Advice please on anal

[+ Italiano]

The effect of Imodium depends on the individual. But generally, it slows down the frequency of bowel movements. For some people, that causes a harder stool. For people with a medical condition that causes chronic loose bowels, it can give them more control over their bowel movements. A lot of people with IBS and similar conditions take Imodium daily. If a person routinely has multiple bowel movements per day, medicine like Imodium can prevent urgent trips to the restroom and allow the person to avoid the sort of leakage or accidents the OP indicated he sometimes has.

 

Xafnndapp -- I'm sure that taking it a few hours before can help as well.

 

 

Thanks for the advice.

I was going to meet Gavin from Chicago (HUUGE and THICK!) and wanted to be as clean as possible, took 1/2 Imodium 3-4 hours before (apart from douching, of course), and I was spic 'n span like a flower!

[jjkrkwood]

Thanks for the advice.

I was going to meet Gavin from Chicago (HUUGE and THICK!) and wanted to be as clean as possible, took 1/2 Imodium 3-4 hours before (apart from douching, of course), and I was spic 'n span like a flower!

 

What a beautiful Sucksess story ! I used 3 Kleenex !

[tom1980]

Thanks for the advice.

I was going to meet Gavin from Chicago (HUUGE and THICK!) and wanted to be as clean as possible, took 1/2 Imodium 3-4 hours before (apart from douching, of course), and I was spic 'n span like a flower!

 

Glad it worked for you! I look forward to reading the review when it comes out.

[unsub2O17]

Thanks for the advice.

I was going to meet Gavin from Chicago (HUUGE and THICK!) and wanted to be as clean as possible, took 1/2 Imodium 3-4 hours before (apart from douching, of course), and I was spic 'n span like a flower!

 

Is that one half of an Imodium or one to two Imodium? I'm intrigued by Max's notion (on the other thread) that high fiber vs. low fiber foods make a difference. Does anyone have an opinion on this??

[tom1980]

People digest fiber differently. As with most things, it all depends on your body chemistry. Test it out and see what works for you.

[Decatur Guy]

I don't have a perfect track record with this, but this usually seems to work. Let's say I have something planned for Friday night, and I'm going to bottom.

 

Tuesday is my last day for anything goes eating -- last day for anything very heavy, spicy or greasy or big portions.

 

Wednesday I try to each normally and moderately -- chicken/fruits/veggies/sandwiches/cereal. But no Mexican, etc.

 

Thursday I will eat yogurt for breakfast, a regular lunch and a light supper.

 

On Friday morning I take an Imodium after I go to the bathroom. For lunch, only yogurt and/or a cheese sandwich. No food six hours before appointment. I drink a little Pepto a couple of hours beforehand and do my cleaning out about two or three hours ahead of time.

[jjkrkwood]

I don't have a perfect track record with this, but this usually seems to work. Let's say I have something planned for Friday night, and I'm going to bottom.

 

Tuesday is my last day for anything goes eating -- last day for anything very heavy, spicy or greasy or big portions.

 

Wednesday I try to each normally and moderately -- chicken/fruits/veggies/sandwiches/cereal. But no Mexican, etc.

 

Thursday I will eat yogurt for breakfast, a regular lunch and a light supper.

 

On Friday morning I take an Imodium after I go to the bathroom. For lunch, only yogurt and/or a cheese sandwich. No food six hours before appointment. I drink a little Pepto a couple of hours beforehand and do my cleaning out about two or three hours ahead of time.

 

 

OMG, I could NEVER. I am soooooo glad I aint into anal.... And if I ever was, it would just be shoving a dildo up my ass when I was alone and dont have to worry about "accidents".

OR I would buy one of those "fucking" machines and name it Big Vito. Then I would eat a big, greasy swiss cheese burger, onion rings, then lube up and enjoy MYSELF!

 

You guys are far too dedicated and regimented for me..... and just to get "fucked" ? No way !

