Annual Palm Springs Weekend, 2011

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

That goes without question Indy. But I think we hired right. I have a funny feeling your Guy will have your back and front. Lol. Just as mine will have me.

 

That means alot TC.... But I think you are right, I think we both hired correctly. I have no doubt that my Guy will be by my side the whole time, its some of the others that I am learry of.... ;-)

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

oh my you guys are so cute~~~ Anyways... are we going to see a show afterwards? Kisses and hugs~~~

 

I am sure there will be a show but I know my Guy won't be part of that show

[Epigonos]

I would just like to make a point regarding attendee/guest etiquette at the Palm Springs Weekend. The two things the event is NOT is a swap meet or an orgy. In all the years I have been attending I have NEVER witnessed an attendee make a move on another attendee’s guest. There is lots of conversation between all attendees and all guests but everybody understands that guests are attending with a specific individual. Future arrangements might be discussed BUT making a play for somebody else’s guest would certainly NOT be acceptable or tolerated.

[Guest greatness]

I didn't mean it that way. I was just asking the organizer whether there is a show after the dinner. I think people went to see a play or something last year..

 

I am sure there will be a show but I know my Guy won't be part of that show

[+ sf westcoaster]

I would just like to make a point regarding attendee/guest etiquette at the Palm Springs Weekend. The two things the event is NOT is a swap meet or an orgy. In all the years I have been attending I have NEVER witnessed an attendee make a move on another attendee’s guest. There is lots of conversation between all attendees and all guests but everybody understands that guests are attending with a specific individual. Future arrangements might be discussed BUT making a play for somebody else’s guest would certainly NOT be acceptable or tolerated.

 

Thank you Epigonos, I was just about to post a similiar reply. Having attended the PS event last year I think attendees should know that this is a social gathering - good conversati0n, excellent food and beverages. It is a chance to meet individuals face to face and to put a poster's name to a specific individual. It is definitely not an orgy or sex party, however what two individuals do in the privacy of their own lodging is for them and not the rest of us.

[NYTomcat]

I would just like to make a point regarding attendee/guest etiquette at the Palm Springs Weekend. The two things the event is NOT is a swap meet or an orgy. In all the years I have been attending I have NEVER witnessed an attendee make a move on another attendee’s guest. There is lots of conversation between all attendees and all guests but everybody understands that guests are attending with a specific individual. Future arrangements might be discussed BUT making a play for somebody else’s guest would certainly NOT be acceptable or tolerated.

 

I think Indy and I are just joking. . . Lol. But I do appreciate the setting of proper ground rules. We would not want Oliver's pool to become some free for all. A respectable sense of decorum. Is best. .....

 

It is my intention to enjoy the social atmosphere of meeting other posters and escorts so we. Can put faces to names as we often do in NY at club 20 Adonis or le boyz.

[jawjateck]

Actually Epigonos, this happened at the last event. One of our fellow posters (who I'm not sure has been around the forum since the PS event) made a move on my guest; if you don't remember, just PM me and I will remind you who he was. While I was not personally pissed at his advance (kissing and going bod-to-bod with my guy), my date told me afterward that he was extremely uncomfortable and wasn't sure how to extricate himself from the situation. While it was happening, I didn't think much about it because we're all big boys and can take care of ourselves, etc, but I will advise my date this year should this happen to simply tell the other guy to go "**** himself and show some manners"! Since this was my first event, I had not considered the possibility of that occurring, but now I know better. I agree with Epigonos and sfwestcoaster, this is a special social function, where we get to enjoy one another's company, light fun, good food, refreshing beverages, zesty conversation, but please remember to respect your fellow attendees. If you are impressed with another attending escort, then arrange a meeting with him on your own time and dime.

 

Merry Christmas!

