411 Richard DeSantis New Haven

[MFLV]

Wow, so strange to see an old post of mine from 2012. I was viewing the forum and saw this post and it was from me! Never took the plunge with Mr DeSantis so I can't provide any insight.

[FrankieMan]

I saw Richard DeSantis in the late 1990s--and he was old looking back then. And a completely mediocre experience on top of that. No passion, no sexual energy. Ugh.

I remember being with Richard DeSantis around the same time and he sure did not look old! He had a baby face! And my experience with him was AMAZING! You know what it sounds like? It sounds like you didn't turn him on or produce any chemistry with him and you're turning it around and blaming it on him! I recently saw him again and he continues to look AMAZING like he hasn't changed one bit and on top of that such a super nice guy and very intelligent.

[nynakedtop]

I had a peculiar encounter with Richard not long ago on a "non commercial" hook up site not long ago where he approached me. I would caution that he may have some "anger management" issues.

 

Proceed mindfully.

[whipped guy]

I just love how these old threads get resurrected! What is it about stuff from 2012!?! This morning someone commented on an Amazon review that I wrote back in 2012 and I got an email notification about it!

 

Here it is:

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=106442&scid=73583075&sp=1&pos=1&locid=1425&iid=38179

 

Enjoy! I sure did! [the ad, I mean ...]

 

And to think I actually clicked on the Rentboy link... Well just to see what would pop up... LOL

 

Here's an interesting tidbit: because Rentmen lets someone know who viewed their profile, he apparently reached out to me not even hours later, thanking me for my interest in hiring him, since he saw I viewed it.

 

Wishing Rentmen disabled that option. Don't like the idea that someone knows I'm creeping on their profile.

 

And no, in case you're wondering...I won't be hiring him. ROFLMAO. We'll see if he follows up a second time. To be continued; will report back.

 

ROFLMAO as well...

[Andy2]

I remember being with Richard DeSantis around the same time and he sure did not look old! He had a baby face! And my experience with him was AMAZING! You know what it sounds like? It sounds like you didn't turn him on or produce any chemistry with him and you're turning it around and blaming it on him! I recently saw him again and he continues to look AMAZING like he hasn't changed one bit and on top of that such a super nice guy and very intelligent.

 

FrankieMan joined the Forum on September 22. I have been a trusted member for two years. Anyone who has followed my posts knows that I provide highly reliable descriptions of guys I have seen. Sometimes, I post really favorable comments about guys with whom I had zero chemistry. I can assure Forum Members and Readers that Mr. DeSantis does not have a "babyface," and was an indifferent provider of services in the 1990s. I doubt that he has improved in the last twenty years. Indeed, if FrankieMan (our newbie) is either DeSantis or a buddy, that is further evidence that he is a scam artist or worse.

[mike carey]

@Andy2 frankie has one post in the forum but he did post another earlier today, which he subsequently deleted. It can only be described as a rant against others, asserting that their sole purpose for posting had been to denigrate a service provider. I thought of welcoming him to the forum and noting that he had ensured that anything he said would be taken seriously, but demured on the basis that such a statement would be blindingly obvious.

[Andy2]

@Andy2 frankie has one post in the forum but he did post another earlier today, which he subsequently deleted. It can only be described as a rant against others, asserting that their sole purpose for posting had been to denigrate a service provider. I thought of welcoming him to the forum and noting that he had ensured that anything he said would be taken seriously, but demured on the basis that such a statement would be blindingly obvious.

 

Mike, thanks for your observant post. As you know, 90% of the time my posted comments are very positive. (Though it must be admitted that I frequently post wildly positive things about A.J. Irons and Tristan Baldwin, so I do have my favorites!) Your report of Frankie's earlier (deleted) post suggests that FrankieMan = Richard DeSantis = Angry Ageing Queen

[nynakedtop]

Mike, thanks for your observant post. As you know, 90% of the time my posted comments are very positive. (Though it must be admitted that I frequently post wildly positive things about A.J. Irons and Tristan Baldwin, so I do have my favorites!) Your report of Frankie's earlier (deleted) post suggests that FrankieMan = Richard DeSantis = Angry Ageing Queen

 

... which would jive perfectly with my (previously posted) experience with the gentleman in question!

[rvwnsd]

FrankieMan joined the Forum on September 22. I have been a trusted member for two years. ...Indeed, if FrankieMan (our newbie) is either DeSantis or a buddy, that is further evidence that he is a scam artist or worse.

I am glad to have read the posts made after FrankieMan's, as you and others took the words right out of my mouth.

[FrankieMan]

Mike, thanks for your observant post. As you know, 90% of the time my posted comments are very positive. (Though it must be admitted that I frequently post wildly positive things about A.J. Irons and Tristan Baldwin, so I do have my favorites!) Your report of Frankie's earlier (deleted) post suggests that FrankieMan = Richard DeSantis = Angry Ageing Queen

Hi! I am not Richard. Just saw the thread and came on to say how my experience was with him. But wow! You just assume that I myself am Richard??? No I am not Richard. I'm sure he knows nothing about this, although I really don't know. But why would anyone saying what their positive experience was with him cause you to presume it is he himself? That's so weird! And awfully presumptuous of you and arrogant. I'm not interested in these kinds of forums. I went to look him up to rehire him and one of the things that came up was this thread and I clicked onto it. I had another great experience with him and decided to post it.

