Is this something legitimate to do?

[unsub2O17]

I have an out of town, very short, trip coming up. I will not know until, literally, the day before whether or not I will have time for a visit by an escort. If I do, there are about 5 in the area that I would be happy to meet. Is it legitimate to call more than one of them for the same time? Please let me be clear. I'm assuming that I will get their voice mail, and I'm thinking of leaving a message with the date and time that I would like to set up, but also stating that I have called a number of escorts that I am interested in and will most likely book with the first one who calls me back. Fair or not? Should I include something about myself like stats and desires or not? Thanks.

[Phil_musc]

Unsub, I am not an escort and so my opinion on this particular board doesn't count. But nevertheless I would offer my advice based on my experience. Your initial contact is only to establish contact with the escort. It is not any kind of a firm offer of work. You are looking for bidders for a job you have (not exactly, but I think you should be able to see the parallels here). Since time is of the essence for you, do you honestly think you should wait for the first guy to get back to you? If there are five guys who will do for you, contact them all. Wait and see what happens; it's not beyond the realm of possibility that at least one will d-q by not returning your call (possibly more than that). When the guy(s) get back to you, then you can decide what you think best. But if you tell all of them that you're negotiating with several others, it begins to seem like a bidding war and might be a little off-putting to them. As far as sending your stats, that has been discussed here quit a bit - why would you do this? Many escorts have weighed in on this point and they all say it is irrelevant to them. If you want to talk about your desires an other stuff, wait for the first contact from them. Enjoy your trip and hope it all works out for you.

[down_to_business]

No! Please rethink your strategy.

 

Try this instead:

 

1) Make a list of the five escorts in the area that you want to see in order of your preference.

2) As soon as you get confirmation of your schedule - the day before your trip, call escort 1 on your list.

3) If escort 1 doesn't answer, you have a decision to make, either leave your call back number and possibly when you would like to meet and ask for a return call within some defined time (ie 1 hour) or do not leave a message at all and call escort 2 from your list.

4) If you left a message, wait your time frame that you left acceptable for a callback, if you don't get your callback, then call the next escort on your list.

 

I would not leave any additional information on your voicemail, you can discuss all of the relevant stuff with that escort if they answer the phone or call you back in the allowable time frame that you gave them. It also serves no benefit to tell them that you will call another escort etc. Keep your message, sweet, simple and to the point. Hopefully within the first hour, you will have set up your appointment, almost an entire day before the appointment, and managed not to piss off half the escorts in a given city!

 

Good Luck to you.

[instudiocity]

I think you should just call and say, "I'm traveling into your area on Day/Date and would like to set something up with you."

 

Whether you're leaving a voice mail, email, text or speaking directly to the escort, you've given him enough information to respond to you. If you leave a message with 1 or 100 escorts, it doesn't.

 

Setting an appointment will ultimately come down to who responds. I think you've over-thinking the initial contact.

[+ Charlie]

I agree with isc. Your initial contact is simply an inquiry about availability, not a commitment to anything. I would call everyone, and wait to see who calls back. My experience is that those who are not available won't bother to call back, and if you sit around waitng for one of them before calling another, the next one may no longer be available. I wouldn't leave any specific info about your interests on a message--there is no reason to give them that if they are not going to be available anyway.

[nate_sf]

I think the advice here is good, and it's interesting to get the clients' perspective on it. I think most if not all escorts know you are probably considering more than one choice, but you don't need to make a big issue of it or risk insulting someone you'd like to meet.

 

Based on the suggestions from others here I'd suggest:

 

1. Assuming any one of the five would be acceptable, make a call down your list of potential escorts but don't leave voicemails if you don't get them directly on the phone. Go through the whole list and see if you can get one of them to answer directly.

 

2. If you don't get any of them to answer directly, then go back and leave the voicemail messages (or emails if you prefer). As others have suggested, all you need to ask is if they are available at the designated date and time. It's not a commitment, you're just checking to see if their schedule is free.

 

3. Take notes of who you've called including their name, screename, and some basic characteristics and keep them handy. Why? Few things are more irritating for an escort than returning a call and being asked "Which one were you again? I called a bunch of guys." Yes, we're big boys and rationally we know you are probably calling a bunch of guys, but our hearts and egos like to think you are wanting us specifically. Even worse is if you let on that the guy you are talking to is not your first choice - not a big motivator!

 

Chances are at least one of the five will either answer on your first round, or return your call fairly quickly so you can make an appointment for your fun.

[unsub2O17]

I think the advice here is good, and it's interesting to get the clients' perspective on it. I think most if not all escorts know you are probably considering more than one choice, but you don't need to make a big issue of it or risk insulting someone you'd like to meet.

 

Based on the suggestions from others here I'd suggest:

 

1. Assuming any one of the five would be acceptable, make a call down your list of potential escorts but don't leave voicemails if you don't get them directly on the phone. Go through the whole list and see if you can get one of them to answer directly.

 

2. If you don't get any of them to answer directly, then go back and leave the voicemail messages (or emails if you prefer). As others have suggested, all you need to ask is if they are available at the designated date and time. It's not a commitment, you're just checking to see if their schedule is free.

 

3. Take notes of who you've called including their name, screename, and some basic characteristics and keep them handy. Why? Few things are more irritating for an escort than returning a call and being asked "Which one were you again? I called a bunch of guys." Yes, we're big boys and rationally we know you are probably calling a bunch of guys, but our hearts and egos like to think you are wanting us specifically. Even worse is if you let on that the guy you are talking to is not your first choice - not a big motivator!

 

Chances are at least one of the five will either answer on your first round, or return your call fairly quickly so you can make an appointment for your fun.

 

Thank you, Nate. That is exactly what I'll do (and won't do)!

[unsub2O17]

Thought I'd report back. I followed Nate's advice to the letter. Would up with my second choice (#1 was out of town but all got back to me) within a couple of hours. Had a terrific time.

[nate_sf]

Thought I'd report back. I followed Nate's advice to the letter. Would up with my second choice (#1 was out of town but all got back to me) within a couple of hours. Had a terrific time.

 

Good to hear! My suggestions were a composite of what others had also suggested in the thread, so I'd say this was a team effort from the Forum. Also great that all the guys got back to you eventually.

[unsub2O17]

Good to hear! My suggestions were a composite of what others had also suggested in the thread, so I'd say this was a team effort from the Forum. Also great that all the guys got back to you eventually.

 

Very true, my friends. This "team" not only got me a great experience, but set me on the road for future appointments with all of the guys that I was interested in (including the one that I connected with). Wow!