What is it about sucking a dick that's actually so enticing?

[Decatur Guy]

So I'm looking at Craigslist, and the guys who want to suck a dick outnumber the guys asking for a BJ about four to one. It just got me to thinking ... why?

 

On the face of it, seems like any guy would rather get sucked. The benefits are pretty obvious. So why is it that so many guys would rather be the one with a cock in the mouth? For physical sensation, it's not all the much. There is a certain tingle to the lips and tongue, but in the sensation realm, that's nothing to the feeling of being blown.

 

So what is exactly, do you think, that makes it so desirable to be the giver in your opinion? (And I realize there's sometimes a lot of mutual back and forth, but often it's either a one-way thing or one guy does most of the sucking)

 

Also, if you were in a coin toss game, and you won the toss and got to pick roles, would you rather be the giver or the receiver?

[jjkrkwood]

So I'm looking at Craigslist, and the guys who want to suck a dick outnumber the guys asking for a BJ about four to one. It just got me to thinking ... why?

 

On the face of it, seems like any guy would rather get sucked. The benefits are pretty obvious. So why is it that so many guys would rather be the one with a cock in the mouth? For physical sensation, it's not all the much. There is a certain tingle to the lips and tongue, but in the sensation realm, that's nothing to the feeling of being blown.

 

So what is exactly, do you think, that makes it so desirable to be the giver in your opinion? (And I realize there's sometimes a lot of mutual back and forth, but often it's either a one-way thing or one guy does most of the sucking)

 

Also, if you were in a coin toss game, and you won the toss and got to pick roles, would you rather be the giver or the receiver?

 

First, let me start by saying that I am a MAJOR cocksucker (which should be a well known fact around here). I have been posting on various hookups for years (11 to be exact) and always state that I am into servicing, and am a full fledged, card-carrying cocksucker.

 

The result : I have NEVER had an online hookup. I have messaged back and forth with tons of guys, but once its made clear you are serious about meeting them, they disappear. What this tells me ids that they were never LOOKING in the first place, and were only out "fishing" to see what they could land. Once you agree to meet, its over for them, the excitement dies, and they usually end of staying home with their wives or significant others, beating off to the thought that they "could have had you"....

 

For me its a control thing being the sucker, and I truly do ENJOY it, the feel of the cock in my mouth, the dangling balls that tense up, my finger in their butthole while sucking. I am just an ORAL person; Anal has NEVER worked for me in any way, shape or form. And in terms of me getting my cock sucked, I would rather be stroked then sucked..... Go figure !

[Decatur Guy]

First, let me start by saying that I am a MAJOR cocksucker (which should be a well known fact around here). I have been posting on various hookups for years (11 to be exact) and always state that I am into servicing, and am a full fledged, card-carrying cocksucker.

 

The result : I have NEVER had an online hookup. I have messaged back and forth with tons of guys, but once its made clear you are serious about meeting them, they disappear. What this tells me ids that they were never LOOKING in the first place, and were only out "fishing" to see what they could land. Once you agree to meet, its over for them, the excitement dies, and they usually end of staying home with their wives or significant others, beating off to the thought that they "could have had you"....

 

For me its a control thing being the sucker, and I truly do ENJOY it, the feel of the cock in my mouth, the dangling balls that tense up, my finger in their butthole while sucking. I am just an ORAL person; Anal has NEVER worked for me in any way, shape or form. And in terms of me getting my cock sucked, I would rather be stroked then sucked..... Go figure !

 

Thanks for the reply JJ -- I get in different moods and not sure exactly why. Sometimes, I just want to get sucked or even face fuck, just fucking own the guy's mouth, no recip. Other times, I am totally into being the one servicing a guy. Other times, the back and forth sounds great.

 

Not really sure why these different moods come over me. As for CL, there are a lot of goof-offs, but there are some serious guys too. I've had some hot hook-ups and developed some fuck buds from there. You just kind of learn who is BSing and who is serious.

[jjkrkwood]

Thanks for the reply JJ -- I get in different moods and not sure exactly why. Sometimes, I just want to get sucked or even face fuck, just fucking own the guy's mouth, no recip. Other times, I am totally into being the one servicing a guy. Other times, the back and forth sounds great.

 

Not really sure why these different moods come over me. As for CL, there are a lot of goof-offs, but there are some serious guys too. I've had some hot hook-ups and developed some fuck buds from there. You just kind of learn who is BSing and who is serious.