JJT

[Diverdan]

This detour about "sharing" in this thread on the PS event may have been started by me in a "kidding" response to a post by Tomcat. However, TC knows that I was just joking about it, and even sent him a PM to make sure there was no misunderstanding. I appreciate the post by Epigonos and the inforrmation from jawjateck. While the "ground rules" seem implicit for an event of this kind, it never hurts to remind everyone. This is a great time to renew old friendships, make new friends and have a good time. Guests are just that... guests... and should be treated with respect, etc. However, it will also be nice to meet guests that we may not have been able to meet before, but respect is always the key. What happens after PS between attendees is then up to them.

DD

[leigh.bess.toad]

DD -- absolutely positively couldn't agree more. Joking and kidding aside, the chance to meet the people we interact with here is by far the most important goal of this event, both old friends we haven't seen in a while and the chance to put faces to names. Courtesy, respect and treating others as you would want someone to treat you is the simple standard. Although the "southern gentlemen" is the running joke between G and I, that really is the way I act in public -- you may very well find me inspecting the plastic ferns in the corner at the events. Besides, at the pool event, we are guests at Oliver's and it would be so far beyond rude and inconsiderate to do anything untowards at a host's house I can't even describe it But DD is right, a gentle reminder is always in order. And offense should never be taken at one being offered.

 

And JJT, anything of that nature cannot and should not be tolerated -- by anyone. By my standards there should be nothing sexually overt at the pool event event -- AT ALL. And if the escort is not your date, JJT is correct, it's not your dime so back off.

[Guest greatness]

I agree. I am excited to see many clients here in person.. Kisses and hugs~~~ And Lee, it's not a joke.. you are a true southern gentleman and I expect to see a proper southern gentleman in Palm Spring. Your Scarlett will not throw a vase at you for leading me on unless my Mammy sees something not becoming of a gentleman. I doubt that.

[leigh.bess.toad]

But speaking of shows, I know it is early yet, but I understand last year that everyone went to a play by the Palm Spring community theater. Is there something in the works like that this year?

[leigh.bess.toad]

And can I please post one other concern which has been raised to me and I can certainly understand the person's conern. No pictures unless you are absolutely 150% certain that everyone in the picture is OK with being in the picture. There are people at the event who do not under any circumstances want their picture taken and if there is the remotest chance of that will not attend. So I would prefer that there be a no photography rule at all except between close friends. Is that the policy, has that ever been discussed and if not, could such a policy be implemented?

[+ Charlie]

There will be a live feed to gawker.com from the event. (Yes, that is a joke!)

[+ Charlie]

Past events have been scheduled around a production at the Palm Springs Theater (dinner at a nearby restaurant before the play). This year there doesn't seem to be anything appropriate to see at the theater, so I understand there are plans to attend the "Palm Springs Follies," a seasonal musical extravaganza featuring superannuated showgirls and showboys.

[Guest greatness]

That sounds fine with me but how about a dance (non-erotic) class or karaoke after the dinner party? Kisses and hugs~~~

 

Past events have been scheduled around a production at the Palm Springs Theater (dinner at a nearby restaurant before the play). This year there doesn't seem to be anything appropriate to see at the theater, so I understand there are plans to attend the "Palm Springs Follies," a seasonal musical extravaganza featuring superannuated showgirls and showboys.

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

This detour about "sharing" in this thread on the PS event may have been started by me in a "kidding" response to a post by Tomcat. However, TC knows that I was just joking about it, and even sent him a PM to make sure there was no misunderstanding.

 

I have to admit that the thread in question created alot of the concern and apprehension that I have talked to TC about and he helped put most that that to the wayside. But I must admit that JJT's story gives rise to those concerns again. I know personally I could not/would not be able to tolerate the "kissing and going bod-to-bod with my guy" event if only momentary without correcting the situtation.

[+ Oliver]

"A Gathering of Gentlemen"

 

I want to thank epigonos, sfwestcoaster, NYTomcat, jawjateck, and Charlie for contributing clarifications of various points about the PS weekend, especially as they relate to the pool event at my rented condo. It is located in a gated complex with a tranquil atmosphere. Whereas we are not prudes, and many of the escort attendees (thankfully) have taken advantage of the clothing-optional aspect around the pool thereby providing delicious eye-candy, mutual respect is the by-word. Everyone (with the exception noted by jjt) has observed this in the past and I believe the event has been conducive to a relaxed and comfortable interaction with no raucous behavior. I would not wish to be raided!

