Erratic Client behavior. How would you handle it? Have YOU been that client?

[Mocha]

There's a client that I've met now about 4-5 times over the course of nearly a year. He comes to town on business and stays at one of the more posh hotels in town.

 

Well our first few meetings went smooth. He would call me prior to arriving to town. On the second to the last meeting few months ago he called me letting me know he'd be coming in. When spent several minutes discussing the fantasy. He called couple I was coming back home from out of town and got quite prepared for the booking.

 

Well, I'm in there for nothing but 15 minutes and the phone goes off. He quickly says that he has to take the call and thanked me for coming. I was paid my full rate but I also offered to stick around in the lobby for a few minutes to allow him time to take his call. But he could not go on with the booking.

 

After that I thought maybe I'd done something wrong until this week he contacted me saying he enjoyed every minute of it.

 

Well...same thing happens, the pre-arrival call and discussing the fantasy. Well this time it was a bit more complicated. I was asked to find out from someone about drugs. I told him before that it's not something I do or hang around and therefore don't know of anyone who does. But since I really wanted the booking I told him that I could check and see.

 

He's really pressuring me to find someone who has some. Well then later that afternoon he calls and cancels. I'm pissed because it seems like he's sending me on a run around for nothing.

 

Well then later on at night, and hour after our scheduled time earlier he asks me to come over. I got suspicious and asked him if I can call his room number to make sure he's there because he seems to be sending me in circles. And from some past experiences I've gone places and been stood up.

 

He then says, "well maybe we should do this another time you're ruining the mood". I'm like, "I'm ruining the mood? You're the one being flaky which makes me think you're trying to send me on a wild goose chase" But I explained to him carefully and told him that it's no reason to cancel. And I did call the room to make sure he was there.

 

I get there, all is well and normal and I go home. I am then contacted the next day thanking me for my time. But the desire for drugs still persists from him and although I feel it would probably put him totally at ease for the appointment, I had no desire to run around like a chicken with my head chopped to get HIM drugs for our encounter.

 

Today I was expecting (according to him) to have an appointment tonight. Since I didn't hear anything I took another client. But I think that he's trying to make me feel like some gullible hustler and for that I am losing the will to continue seeing him. But with the way it seems to be going, doesn't seem like it'll be going too far anyway. I mean, if he wants PNP then he needs to find a way to bring that himself....don't expect me to go out and look stupid asking people if they can give me some and then look even dumber going into a hotel with it.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Trust your instincts and "just say no". Since drugs are not your scene, my guess is that if you see him when he has them (regardless of whether you brought them or not) he will likely attempt to encourage you to use them as well.

[+ ArVaGuy]

I strongly advise dumping this guy as a client.

 

If he's trying to set you up as a middle man in a drug deal, you'd not want to be caught in such a situaiton. Purge his info from your records and when he next contacts you tell him you are no longer able to see him. If he flips out, that's his problem.

[Steven_Draker]

Have YOU been that client?

 

I guess your question is intended for clients only ....

 

 

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It's not something unusual, depending on your location you can get several similar requests every day.

 

Watch out the pitfalls.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I am with the others. Run away as fast as you possibly can from this. It reeks of disaster.

[Diverdan]

Run away is right... maybe he wants to set you up for a sting or something worse. He has some serious mental health problems.

[Guest countryboywny]

Run away is right... maybe he wants to set you up for a sting or something worse. He has some serious mental health problems.

 

.. I might add that erratic behavior is a sign of drug use.

[nate_sf]

.. I might add that erratic behavior is a sign of drug use.

 

I agree with the others, drop him. His erratic behavior is typical PNP craziness and manipulation. With clients as soon as I get wind of drugs (other than weed and social drinking) I head for the door, because it promises this kind of nonsense. Even worse that he's trying to get you to serve as his middleman. Not worth the money for the risk and mental anguish imo.

[Guest Rich.]

Mocha,

 

For a split second, I thought you were talking about PCP not PNP! :o I'm showing my age. OK, consider yourself lucky not to have come across anyone whose discovered Angel Dust!

 

I'm simply going to reiterate the good advice that Honourable Members have already given you. WALK AWAY. NOW.

 

If you provide this client with any illicit substance, no matter whether you give it to him for free, or at cost, you are a 'dealer'. No, not a 'user'. In the eyes of the law, even if you don't make a single red-cent on the transaction, YOU'RE A 'DEALER'.

 

Your client might just be suffering from coke-induced paranoia and trying to induce a role play. If he was half-way sober, and respected you, he'd talk his fantasy through with you before a meet. And both of you would mutually agree terms. He's not doing that. He's exposing you to the risk of a lengthy gaol term.

 

No lie Mocha, a mate of mine ended up receiving a two-year gaol sentence for making a JOKE. Yes. Really.

 

So, please, protect yourself. WALK AWAY.

 

Best.

 

Richard

[+ nycman]

Drug addicts are tedious and boring.

 

Walk away.

[Guest macnva]

Drug addicts are tedious and boring.

 

Walk away.

 

Actually in my experience I have found some to be quite entertaining and a hell lot of fun!

[rvwnsd]

You should not engage in anything that you are uncomfortable doing or puts you in any danger. It sounds like this guy is dangerous.

[Mocha]

Yeah, being that he is from out of town...we do not cross paths often. But I think the next time he comes in (if he asks to see me) I'm just going to have to say no.

 

I also thought about the whole middle man thing too. In the back of my mind I would still wonder, what if even after all the times we've met he turns out to be law enforcement? Sites like men4rent do a good job of protecting us (by annoyingly editing out everything but it does sort of cover our butts and mostly theirs). But if drugs are apart of the transaction all that does is make it easier to throw in a bunch of other charges.