 

Well then i must attract the Bull-shitters, or maybe they just dont want head from a 59 year old (they probably think my teeth are removable, and that would surely be a turn-off)

[Decatur Guy]

Well then i must attract the Bull-shitters, or maybe they just dont want head from a 59 year old (they probably think my teeth are removable, and that would surely be a turn-off)

 

There's definitely an age-ism thing that goes on. I had a lot more offers in my late 30s, 10 years ago, than now. In fact, that's one reason I finally started turning to hiring guys. Took awhile to get over feeling poorly about it, but I like it now when I can do it.

[Decatur Guy]

Here's an example of what I was talking about ... these are just random chosen off the top of the list right now ... if you want to get sucked today in Atlanta, LOTS OF CHOICES: (lol)

 

 

Looking for guy 30 or older wanting head - m4m - 51 - (Hiram Powder Springs)

 

Need something to do - 27 - (Atlanta) pic

 

horny bottom dude - 26 - (atlanta)

 

Discreet WHITE For Discreet BLACK - m4m - 32 - (Atlanta MONDAYS) pic

 

Looking for a Top - m4m - 42 - (Woodstock) pic

 

mwm providing oral now - 48 - (east cobb)

 

Looking For A Top - m4m - 42 - (Woodstock)

 

gloryhole service for HUNG - (MORGAN FALLS)

 

Servicing cock now - 28 - (85N shallowford rd) pic

 

Door Unlocked..Sucking cock - m4m - 43 - (Briarcliff/Clairmont)

[jjkrkwood]

Here's an example of what I was talking about ... these are just random chosen off the top of the list right now ... if you want to get sucked today in Atlanta, LOTS OF CHOICES: (lol)

 

 

Looking for guy 30 or older wanting head - m4m - 51 - (Hiram Powder Springs)

 

Need something to do - 27 - (Atlanta) pic

 

horny bottom dude - 26 - (atlanta)

 

Discreet WHITE For Discreet BLACK - m4m - 32 - (Atlanta MONDAYS) pic

 

Looking for a Top - m4m - 42 - (Woodstock) pic

 

mwm providing oral now - 48 - (east cobb)

 

Looking For A Top - m4m - 42 - (Woodstock)

 

gloryhole service for HUNG - (MORGAN FALLS)

 

Servicing cock now - 28 - (85N shallowford rd) pic

 

Door Unlocked..Sucking cock - m4m - 43 - (Briarcliff/Clairmont)

 

Well, it is also way easier to prepare to suck a cock as opposed to engaging in ANAL, eventhough those douches are sooooooo refreshing, they

are time consuming.....

[Decatur Guy]

Well, it is also way easier to prepare to suck a cock as opposed to engaging in ANAL, eventhough those douches are sooooooo refreshing, they

are time consuming.....

 

For sure. Anal is a whole different thing, at least for me and especially if I'm going to bottom. ...

 

Oral you can do with little or no notice. I'll be interested what others have to say about the whole sucking vs. getting sucked thing and why so many guys would rather give the pleasure than get it.

[seeker630]

I much prefer receiving a blowjob to giving one - and I like to be the one in control. However, when I really like seomeone, I do reciprocate and I get pleasure from pleasing.

 

One of my favorite things is be on on top of a guy, 69ing, hold his arms down and go all the way down on his cock just as I put mine all the down his throat, and hold it there just until he can't take it any more. (Of course, this only happens with guys comfortable with that, and most tops aren't.)

[kevininsa]

Like JJ said, I too am a major cocksucker. Maybe it is a control thing, knowing that you are controlling how the guy you're with feels, knowing that you alone control his achieving orgasm. It is such a turn on to me, that I can usually cum with him with just a few strokes at the end, not having touched myself much during. Part of it is that some personalities, such as myself, are givers. (Not just referring to sex.) They want others to be happy.

That being said, I also enjoy receiving. And I enjoy anal, top & btm. But if I had to choose... it would be tough. I might actually say giving.

[SteveEscort]

My craigslist today is a mixed bag today

 

 

bottom need hung top now, can accom, genuine lads only - m4m - 29 - (fenham)

 

You Know You Want To... - m4m - 35 - (North Tyneside)

 

Need to unload Friday - m4m - 39 - (Tyne and Wear)

 

Suck me off - m4m - 51 - (Darlington)

 

Str8 Cur 26 M Suck My Cock - m4m - 26 - (North Tyneside)

 

Fun,Friendship,Wotever - m4m - 59 - (middlesbrough)

 

thursday night, ill travel to yours - m4m - 22 - (bishop auckland/co durham)

 

SUNDAY - Suck fun near Stockton - m4m - 21 - (Stockton/Middlesbrough)

 

bi lad wanting discreet fuck bud - m4m - 21 - (newcastle)

 

Suck my cock, fuck my arse and go - m4m - 22 - (Newcastle)

[SteveEscort]

On a serious note though, I am usually the one sucking and usually the one getting fucked but I don't mind. I love the sounds a guy makes when I deep throat him to the balls and he stays down there.