 

… attendee/guest etiquette … two things the event is NOT is a swap meet or an orgy. There is lots of conversation between all attendees and all guests but everybody (should) understand that guests are attending with a specific individual. Future arrangements might be discussed BUT making a play for somebody else’s guest (is) certainly NOT be acceptable …

… I think attendees should know that this is a social gathering - good conversation, excellent food and beverages. It is a chance to meet individuals face to face and to put a poster's name to a specific individual. It is definitely not an orgy or sex party …

… I do appreciate the setting of proper ground rules. We would not want Oliver's pool to become some free for all. A respectable sense of decorum … is best …

.. One of our fellow posters (who I'm not sure has been around the forum since the PS event – he hasn’t) made a move on my guest … (who) told me afterward that he was extremely uncomfortable … If you are impressed with another attending escort, then arrange a meeting with him on your own time and dime …

jjt – I regret that the incident occurred. I recall that I was taken aback by the behavior and appreciated your forbearance. I’m sorry that your guest was placed in an awkward situation.:o

Happy New Year!

[leigh.bess.toad]

Oliver -- I do think we need to keep in mind the title you gave to your last post -- "A Gathering of Gentlemen". If that is kept at the front of our thoughts, a good time will be had by all.

 

Thank you again for hosting. Howver, this is getting to be a considerably larger gathering than any previous event. Is there something that the rest of the attendees can be bringing or providing. The rental fee at the convention center for example?

 

Have a safe and happy new year. And I look forward to meeting you and so many of the other gentlemen in Palm Springs.

[+ Oliver]

What Show?

 

In the past, Saturday evening has included dinner and a show – the latter at the Palm Canyon Theatre. There is no show there this year for that weekend. Therefore, we have been considering the Fabulous Follies, a Palm Springs institution for the last twenty years. Group rates are available. I prefer the best seats available for any performance. I should like input on this, please. I have seen the Follies several times – there’s a new show each year – and have enjoyed it, but then I like music and dancing. Here’s a link to the site: http://www.psfollies.com/

 

If we decide on this option, reservations will be necessary at the earliest.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Oliver, I have never seen the Follies, but have heard nothing but raves about the show. I vote for the Folllies and the best seats available. Reserver two tickets for me

I hear some of the performers might even be older than "moi"!

[+ Ace]

Hi Oliver;

I'm in Palm Springs now & after reading the thread realized I"might" have unintentionally added to the "sex party" connotation from the last event..(There's just something about this town that rings out the HORN DAWG in me!!!!)....

Anyway....wanted to put that out there & add that I would like to RSVP for two tickets to the Follies. (Never had the opportunity to see it, even after all these trips here!)...

Happy New Year! (Having dinner at our last year's meeting place:Trio, before tearing up Arenas!).

[nate_sf]

I've got it on my calendar... been meaning to attend for years now, and this sounds like the year to do it. Looking forward to it!

[NYTomcat]

I think follies sounds like an absolute must. You can put me down for two tickets the best available. My flights are booked and im working out accommodations as we speak. How exciting

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

Please count myself and date in for the follies... And I like your style Oliver cuz I would have to agree the best seats for us as well! :-)

[leigh.bess.toad]

A couple of things. Is there something going on out here that we're missing? By that I mean, look at what we're seeing in the attendance at this years Palm Springs weekend -- much bigger numbers than ever. The little Washington DC luncheon in a couple of weeks is going to be very well attended (and I'd love to have even more of you DC/Baltimore/Richmond guys, or Buffalo guys if you want to come with countryboy). Is there some sort of surge in the need for connectedness (for lack of a better term) within our little subculture? Is it a function of the better economic climate as evidenced by the state of the hiring world as reported by the escorts on another thread? Or am I just imagining things? But I do know I like it. A lot.

 

And with all the focus on the Palm Springs weekend, I haven't heard anything from our brethren to the north. Any plans for a simultaneous event again this year in New York?