the drivethrough McDonald's so I get a breakfast burrito."

 

Absolutely agree with your main point. But would pick a nit with your above detail: love it when I and an escort have gotten to know each other well enough that we CAN be irritable, bitchy, constipated or runny in each other's presence, and not care, and trust whichever of us is more capable of holding the other's emotions in the moment to do so. Be ourselves, that is to say, without worrying about manufacturing the presentation of self. That line of thought of course shades off into the issue of falling in love with your hooker, which has been done to death and beyond here. So leave it at that.

[Scorpio]

of course it could be, and no doubt often is. how easy to pad a travel expense account with $1k or $2k in cash out when you're paying that for dinner and hotel.

 

The fact that people take fraudulent deductions doesn't make them legitimate tax deductions. It wouldn't hold up under audit examination.

[AdamSmith]

The fact that people take fraudulent deductions doesn't make them legitimate tax deductions. It wouldn't hold up under audit examination.

 

Got that right. Whether you're self-employed (I am) or work for somebody else, there are in either event these pesky accountants. CPAs are by and large responsible professionals committed to upholding a professional ethic, and take a very dim view of any shenanigans. Of course cynical popular perception may differ but I think it's wrong, and I respect the CPAs I know for trying hard to make me and others do the right thing.

[Michael Wayne]

I agree with the post. I enjoy my clients supremely and am very thankful for them! http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[Steven_Draker]

I've had a number of excellent clients and no one from them have sent my entire fee prior to meeting up.

 

For me an "excellent" client would treat me with respect, will show up, be clean, follow up with his part of the commitment.

 

In a restaurant I never order the most expensive item of the menu (even if I'm invited to).

 

I see the escort-client relationship based on the mutual trust and respect and not as a power relationship.

[Bosguy]

I've had a number of excellent clients and no one from them have sent my entire fee prior to meeting up.

 

For me an "excellent" client would treat me with respect, will show up, be clean, follow up with his part of the commitment.

 

In a restaurant I never order the most expensive item of the menu (even if I'm invited to).

 

I see the escort-client relationship based on the mutual trust and respect and not as a power relationship.[/color]

 

Perfectly stated Steven!!

 

Boston Bill