 

As for anal, well I douche at least twice a day normally and before EVERY appointment whether he's a regular and wants oral only because I've been caught out with oral only guys wanting some ass after 2-3 visits. When done regularly it takes about 5 minutes.

[Decatur Guy]

Thanks for all the responses so far. Enjoy hearing what you guys think about this.

 

As for the coin-toss thing, I'd sometimes hope to "win" and get sucked and sometimes hop to "lose" and do the sucking. Depends on my mood, the other guy, etc.

[jjkrkwood]

On a serious note though, I am usually the one sucking and usually the one getting fucked but I don't mind. I love the sounds a guy makes when I deep throat him to the balls and he stays down there.

 

As for anal, well I douche at least twice a day normally and before EVERY appointment whether he's a regular and wants oral only because I've been caught out with oral only guys wanting some ass after 2-3 visits. When done regularly it takes about 5 minutes.

 

Steve, I love a guy with a hole sooooooo clean you can EAT off it.....

[SteveEscort]

Steve, I love a guy with a hole sooooooo clean you can EAT off it.....

 

Yep (and I am blushing here), when EXTREMELY horny with a well hot guy I've been known to do A2M (albeit with a rubber on him) and when they see me do that they go over the edge and then always tell me how dirty and seedy it was (they didn't mind when I did it they couldn't contain themselves). My hole is always 100% clean and I have to be really turned on to do it but it's a good one for them to experience. I hope no one reads this and expect me to do it. I've done it say..... 10 times in 10 years LOL and nearly always on overnights after champagne hahahahahahahaha when I am very horned up and he's thoroughly filthy and masculine

[seeker630]

Yep (and I am blushing here), when EXTREMELY horny with a well hot guy I've been known to do A2M (albeit with a rubber on him) and when they see me do that they go over the edge and then always tell me how dirty and seedy it was (they didn't mind when I did it they couldn't contain themselves). My hole is always 100% clean and I have to be really turned on to do it but it's a good one for them to experience. I hope no one reads this and expect me to do it. I've done it say..... 10 times in 10 years LOL and nearly always on overnights after champagne hahahahahahahaha when I am very horned up and he's thoroughly filthy and masculine

 

Not sure what A2M means? From the context, I'm guessing sucking the guy's cock after he tops you?

 

(A guy did that to me once, years, ago, and i remember him saying 'I love the taste of my ass on your cock!' It generated a mixture of disgust & excitement in me unlike anything else I can recall.)

[SteveEscort]

Not sure what A2M means? From the context, I'm guessing sucking the guy's cock after he tops you?

 

(A guy did that to me once, years, ago, and i remember him saying 'I love the taste of my ass on your cock!' It generated a mixture of disgust & excitement in me unlike anything else I can recall.)

 

Ass to mouth and yes that's what they've been like with me, very much "Oh Steve is that really safe to do" usually after they told me "How fucking hot that was". I think when they come down from the high and sit on the bed drinking a glass of wine they get to thinking "Geeze he put my dick in his mouth straight from his ass"

[+ purplekow]

During my first encounter with an escort, the escort came in and asked if he could shower. We were talking, with him in the shower and me, fully dressed and anxious, lying on the bed. He then suggested i come a bit closer. I went and I sat on the tub and watched him shower and wash his muscular body and rinse his cock and balls. His cock started getting longer and harder and i watched in amazement as it grew. We continued speaking and then in the middle of a sentence, I heard, "Go on suck it. You know you want to.". And the truth is i did want to, but I can't say why. So i sucked it and slid into the tub and got onto my knees and I wound up fully dressed and kneeling in the shower sucking his dick. After we were done, he said that he was glad I decided to "take the plunge" I told him that I might not have if he had not told me that i wanted it. He said he never said it. So, did he say it and forget or was I imagining him saying it and pushing myself off the edge. In either case, i don't know why I wanted his cock in my mouth, but for whatever reason I did, and it turned out to be the first of many such experiences.

