Outdoor appointments?

[nate_sf]

I was recently contacted by a prospective client who wanted to get together and have the appointment in a park, rather than his place or my place. The park is known to be cruisy so it would not be out of the ordinary for guys to be getting it on there (it happens all the time), but I'd never had this proposed for an escort appointment.

 

I declined since I just wasn't sure how it would turn out. When I've had sex outdoors it has been hit or miss so I wasn't sure it would be a "hit" and didn't want it to go badly. But then I wondered, is this something other escorts have encountered ?

[Diverdan]

Hi Nate,

I think you were wise to decline. If it was someone you had been with before and/or knew well for what ever reason, it might be ok. However, to have a meeting in a "public place", even one that is known to be cruisy, etc. sounds like the potential for a bad scene. I am not an escort, but in this day and age, things like this would cause me to be very leary for a variety of reasons.

DD

[instudiocity]

From your description of the scenario, it also sounds like a setup for the local PD to make points shutting down a public cruising area at your expense. Got any muniserable elections coming up?

[nate_sf]

Thanks guys. Yeah, the possibility of arrest was definitely on my mind too. With what you've both said I'm glad I passed on it!

[Mocha]

Absolutely not...public sex? The cops try to lure people in with that all the time. Good on you to not fall for it.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Wise move not to take this appointment. It certainaly could have been a sting operation. Obama's best friend from Hawaii was recently busted in a police sting via a fake online profile.

[Diverdan]

Hey, ArVaGuy... can you tell us more? I had not heard or seen anything about that episode.

[+ deej]

It was in yesterday's news churn, and mostly only made the gossip sites:

 

http://gawker.com/#!5789689/obama-buddy-arrested-in-prostitution-sting

[Diverdan]

Thanks, deej,

It did appear in today's edition of our local paper, but only about two sentences. I guess it was a female prostitute, although nothing was mentioned about the sex of the person he was trying to hire!

[Mark Gordon]

I had an extended session with a new client that began with fun at my place, then moved outdoors for awhile, then continued back at my place. It was hot!

[doitb4ugo]

I had an extended session with a new client that began with fun at my place, then moved outdoors for awhile, then continued back at my place. It was hot!

 

Having an outdoor session is on my doitb4igo list, most definitely....I want a gang bang by strangers.

[Bosguy]

I was recently contacted by a prospective client who wanted to get together and have the appointment in a park, rather than his place or my place. The park is known to be cruisy so it would not be out of the ordinary for guys to be getting it on there (it happens all the time), but I'd never had this proposed for an escort appointment.

 

I declined since I just wasn't sure how it would turn out. When I've had sex outdoors it has been hit or miss so I wasn't sure it would be a "hit" and didn't want it to go badly. But then I wondered, is this something other escorts have encountered ?

Nate,

 

Although I am not an escort, an outdoor experience is something I would love to do, but I feel it is absolutely essential that both the escort know each other well for security and enjoyment reasons. I will PM you the name of an escort who could better advise you on this.

See you in Chicago.

 

Bill K

[hunkymuscles]

Nate you were right to decline his offer. I've never been contacted by a client to meet and have sex out in public. I have a regular client who wanted me to bring him to a sex club once and that went well. As far as meeting in a public place, I think there are too many risks involved. I myself haven't cruised a public place for sex since the internet. Overall, I just don't think cruising a public place for sex is a good idea at all

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[+ Tygerscent]

Sounds risky nate~

It's not like setting up an outdoor sexpedition or Man Camp experience with someone... sex in a park is like someone asking you to meet with them to have sex in a public bathroom where adults and children alike can enter at anytime~ It;s just inappropriate and potentially a legal issue for those who get caught.

Outdoor situations require discretion and protection from public situations where passer-byers might stroll in and be offended.

I conduct outdoor gatherings but it;s always remote and way way out of the public eye.

There are some safe public venues though: boy spas provide a play space that has potential for open displays of sex~ Bondage clubs and friends private home sex parties and play spaces. Things can be arranged that way. It;s not hard and much more safe... you can even have the situation where a bttm is slinged up and blindfolded and various unseen (but safe and otherwise known), partners might come in and deflower/defile a sexual partner. It's being respectful and not in anyones face who does not want to see it or be part of it and it's in a private setting and legal.

 

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I was recently contacted by a prospective client who wanted to get together and have the appointment in a park, rather than his place or my place. The park is known to be cruisy so it would not be out of the ordinary for guys to be getting it on there (it happens all the time), but I'd never had this proposed for an escort appointment.

 

I declined since I just wasn't sure how it would turn out. When I've had sex outdoors it has been hit or miss so I wasn't sure it would be a "hit" and didn't want it to go badly. But then I wondered, is this something other escorts have encountered ?

[Michael Wayne]

politely decline