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Steve , when you read this, I hope you will have been well & truly fucked (in the good way, of course ;) )

 

When I look back through this thread, I do see support for you. I think this board is definitely client-biased by it's very nature, and this thread shows that, to an extent.

 

I think only you can make the appropriate risk/benefit decision as to what is the best course of action for you.. In this instance, the client does NOT come first.

 

I think it did bother some of us clients when you expressed your distatse for the fetish of the client so explicitly - but perhaps we have a bit of a knee-jerk reaction whenever an escort expresses dislike to a client's preferences.

 

He was fab, Seeker, I don't see him often enough. A nice one who knows what he's doing.

 

I am sorry I was explicit about his fetish but maybe it's good that clients can see what we have to put up with sometimes. I am sure guys you've seen have told you about the sort of guys that can walk through the door. I don't mind cross dressers at all. I will even wear panties for them if they want (yes I have some ladies underwear) it's not my thing and I look a tit in them but if he gets rock hard feeling my bum in a pair of French panties then I am doing something right. That is as far as I am prepared to go on the cross dressing front though. No heels or a Madonna boob tube for me sorry. I even have tranny porn for the guys who like it. I can put up with being caned over a guys knee in football shorts, to wearing panties, to dressing as a prison guard (yes I have a prison officer uniform), to being part of a rugby team, seduced in the showers by coach, with mud on my knees from my garden lol. I can do the works but I can't do daughter in law panty sniffing. I can't

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Steve -- I'm a little late to the party, but I'll chime in anyway. You state repeatedly that you ignore and avoid your client's calls because you don't want to be rude to him. I think that behavior is incredibly rude and disrespectful. It would be much kinder of you to answer his call and tell him that you appreciate his interest but cannot see him. You do not have to be mean, judgmental, or rude when you inform him. If he asks why, explain to him that you do not share his role playing interests and do not want to participate any longer. The next time he tricks you and shows up at your door, you should be polite but firm while explaining that you do not want to proceed with the appointment. Although the client should not trick you to get an appointment, you share some blame for your refusal to talk to him like an adult when he calls. If he gets upset when you tell him you don't want to do it anymore, so be it. You shouldn't be guiled or tricked into double ng something you don't want to do, but the only way to stop it is to address the situation directly.

 

Oh, and just so you know—I told a client earlier today that I would be unable to see him while he was in town because I don't have any availability (he waited two weeks from the last time he contacted me and my schedule is full now) and I'm going on a trip. Apparently "sorry, but have a good time while you're here" isn't good enough. During the several hours I've been away from my computer I've gotten an ongoing litany of "evenings? weekend? you're not trying hard enough! are you going to answer me? ? ? ? ? ? ) from him. The problem isn't that I wasn't honest or kind—the problem is that he's someone who won't take "no" for an answer. I've given him my final thoughts on the matter, and now I'm done. If he wants to try to show up at my door via some trickery, good luck.

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Oh, and just so you know—I told a client earlier today that I would be unable to see him while he was in town because I don't have any availability (he waited two weeks from the last time he contacted me and my schedule is full now) and I'm going on a trip. Apparently "sorry, but have a good time while you're here" isn't good enough. During the several hours I've been away from my computer I've gotten an ongoing litany of "evenings? weekend? you're not trying hard enough! are you going to answer me? ? ? ? ? ? ) from him. The problem isn't that I wasn't honest or kind—the problem is that he's someone who won't take "no" for an answer. I've given him my final thoughts on the matter, and now I'm done. If he wants to try to show up at my door via some trickery, good luck.

 

Obviously, these types of people are akin to stalkers, and regular people have them too. However, the less they know about you, the more protected you are. But determination is a powerful thing, and if they want to get to you, they WILL. If you suspect a person is not "playing wih a full deck", its always prudent to excercise caution to the best of your ability. Really nothing more you can do, save from going to the authorities....