[Decatur Guy]

During my first encounter with an escort, the escort came in and asked if he could shower. We were talking, with him in the shower and me, fully dressed and anxious, lying on the bed. He then suggested i come a bit closer. I went and I sat on the tub and watched him shower and wash his muscular body and rinse his cock and balls. His cock started getting longer and harder and i watched in amazement as it grew. We continued speaking and then in the middle of a sentence, I heard, "Go on suck it. You know you want to.". And the truth is i did want to, but I can't say why. So i sucked it and slid into the tub and got onto my knees and I wound up fully dressed and kneeling in the shower sucking his dick. After we were done, he said that he was glad I decided to "take the plunge" I told him that I might not have if he had not told me that i wanted it. He said he never said it. So, did he say it and forget or was I imagining him saying it and pushing myself off the edge. In either case, i don't know why I wanted his cock in my mouth, but for whatever reason I did, and it turned out to be the first of many such experiences.

 

That's pretty interesting ... also what fascinates me -- there are good many gay guys who are 100% top. Either they've never been fucked or only got fucked once or twice and decided they only wanted to top. But I bet you 3 out of 4 of those 100% tops will suck dick.

 

My mind has just been wandering today, and I hope to hear from more guys about why they like to suck or why they think it's so hot when there's clearly much more physical sensation and pleasure for the receiver.

 

Also, are there any clients/escorts out there who much prefer receiving or only receive?

[leigh.bess.toad]

Well then i must attract the Bull-shitters, or maybe they just dont want head from a 59 year old (they probably think my teeth are removable, and that would surely be a turn-off)

 

Then they don't know what they are missing. I had an escort recently tell me about receiving a bj from a guy who first removed his teeth. He said it was an incredible feeling. Never tried it myself, and being a serious cocksucker like you, I'm normally very happy on my knees. But if that situation presented itself, hell yes, I'd want to try.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Steve, I love a guy with a hole sooooooo clean you can EAT off it.....

 

 

Another way you and I are alike JJ. I remember my very first hire. I swear I was eating his ass for a full hour. And having the time of my life.

[doitb4ugo]

For me, sex is more of an emotional need for me. Often I don't cum and don't usually care....I am emotionally vested in providing whatever pleasure I can for my partner....Several regular escorts that I see love me to service their cocks and I am more than satisfied to give them such a gift....

For me, all of me is at their disposal for anything they want to do....In the BDSM world I am 100% submissive...Satisfaction with pleasing last long after the orgasm is a lost memory....

 

I recently had a hot massage experience where the massuer mentioned that he had been unable to get an erection recently...I worked on him for some time and he did not get really hard but came in my mouth. He said that he had never experinced anything like that before....yes, his cum was quite a reward and surprise for both of us.

[whipped guy]

Clarification please...

 

...I had an escort recently tell me about receiving a bj from a guy who first removed his teeth. He said it was an incredible feeling. Never tried it myself, and being a serious cocksucker like you, I'm normally very happy on my knees. But if that situation presented itself, hell yes, I'd want to try.

First... from what I understand an edentulous blow-job is the ultimate version of cocksucking... the ne plus ultra!

 

However, my dear Lee... if I understand your post... and you do say that you are a "serious cocksucker" and you have "never tried it". Does that mean that you would be willing to remove your teeth... as in 'you are you capable of removing your teeth'? Or did you mean to say that even though you are "serious cocksucker", you would want to try being on the receiving end if the giver had no teeth? Something tells me that it is the later... but I am not quite sure.

 

In any event, please clarify... because if you are indeed edentulous it could open up quite a career for you!

[leigh.bess.toad]

First... from what I understand an edentulous blow-job is the ultimate version of cocksucking... the ne plus ultra!

 

However, my dear Lee... if I understand your post... and you do say that you are a "serious cocksucker" and you have "never tried it". Does that mean that you would be willing to remove your teeth... as in 'you are you capable of removing your teeth'? Or did you mean to say that even though you are "serious cocksucker", you would want to try being on the receiving end if the giver had no teeth? Something tells me that it is the later... but I am not quite sure.

 

In any event, please clarify... because if you are indeed edentulous it could open up quite a career for you!

 

Nope, all my teeth are firmly intact. A history of 1 cavity in my entire life. I would be bad for your business, WG. But I'd be willing to be on the receiving end. My escort made it sound "enticing", to say the least.

[+ purplekow]

Leigh, i guess your willingness to please falls somewhere short of having all your teeth extracted?