You say Angry Ageing Queen. Those are very negative and strong words. Do you know him personally? Because it is you who sounds angry. Very angry at him personally. And I have to say, if I had a negative experience with any sex service provider, I would say nothing. Why? Because I'm sure that it wouldn't be intentional. Not unless they stole money from me or something, then I'd report it or write about it, whatever. But damn! You sound like your word is the measure for everyone else to go by. Like your word is law. Who are you? And the way you speak of another tells a lot about you. If you only met him once, what are you so angry about years later? Did he kill your mother or something or blow up your car? So what if your experience wasn't what you wanted? So what? Oh, well. Mine definitely was! Maybe he was having a bad day that day you saw him? Maybe he wasn't and tried his best for you personally? But you go further and really bash him. Like you hate him and have this venom against him. Really it is so apparent in what you wrote and continue to. For instance, "He was old looking then". Why would anyone say such unkind words towards another? Those kinds of words come from someone who is venomous and angry and hostile. Like they want to hurt deliberately.And again, you are the one who appears to be angry, like an "Ageing Queen"- and those are using your own words. This I know. We all come from one father. one mother. Whether an escort or an attorney, not everyone is going to be happy with someone else all the time. We need to stop being at war with each other. Stop tearing each other down. Be of the belief that if you don't have anything good to say, don't put it out there. You are talking about real human beings with real feelings. How do you know what someone is going through at any point in their life? I've been disappointed by other escorts, although I haven't seen that many, but enough to say that quite a few disappointed me. But that was my personal experience. You could have been with the exact same escort and had a great one. So what? What does it matter? I look at some of the other replies back and forth and this is what makes me ashamed to be gay. It's like you all band together and tear someone to shreds and for what? You gang up on a real human being with real feelings for the intention of making him seem like a piece of garbage and dismiss him like he doesn't exist. What are you people doing? Do any of you know him actually personally? I've only been with him two times and both times he was engaging with me, offered me something to eat and drink and spent time showing interest in me on a personal level. He looks great, handsome and a great physique and more importantly, he is kind and caring and made me feel good not just physically, but emotionally as I am facing cancer at this time in my life. It's probably why I came to his defense, because none of us knows when our time is going to expire. We need to treat each other well while we are here and forgive grievances or misunderstandings. I'm sorry, but so many of you sound like viscous, horrible men who enjoy nothing more than to look for an opportunity to hurt another. No offense, but who sounds angry? Not I, but you Andy 2. I will not be back to check for a reply. I am not going to continue to partake of any forum that has so many hostile people on it. And one thing I'm sure of. You will go on to make yourself look innocent and justified. But anyone who has half a brain and half of a heart can see that you are venomous and malicious and totally positive to only those that you so favor based on one sole thing, your particular sexual experience with them. I would never go on line to tear someone down, or say negative things just because my personal experience with them wasn't what I wanted. Is something wrong with me for instance if I had a negative experience with an escort you happen to like? No. And the same applies to you. Stop being so presumptuous. So assuming. And yes, so angry. The way you write, you seem like just a dreadful, dreadful man who is bitter and resentful. But I don't know you. So I can't say for sure. But it is what you put out. I hope you have a better day today and I wish you peace and good things to happen to you and happiness in your life. I will not be back here. Soon I will begin chemo. Anything I take in, especially now, must be positive. I'm sorry, I don't see any positivity here. But I do wish you the very best. It feels so much better to wish each other well and be positive than to tear each other to shreds.

[DonaldTramp]

Love & light!

[edinbrooklyn]

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[Rudynate]

I had a peculiar encounter with Richard not long ago on a "non commercial" hook up site not long ago where he approached me. I would caution that he may have some "anger management" issues.

 

Proceed mindfully.

 

 

That was my impression. He approached me on RM. He tried to engage me in an interaction, but I resisted because I didnt think I was interested. But I did end up chatting back and forth a bit with him. He offered me a very attractive rate for a weekend. When I asked him how recent his pics were, he erupted.

[+ oldNbusted]

https://daddysreviews.com/review/richard_desantis_newhaven

[+ tristanbaldwin]

Interesting that it came from a reviewer with 5+ reviews, but if I was a newcomer to this discussion, I would trust the word of Andy2 above. It's beyond Platinum; he's one of the most enjoyable people to be with not only on the 'client' side of the fence, but as a friend as well. Have had him to my house, he's played with my dogs....over the top an awesome guy.

 

Just as Andy has indicated- he's had disappointing sessions with people before but is enough of a devil's advocate to still leave them great feedback on their positive features. For someone to disappoint HIM, says something IN BOLD CAPITAL LETTERS. #JustSayin'