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Or refer him to some one overseas ^.^

 

Believe me, I have no idea why he's latched on to me—and he's apparently some rich kid who gets what he wants by snapping his fingers. He's told me I need to get back to him with dates/times asap, I have to pick him up for the appointment—and it doesn't help that he has a laundry list of expectations for the meeting, which must be "memorable and romantic."

 

Oh, and he only wants to meet for an hour. So I guess I need to get hopping on that rose petal path and training the horse to bow.

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Believe me, I have no idea why he's latched on to me—and he's apparently some rich kid who gets what he wants by snapping his fingers. He's told me I need to get back to him with dates/times asap, I have to pick him up for the appointment—and it doesn't help that he has a laundry list of expectations for the meeting, which must be "memorable and romantic."

 

Oh, and he only wants to meet for an hour. So I guess I need to get hopping on that rose petal path and training the horse to bow.

 

Oh Max, dont be so modest. You know we ALL are smitten with your animal magnetism and air of mystery ! Are you gonna pick him up on the bus ?

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Oh Max, dont be so modest. You know we ALL are smitten with your animal magnetism and air of mystery ! Are you gonna pick him up on the bus ?

 

It's because I'm stunningly handsome.

 

Now if he'd let me fuck him on a picnic table in the middle of Rock Creek Park, we might have a deal...

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Believe me, I have no idea why he's latched on to me—and he's apparently some rich kid who gets what he wants by snapping his fingers. He's told me I need to get back to him with dates/times asap, I have to pick him up for the appointment—and it doesn't help that he has a laundry list of expectations for the meeting, which must be "memorable and romantic."

 

Oh, and he only wants to meet for an hour. So I guess I need to get hopping on that rose petal path and training the horse to bow.

 

You've done what you can, told him no. Just delete the email or messages or what ever.

 

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I don't want him. I've enough with Tallulah Tits turning up at the door

 

AH HA HA HA you do get props for actually putting up with that guy.

 

I know it has been suggested before, but if you are in the US you should use Google Voice for your phone number. That way you will be able to block people so you don't have to be bothered with those creepy phone calls.

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I know it has been suggested before, but if you are in the US you should use Google Voice for your phone number. That way you will be able to block people so you don't have to be bothered with those creepy phone calls.

 

We don't have google voice in England, I have all my "tossers" in a nice little group on my iPhone with their own dedicated ringtone. It's called "Silent"

 

I downloaded an iPhone ringtone that is completely silent so if they call I don't even notice. Works wonders

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We don't have google voice in England, I have all my "tossers" in a nice little group on my iPhone with their own dedicated ringtone. It's called "Silent"

 

I downloaded an iPhone ringtone that is completely silent so if they call I don't even notice. Works wonders

 

I know, sucks. I don't think they even have it in Canadia. But the next best thing really is the silent ring tone.

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Hi Steve,

 

 

 

I remember this client who once told me "never violate yourself". In other words, set your limits when doing your job and don't cross them. From what you wrote it looks like you crossed your own limits. If that's the case then I'm sorry for you.

 

There are things I won't do, like sc*t. Nevertheless, if such a client finds someone else to "play" with, then I wish him and his buddy all the pleasure and excitement of the world. Since they'll only be having fun and as they're not doing any harm to me or others I won't judge their way of having fun and pleasure.

 

Just my two cents to contribute to a colorful discussion.

 

Sincerely, Anton.

 

I agree and disagree with this statement. First, my limits are sometimes my undoing and cost me money and clients and opportunities—and this board's posts have help me see that. Second, when I started I was primarily a bottom. Now I'm primarily a top. While escorting hasn't made me realize I'm actually something extremely different from when I started, it has allowed me to sample a lot of wares. Escorting is like Costco.

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I agree and disagree with this statement. First, my limits are sometimes my undoing and cost me money and clients and opportunities—and this board's posts have help me see that. Second, when I started I was primarily a bottom. Now I'm primarily a top. While escorting hasn't made me realize I'm actually something extremely different from when I started, it has allowed me to sample a lot of wares. Escorting is like Costco.

 

Bagels and Crisco? Ewwww ... OOOOOOH, it was Costco. That's better. Nevermind.

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