[Decatur Guy]

OMG, I could NEVER. I am soooooo glad I aint into anal.... And if I ever was, it would just be shoving a dildo up my ass when I was alone and dont have to worry about "accidents".

OR I would buy one of those "fucking" machines and name it Big Vito. Then I would eat a big, greasy swiss cheese burger, onion rings, then lube up and enjoy MYSELF!

 

You guys are far too dedicated and regimented for me..... and just to get "fucked" ? No way !

 

LOL ... The only part that's really that out of the ordinary for me are the Friday preps -- the Imodium, the really extra-light eating and the cleaning out.

 

The stuff on Wednesday/Thursday is the way i try to live anyway. I just make damn sure I do if I have an appointment.

[jjkrkwood]

LOL ... The only part that's really that out of the ordinary for me are the Friday preps -- the Imodium, the really extra-light eating and the cleaning out.

 

The stuff on Wednesday/Thursday is the way i try to live anyway. I just make damn sure I do if I have an appointment.

 

I constantly feel like the Odd-man out for NOT liking anal, but hey, someones gotta Hate it !

[unsub2O17]

I don't have a perfect track record with this, but this usually seems to work. Let's say I have something planned for Friday night, and I'm going to bottom.

 

Tuesday is my last day for anything goes eating -- last day for anything very heavy, spicy or greasy or big portions.

 

Wednesday I try to each normally and moderately -- chicken/fruits/veggies/sandwiches/cereal. But no Mexican, etc.

 

Thursday I will eat yogurt for breakfast, a regular lunch and a light supper.

 

On Friday morning I take an Imodium after I go to the bathroom. For lunch, only yogurt and/or a cheese sandwich. No food six hours before appointment. I drink a little Pepto a couple of hours beforehand and do my cleaning out about two or three hours ahead of time.

 

Very interesting, DG. Thanks. I get it all except for the Pepto. Why that?

[unsub2O17]

OMG, I could NEVER. I am soooooo glad I aint into anal.... And if I ever was, it would just be shoving a dildo up my ass when I was alone and dont have to worry about "accidents".

OR I would buy one of those "fucking" machines and name it Big Vito. Then I would eat a big, greasy swiss cheese burger, onion rings, then lube up and enjoy MYSELF!

 

You guys are far too dedicated and regimented for me..... and just to get "fucked" ? No way !

 

But how do you "really" feel, JJ?? DG's response is good. It's really not that much when you look carefully at it. And, of course, the real issue is "is it worth it?". I think I know how you'd come down on that one.

[jjkrkwood]

But how do you "really" feel, JJ?? DG's response is good. It's really not that much when you look carefully at it. And, of course, the real issue is "is it worth it?". I think I know how you'd come down on that one.

 

Well you've already called me the Queen of Subtlety, and as subtle as a Trainwreck, so I really didnt want to disappoint you. And what really is the point of beating around the bush ?

And YES, DG's post WAS good, and thorough and I am sure VERY usefull to those people that have a need and desire for anal. If you havent noticed, I aint one of them, and yet, I am still quite sexually fulfilled. Go figure !

[tom1980]

Very interesting, DG. Thanks. I get it all except for the Pepto. Why that?

 

I'd guess pepto is for the same reason as the Imodium. Indigestion often leads to diarrhea. I spent a while experimenting with Imodium dosage a couple of years ago when I was on an allergy medication that caused some digestive issues, but sometimes I would add in another medication (usually alkseltzer or tums rather than pepto) to make sure everything was under control. I was extraordinarily glad when I found a different allergy medication and no longer had to deal with the issues. Now I just take a precautionary dose of Imodium the day before a meeting, and I almost never have an issue. You have to experiment and figure out what works best for your body.

[Decatur Guy]

I constantly feel like the Odd-man out for NOT liking anal, but hey, someones gotta Hate it !

 

Hey, I like it. But not all the time. There are times that's the last thing I'd want to do. I've got to be in the mood for it.

