Advice please on anal

[unsub2O17]

I know that this has been gone over a lot, but I really don't know what to do. I have tried everything that I can think of to make sure that I am "squeaky clean". I have used multiple enemas. I have used clear liquid diets for 24 hours. I have tried no liquids for at least 8 hours. I have rinsed to clear right before the session, and still there have been embarrassing accidents--not often but often enough to make me worry about it. I like anal, but I don't love it. And I do not like having to worry about being embarrassed. So, I am thinking of just giving it up. But what if the escort, himself, really wants to? His experience is paramount to me. So, please, are there any ideas of what else I can do to make this work and embarrassment free??

[josephga]

But what if the escort, himself, really wants to?

 

If you don't love it or just don't want too do it then don't do it. it's your money your session, its about you, his wants don't matter.

[JoeyBryant]

I have rinsed to clear right before the session, and still there have been embarrassing accidents--

 

That's part of the issue right there. You want to wait at least 30 minutes, even an hour to allow your insides to absorb the water. If you go right into it right away, you might as well not even cleaned out at all.

 

In addition, make sure you're using pre-measured amounts. You do it in the shower you're going to end up with a half of gallon of water up in there (at 2.5 gpm) which is way too much. Squeeze water in, pull tube out while bottle still squeezed...and then squirt it out after 20 seconds so you don't get it on your hands. I know some packages say don't hold the water and to let it flow freely, but that's for vaginas and it'll end up being ineffective and just making a mess. You also shouldn't have to use multiple enemas. 2-3 should be enough. 1 to pre-clean, 2 to clean, 3 to rinse. 4 to spot free rinse.

 

Disclaimer: I am not a bottom. I just know how to bottom...

[BostonPhil]

Shit happens...

 

Do you think no straight men have finished up to find themselves a little pink? Fitst, don't worry about it so much or you will not enjoy the experience. Joey is correct in that most of the time you will not need more than one but a lot depends on the size of your escort. Take it from some one who has taken a 12 incher (okay so it was 11.5 but at that point, does it really matter?) it took a while before I felt I was clean enough for that. And this is where it might get a little gross guys, DON'T READ IT!

 

I had surgery all up in there to remove a tumor, I gained a lot more knowledge about my poor little bum that way and how to help myself out. First, without knowing the consistency of your stool is difficult. If they are really loose you can try taking something to thicken them up a bit like a calcium supplement. If they are already pretty firm you should be good to go. Just relax, do your enema, evacuate and go have a glass of wine. Think of it like if you were going to try to add water to mud... And contrast that with, I dunno, spraying gravel off your driveway.

 

But as I said before, relax. Enjoy it. If it happens there is nothing to be embarrassed about, it happens.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

To Be Absolutely Sure!

 

I know that this has been gone over a lot, but I really don't know what to do. I have tried everything that I can think of to make sure that I am "squeaky clean". I have used multiple enemas. I have used clear liquid diets for 24 hours. I have tried no liquids for at least 8 hours. I have rinsed to clear right before the session, and still there have been embarrassing accidents--not often but often enough to make me worry about it. I like anal, but I don't love it. And I do not like having to worry about being embarrassed. So, I am thinking of just giving it up. But what if the escort, himself, really wants to? His experience is paramount to me. So, please, are there any ideas of what else I can do to make this work and embarrassment free??

 

After you do a couple of clean outs - done a couple of hours in advance of your session - Then nothing but liquids or very lite fare

 

yogurt, jello, pudding, broth, etc. And take an Immodium - The Immodium will keep anything from "moving down the

 

pike" and unless you are getting DEEP Fisted you can take that 12incher (11.5) discussed earlier without any worries.

 

And if you desire you can take large toys and even a Fist well past the second sphincter.

 

Do one last small douche about an hour before session.

 

After your fun - eat a high fiber diet - along with a container of probiotic yogurt and you'll be back to normal later that day or the

 

next morning.

 

 

I Love to Fist a Hot Bottom Pig long and Deep - But don't like messy surprises. I have found this to be a fool proof recipe.

[tom1980]

Taking Imodium or something similar the day before can also help if you tend to have loose stools.

[josephga]

you want a good cleaning out about a day b4 drink a citrus of magnesium. that stuff taste god awful nasty but will clean a person out good

[JoeyBryant]

Taking Imodium or something similar the day before can also help if you tend to have loose stools.

 

Oh yeah, that stuffs amazing. I think the OP may be dealing with IBS, (irritable butt syndrome) and that will help.

[unsub2O17]

So I've been doing just exactly the wrong thing? Figures. I'm off to the store to get some Imodium. Thank you all so much.

[jasoncarter_dfw]

Joey is spot on...after your thorough douching you have to give your body that time to absorb....and imodium that morning is a good idea as well. While I don't bottom professionally, I do in my personal life at home...and I utilize a streammaster to get clean an hour before and I haven't had any issues.

 

BUT...let's have real talk here...it is anal sex! Even if someone meticulously prepares...shit happens (pun intended!). I don't care if a tad bit pops up...but if it's a floodgate...well that's different!

[jjkrkwood]

If you don't love it or just don't want too do it then don't do it. it's your money your session, its about you, his wants don't matter.

 

I totally agree Joseph, but if you read a bit further, you will see that part of unsubs satisfaction and enjoyment comes from pleasing his HIRE. Its kinda like role play, a subservient role perhaps ? My advice, do the Best you can in preparing if its important to you, but there are never any Guarantees. Accidents DO happen, and your escort would probably agree.

