Do you find this personal ad hot or offensive and why?

[down_to_business]

I came across this ad and given some peoples ideas on how offensive the term straight-acting was to them-- I wondered what you thought about it. This is NOT my ad!

 

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I need my cock sucked - m4m

 

I need to drop my load in your eager fag mouth. I am str8 and this warm weather makes me want to abuse a fags mouth. GF is out until tuesday I wanna get this load out of me. Its not cheating if its a guys mouth.

[doitb4ugo]

Clearly the ad is designed to be offensive and attract a guy who gets off on the offensive nature of the guy and way he can anticipate being treated...

[Guest Spanker01]

Where did the ad appear? That makes a small difference, but for me it is offensive. I am sure however, that there are some guys who would not.

 

Spanker

[BSR]

There are a lot of people out there who get off on degradation and humiliation. Personally, I don't get it. But hey, the advertiser is being honest and up-front, as opposed to being Mr. Nice Guy in the ad and then treating the poor responder like sh*t when he got there. And as long as the advertiser is being honest and up-front, then it's all a matter of two consenting adults.

[Rick Munroe]

I think it's fucking hot and kind of funny ("Its not cheating if its a guys mouth").

 

I don't see any connection between this ad and the term "straight acting" because he says he's straight, not acting.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Well I for one do find it offensive, but as BSR said he is at least being honest. Hopefully no one in their right mind would answer it but I'm afraid that there will be someone -- maybe a few someones. Degradation becasue we are gay is offensive to me. Simply substitute the "N" word for fag and see what would happen. The terminology isn't what's important to me. It's the degradation based on being "different". But what's really offensive to me isn't even the use of the word fag (although that is bad enough), it's the phrase "I want to abuse some fag's mouth".. That's the worst part for me.

[+ azdr0710]

I don't worry/care whether it's offensive or hot - doesn't bother me.....yes, looks like he's appealing to those who like the assertive, straight-guy thing.....I probably wouldn't go for it because the short ad text seems too scripted and forced.....

[hornytwells]

I think it is worded to specifically appeal to a certain role-play scenario that turns a lot of guys on> Its presumably an indication of the kind of verbal abuse he likes to give, which, a lot of guys, for whatever particular reasons, like to receive. It's no more offensive than all the supposed "straight guys turning gay" porn sites, as I don't think it is what the guy genuinely believes, but more the role scenario that turns him on> neither do I believe for one second that the guys on the baitbus vids are "straight" and turn gay for cash, but if it floats your boat, go for it.

[Guest Rich.]

Lee,

 

I just remembered a hoary joke that I first heard in the 1970's.

 

A visiting Yank goes into a pub in Wales and sees a sign saying 'faggot and chips'. "Jeez", says the Yank, "I thought we were bad but over here you actually EAT them???".

 

Richard

[Guest Rich.]

Oh, and could one of you lazy f***ers post a link to this ad? It's past 5am here in London and I'm too knackered to go searching...

 

Richard

[JT Brooklyn]

The AD obviously will not offend who it is aimed at!

[Rick Munroe]

"I want to abuse some fag's mouth".. That's the worst part for me.

 

That was the hottest part for me! It's obviously fantasy, just like a rape scene in a video. Btw, we have met black guys who really get off on the use of the n-word and one in particular loves having us use it on him. It felt weird and wrong at first, but I could totally see how he'd get off on the role play, just like I can see how this "fag" talk can be hot, too.

[Decatur Guy]

I think it is worded to specifically appeal to a certain role-play scenario that turns a lot of guys on> Its presumably an indication of the kind of verbal abuse he likes to give, which, a lot of guys, for whatever particular reasons, like to receive. It's no more offensive than all the supposed "straight guys turning gay" porn sites, as I don't think it is what the guy genuinely believes, but more the role scenario that turns him on> neither do I believe for one second that the guys on the baitbus vids are "straight" and turn gay for cash, but if it floats your boat, go for it.

 

Ditto

[JT Brooklyn]

Fag Talk

 

That was the hottest part for me! It's obviously fantasy, just like a rape scene in a video. Btw, we have met black guys who really get off on the use of the n-word and one in particular loves having us use it on him. It felt weird and wrong at first, but I could totally see how he'd get off on the role play, just like I can see how this "fag" talk can be hot, too.

 

"Fag Talk" can be Hot IF it's coming from a pile of "Hunky Muscle" preferably sitting on MY Chest!

 

We ALL have our "Fantasie's" don't we?

[EZEtoGRU]

"Fag Talk" can be Hot IF it's coming from a pile of "Hunky Muscle" preferably sitting on MY Chest!

 

We ALL have our "Fantasie's" don't we?

+1. Doesn't offend me. Interestingly, I was having a drink in a gay bar last night and the bartender (who is gay) was wearing a white tee shirt with the word FAG printed in big letters across his chest. Should we be offended by that?

[BSR]

Ooh, I like that t-shirt! Except I'd go one further and get a T that said "Big Fag".

[+ friendofsheila]

"Offended" probably isn't part of my reaction.

 

It's more "saddened to see people promoting something that assumes gay people deserve to be degraded".

[Rick Munroe]

"Fag Talk" can be Hot IF it's coming from a pile of "Hunky Muscle" preferably sitting on MY Chest!

 

Or with your head over the edge of the bed, like on the website Gag The Fag

[orbital sander]

No I am not offended, and I think that the question is not really important either. If I were to get offended at everything that I may not agree with out there, I might as well jump off a cliff and end it all.

[Guest Rich.]

I might as well jump off a cliff and end it all.

 

Rick,

 

As you're currently me, could I help out Orbital Sander with his offensive lemming fetish?

 

Richard

[colbyjansen]

To each his own I guess, I know plenty of Marine's who get off on being forcibly fucked and called queer/faggot and lots of women who like being called bitch/***** in bed. A lot of people get off on the humiliation factor, like a previous poster pointed out, it's kind of weird at first, but I get it.

 

I had a girl who once told me to talk dirty to her, so I said. "Yeah, take my fat cock in your cunt, you *****!" - She cried and ran out of the bedroom. This was somewhat of a defining moment in my life lol.

[Guest rodeo]

You think that's bad? There's phonesex "broker" website that's basically devoted to something called "cash rape." These guys try to outdo each other in insulting their clients. Here's a typical ad:

 

http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9526627-Hung-10-Brutal-JOCK-MASTER-watch-video

 

Or, are you disappointed that you missed out on being a gay man in Nazi Germany? Here's your man:

 

http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/8755380-GET-DOWN-FOR-YOUR-ARYAN-MUSCLE-MAN-Vids-and-Pics

 

There's got to be a market for this, or "nite flirt" would go out of business.