[Decatur Guy]

Very interesting, DG. Thanks. I get it all except for the Pepto. Why that?

 

Pepto helps with diarrhea (like a little booster to the Imodium) and tends to calm the stomach. Also, I don't want to take more than one Imodium. I'd like to resume normal evacuations the next day!

[jjkrkwood]

Hey, I like it. But not all the time. There are times that's the last thing I'd want to do. I've got to be in the mood for it.

 

Just seems like way too much preparation for something that should potentially be fun and spontaneous. After going thru all that riga-marole to get ready, I'd be exhausted, disgusted, and just want to take a nap. Keep that thing away from my Ass ! :o

[tom1980]

I agree with DG that I don't feel like it all the time. But when I see an escort I usually do want to bottom because I do enjoy it. It's not for everyone, and that's fine.

 

As far as prep time, I think you are overestimating what it takes jj. If you are already planning to shower, shave, brush your teeth, and otherwise ensure good grooming and hygiene before you go see an escort (things you should probably do even if you aren't planning to have anal sex), then adding 5 minutes or less to douche/enema and scrub your ass with soap to make sure you are nice and clean doesn't make much of a difference. If you need to follow a special diet or take a dose of medicine, that takes a little more forethought, but still shouldn't be a big impediment.

 

I'm not saying everyone should bottom or have anal sex, but I do think we should be clear about the level of preparation required so that those who do want to try it don't feel intimidated because they mistakenly think preparation is incredibly arduous. It isn't that difficult or time consuming. For first timers, it can take a bit longer because you have to get the necessary prep items, but once you have things on hand and know how to use them, getting ready to bottom can be very quick and easy.

[Decatur Guy]

Yeah, I just never thought of it as complicated or too time-consuming, etc.

[Phil_musc]

The voice of sanity returns - some of the described regimens were just too arduous, I thought. This seems much more doable.

[unsub2O17]

I really don't consider what's been suggested arduous. I do have a question about order, i.e. douche, immodium, light meal, second douche at least 2-3 hours before, then nothing except the preparation (shower, etc.) that Tom mentioned. Do I have this right??

[unsub2O17]

I really don't consider what's been suggested arduous. I do have a question about order, i.e. douche, immodium, light meal, second douche at least 2-3 hours before, then nothing except the preparation (shower, etc.) that Tom mentioned. Do I have this right??

 

Silly question. I already have the answer. Every person is different. I do what works best for me. There is no rigid order.

[Rod Hagen]

Joseph had it right. If you don't want to, don't do it. I hate to say this, but SOMETIMES when things have gone slightly dark during fucking, but neither of us FEEL finished, I've moved the fucking into the shower. Problem solved! (I can't believe I just said that!)

 

p.s. Immodium is a great suggestion, but be forewarned Immodium is CEMENT.

[jjkrkwood]

Joseph had it right. If you don't want to, don't do it. I hate to say this, but SOMETIMES when things have gone slightly dark during fucking, but neither of us FEEL finished, I've moved the fucking into the shower. Problem solved! (I can't believe I just said that!)

 

p.s. Immodium is a great suggestion, but be forewarned Immodium is CEMENT.

 

YUP, as I wrote in a previous Post, I ended up in the emergency room for OVER-IMMODIUM. It was horrendous.

[unsub2O17]

First, I want to thank the entire forum for being so responsive to, what for me, is a major issue. Your suggestions have been terrific and SO appreciated. I don't know if anyone cares or can use what I've tried, but I'd like to tell you. I set up a "clinical" experiment. I won't go into details, but it did involve a light meal, Imodium, a dildo, and Fleets. And--it worked like a charm! I am also pleased to report that, again for just me, Imodium had no negative after effects. A return to regular diet was all that was needed. So, at last, I can separate the two issues and really get down to evaluating what I think of anal! Thank you. Thank you.

[tom1980]

Congratulations, unsub! I hope your experimentation helps you figure out soon whether you enjoy bottoming or if it isn't for you.