 

And thanks guys, this thread has totally reminded me of WHY I abandoned ANAL years ago.... and dont miss it either !

[jawjateck]

you want a good cleaning out about a day b4 drink a citrus of magnesium. that stuff taste god awful nasty but will clean a person out good

 

A better magnesium alternative is Natural Vitality's: "Natural Calm: Relaxing Magnesium Supplement". It is billed as the anti-stress drink. While I don't have much stress in my life, I do take it regularly for the health benefits. Seems to make my joints feel better, and it does keep things moving down there. It is lemon-flavored and sweetened with organic stevia, so the taste is ok.

 

Get rid of stress, and get cleaned out.....what a deal huh?

 

Disclaimer: I'm not an owner, marketer, employee, blah, blah for this product; just a satisfied customer. hahahahaha.....

[+ Italiano]

Taking Imodium or something similar the day before can also help if you tend to have loose stools.

 

Taking Imodium a few hours before is good also?

[jjkrkwood]

My understanding has always been that Imodium "solidifies" the contents. what good is that, its STILL there ?

 

I thought the purpose in preparing was to get rid of the contents???

[tom1980]

The effect of Imodium depends on the individual. But generally, it slows down the frequency of bowel movements. For some people, that causes a harder stool. For people with a medical condition that causes chronic loose bowels, it can give them more control over their bowel movements. A lot of people with IBS and similar conditions take Imodium daily. If a person routinely has multiple bowel movements per day, medicine like Imodium can prevent urgent trips to the restroom and allow the person to avoid the sort of leakage or accidents the OP indicated he sometimes has.

 

Xafnndapp -- I'm sure that taking it a few hours before can help as well.

[jjkrkwood]

The effect of Imodium depends on the individual. But generally, it slows down the frequency of bowel movements. For some people, that causes a harder stool. For people with a medical condition that causes chronic loose bowels, it can give them more control over their bowel movements. A lot of people with IBS and similar conditions take Imodium daily. If a person routinely has multiple bowel movements per day, medicine like Imodium can prevent urgent trips to the restroom and allow the person to avoid the sort of leakage or accidents the OP indicated he sometimes has.

 

Xafnndapp -- I'm sure that taking it a few hours before can help as well.

 

thanks for the explanation tom, but the way I see it, your pipes are still clogged..... Oh, and BTW, Congrats on your Master-ship !

[josephga]

There's different types of IBS there's the type where a persons very loose stool like chronic diarrhea. Then there's IBS that's chronic constipation. I started suffering from the constipation type at the age of 14 sometimes only going to the bathroom twice a week. which imo contributed to me having cancer in 02.. If you have that form of IBS do not take Imodium

[jjkrkwood]

There's different types of IBS there's the type where a persons very loose stool like chronic diarrhea. Then there's IBS that's chronic constipation. I started suffering from the constipation type at the age of 14 sometimes only going to the bathroom twice a week. which imo contributed to me having cancer in 02.. If you have that form of IBS do not take Imodium

 

I took Imodium once for a bout of excessive "run", and apparently OD'd on it and ended up in the emergency room for acute constipation where I needed to be "blasted" clear. My stomach was distended like I was 9 months pregnant....

[+ Cash4Trash]

My $00.02 for what it's worth.

 

Eat rice, cheese or another food that binds the stool starting 2/3 days before hand. Firmed up stool cleans out more easily.

 

1/2 hour before the appointment use a dildo in your butt a number of times. It will help pull out residual water.

[tom1980]

Oh, and BTW, Congrats on your Master-ship !

 

It's odd. I kept looking for the orange dot to quickly identify my posts (perhaps I should upload an avatar) so I'd know where I stopped reading a thread, but my name wasn't next to any of the orange dots. Then I realized my dot turned yellow. It was kind of disorienting.

[unsub2O17]

Look at that, Tom, just happened to me too! There was a song once that said, "look for the union label." OK, now we say "look for the yellow label."

[unsub2O17]

What I was going to say was that I think the dildo is a great idea--not just for "clearing" things out but for "checking" things out.

[tom1980]

Ha. That's funny, unsub. I kind of feel like we're twins. Same join date and same level/dot color. But I must say, I don't share your desire to purchase Japanese nipple rings/clamps. While I find certain things intriguing in theory, I know that in reality pain decreases my libido.

[gallahadesquire]

It's odd. I kept looking for the orange dot to quickly identify my posts (perhaps I should upload an avatar) so I'd know where I stopped reading a thread, but my name wasn't next to any of the orange dots. Then I realized my dot turned yellow. It was kind of disorienting.

 

you're coming up in this world! Congratulations!

[Devon Britt-Darby]

It sounds like you're going through an awful lot of trouble to go through for something you don't love to do. You may find the Immodium suggestion helpful physically. But I also think you'd be smart to let your escort know in advance that you won't be looking to -- and therefore won't be preparing to -- get plowed, but that his experience is, as you say, paramount to you. But if you're someone who likes to rehire an escort you've had a great time with, maybe you could leave the (back) door open to him fucking you during a future encounter if that's something you both want to do. Part of your anxiety over embarrassment may come from not knowing/being totally comfortable with an escort. If you enjoy your first (or second, or third) time together, chances are down the road you'll be less stressed out about both the physical issues and the potential embarrassment. You may find it easier to take the "shit happens" attitude with someone with whom you've built up a chemistry. The only guys I can see having a problem with that are the diehard total tops who think someone has to get fucked during every sexual encounter -- i.e., guys with no imagination.