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josephga Community Regular

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44 came out and lost my virginity at the age of 30 to my first bf. relationship lasted just over a year. I even remember the exact date dec 11th 1998 it was a friday. A few hours b4 the date I walked into the bathroom turned on the light looked into the mirror and said the words I am gay. Figured id need to admit it to myself b4 anyone else. I told my parents 3 months later.

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Did the First Production Number . . .

 

44 came out and lost my virginity at the age of 30 to my first bf. relationship lasted just over a year

 

I choreographed the first production number for friends and family at age 19 -

 

complete with backup dancers, a blowup doll and pictures. (To this day JAZZ HANDS make me cum)

 

 

My sister knew when I was 15 and wanted to know what took me so long to tell her.

 

I had my first male-male attraction, that I can recall at age 5 and have never been any other way.

 

I did try the other side and was severely disappointed - to quote Ms. Barbara Stanwyck from the VAGINA MONOLOGUES and of

 

the Big Screen and the 60's TV series "THE BIG VALLEY" fame (no pun intended)

 

"My Vagina is a Flower . . . The Dry Desert winds make me Prick. . . "

 

 

Yeah Sorry Babs - There was No PRICK! (Audra Get in the House!)

 

 

As Such I have been a devoted, almost obsessive Penilephile since kindergarten.

 

All Cock - All Man Ass - All the Time -

 

You are Listening to 6969 AM KCOK Chicago - All Cock - All the Time!

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Racketjock

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I figured things out for myself at age 9 when my best friend and I decided we both like to suck cock during sleep overs instead of watching cartoons. Was out to my friends since my teens and my family at age 18. That was decades ago now!

Lucky Grand Master

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I am 62 and am not yet out but working on it..being married and being out is a incongruous combination...which does slow me down.

 

I am tempted to say: Do it before you go. But, one thing I have learned here that what is right for one person may not be right for the other. I used to think that everyone should come out. But I have encountered several men here who have good reasons not to, or at least reasons that seem good. Since I am not the one who has to live with the consequences of the decision, I backed off from my desire to see everyone come out. So come out...if you can!

OneFinger Mentor

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I came out at about age 27 (it's hard for me to remember back that far). I'm currently nearing 60 years old.

 

But, I started having gay sex (with my best friend) when I was 12 years old. Took a very long time for me to realize / acknowledge my preference.

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Played around at 5. Suspected at 14. Knew at 17. Just didn't do anything (never denied it but never rose to the bait either) about it until last year, and I am now approaching 66.

adriano46 Community Regular

adriano46

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Boy, "It's complicated!" Started "experimenting" with a neighbor when we were both about 9 or 10 (sumo wrestling, which meant we rolled our underwear up to almost a thong and then had hot sweaty wrestling, each sporting 9-year old boners that stuck out like a unicorn's horn!); then with another neighbor at 10 through 13 going to vacant lots to just hang out, which almost always led to playing with our prepubescent cocks until one day his - and then mine - squirted some white stuff that scared the crap out of each of us!

 

Through high school, absolutely did NOTHING (which was rough in an all-boys school with very hot hung guys), but was a highly competetive varsity athlete and expended all y "energy" on the field; and in college only once or twice did anything, somehwhat innocently, in wrestling around (see above... a fantasy); again I was so wrapped up in sports and hanging out with friends (guys and gals) I never really experienced the late teen early twenty urges...

 

First real gay sex was in a boy brothel in Amsterdam at age 38, with a guy barely 18, an experience so awful that I nearly ran back and locked the closet forever. To this day, twinks do nothing for me.

 

Finally at 40 (and living in Europe) began experimenting more and more; due to job and position and recognition, never ever came out (nor has anyone I know ever suspected), and still have not come out to anyone but a few friends (maybe 5) who know me, my job, and my inclinations but whose lives do not in any way intersect with mine professionally nor even geographically). And - like others here -- well I'd prefer not reminding myself of my real age.

jgoo Community Regular

jgoo

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54, first started to realize I had some attraction to guys around the age of 12. First sexual experience, which was with an escort, was when I was about 30. Not out and have no desire to come out.

architectguy Rookie

architectguy

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I remember, at 5 years old, I wanted to sit in the lap of a male skater in Holiday on Ice. Started experimenting with friends at about 12. Screwed around with my best friend from church youth group at 15-16-17. (Actually screwed at church a time or two.)

 

Thought I had found love in college with a beautiful guy. Told some friends, not all, during college. Told my parents - per them, it was just a phase, they had several friends whose sons had gone through the same phase. (Where were they?)

 

College love cheated on me.

 

From that point, I lived the life of a satyr experimenting with all things human. All wrapped up in that Peggy Lee song. You know? Quite honestly, I'm surprised I'm still living.

 

At 38, I married my best friend and soul mate (real girl) and we have two kids. Wonderful life together as roommates with kids, now. Love being a husband and dad. Upstanding in my community.

 

We shared most of our prior lives' stories while we were dating. (Wish I'd met the Scottish guy she knew.)

 

Now, at 53, I indulge in hires when I have the chance. Very, very infrequently but like to make the most of the situation. Might have found one that I will go to again and again - we really connected.

Phil_musc Mentor

Phil_musc

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Fooled around (innocently - really!) as a child, but only twice. Had incredible masturbatory fantasies in early adolescence which led me to begin to suspect that maybe I preferred guys. Finally acted out at 16 or 17 (it's so long ago, I'm not sure - then too, didn't they change the calendar back then, Julian to something else or vice versa). Lived closeted for a number of years. Actually never formally came out (no announcements sent out to friends and relatives). But eventually, since I've lived with the same guy for over thirty years, people began to suspect (how perceptive of them). Now if it comes up in conversation I just roll with it. I guess I'm really just a very private person and am not one to share the intimate details of my life with co-workers (although most of them know at this point), friends and acquaintances, and family. I'm working on this however.

Italiano Grand Master

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First strange "attractions" when I was 8-9, first platonic falling in love for a friend when I was 15-16, first sex at 17 with an older (late 40s) man (didn't really enjoyed it), first fantastic sex when I was 19 with a 24 yo Hungarian (and hung!) boy met in the streets of Paris, first boyfriend with almost immediate coming out at 20. 31 years have passed by from coming out.

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