Escorting full time into your 30's/40's and beyond

[Guest socal30]

Granted I only skimmed this thread, but it seems nearly hostile to those of the opinion that escorting is a young man's job. I remember my nemesis, former poster Marc Anthony, once put it succinctly. He explained his younger preferences weren't just for the butter skin and doey eyes; to M.A. escorting beyond 25 seemed like stunted development.

 

I disagree with him, but based on the much higher number of 20 versus 30 and 40 something models in the Gallery forum, it's likely that those posters who prefer younger escorts, for whatever reasons, don't feel comfortable giving their opinion within this thread. Any suggestion that escorting beyond one's 20s may be unwise, is immediately shot down as ageism.

 

I'm edging 40. I think about it every day. It's possible that the last 11 years will be much more of a handicap to my resume than I could have imagined at 26. I enjoy what I do, I'm fucking great at it. But this thread is heavily weighted.

 

Well I know plenty of people who didn't take those 11 years off to do what they loved to do. They are stuck with no jobs and upside down mortgages, a broken marraige or two ! Life does have a way of meandering around in directions we cannot fathom

[Damascene]

BH - It was a long retired escort from the 90's (pre-hooboy) - Adam, who I've kept in touch with as friends.

[Diverdan]

Thank God for Variety

 

This particular thread makes me chuckle every time I read it. It underscores that one size (pun intended) does not fit all, neither does one age, one look, one build, one color, one nationality or any other one criteria or combination thereof. Thank goodness that there are so many options availble. As for me, the older I get the more my personal preferences tend toward the older guys... but, I have also found some wonderful 20 somethings to enjoy an evening with and they seemed to enjoy their time with me. We all look for different things in a companion, and most of the time we can find what we want. I also find that I like to repeat with those whom I truly enjoy, even if it means that I have to wait to do some traveling. So, enjoy what is available, and try something new and different once in awhile. You might like it !!!

[+ Tygerscent]

"40+and a hooker"? Well... I don't really consider myself to be a "Hooker". I am over 40 though and entered in this Profession well after being 30 years old. I consider myself to be more like the original Geisha, (who were male originally).

I have a number of degrees and use all of them. I use my various language skills, (can read Chinese, Masters in Arabic, fair in the various Euro languages, Quechua, Lakotah Sioux, bits and pieces of Wolof, Hebrew and Sanskrit), when traveling and interacting with Clients who require the skills when we are together to communicate or in the company of others who they would not be able to communicate with otherwise. I use my background i Oncology frequently and significantly with a number of Clients. We go over treatment plans, options, questions to ask Doctors, procedures, referrals to clinics and Doctors who might help them and more. I also have some knowledge of Nutrition, Diabetes, hypertension, renal disease, optical disease, psychopharmacology and arthritis. My background in Education and Counseling helps me with any number of situations that might be encountered on psychological and Emotional levels. My Ethnic background, ( Native American Lakotah with long line of Heyoke and Wicasa Wakan Holy people), helps me with various healing arts outside of my traditional medical background.

My Lakotah background also helps me out in the wilds of all kinds of places in understanding both the fauna and flora around me. I have animal rehab skills. Thats been helpful.

I have extensive knowledge in plants and landscaping. That's been helpful. My degree in Fine Arts has helped me in appreciating and connecting with Clients regarding the arts when they have interest in them. My background in music, (was in a band playing semi-professionally and wrote a few music scores for some films), allows me to converse on those levels with Clients. Politics is part of my family background and that allows me some offering there in that arena. I have worked with people regarding relationship considerations and sexual identity issues.

Interestingly enough... I have used a lot of these skills in the BDSM parts of my career.

While you are considering the sexual content of Escorting, consider that there are other components of Escorting... involving the whole study of Human and male Sexuality, Intimacy, Human relations, Sexuality, Sensuality... and not just how those work on a physical level but emotional, psychological and spiritual level.

I grew up i a very small midwestern town and have that sensibility but am big city enough to know the difference between Hershey's chocolate and El Ray from Venezuela, Jodek International Fabric suites and Obi-Ita, Cognac verses armagnac verses grappa, a Don Pepin Garcia and Swisher Sweet...

Sex is a component of who we are but not the whole of who or what we really are. Our lives and the experience of Life around us involves all kinds of things beyond the strictly sexual experience.

When I am working, I engage myself in the idea of Intimacy, (including but regardless of the sexual arena or venue as the only point of departure or end), and consider/include the content and context of the entire person and situation around me/us.

People have all kinds of needs and desires. I try with full heart and good conscious to provide on all levels and in a way that is unique and bares the signature of our unique time together. No Client relationship is ever the same nor is the experience with them over time.

Again... when you say "How does it feel... crippling realization to deal with when it hits them... doing anything else with their lives... prostitution to be their life's work... older guys move into my market..."? Just a reminder here... the Client base out there ranges from legal age to whatever. There is something implied in your words regarding Clients who are young and hiring and over age 40+ and hiring.

In my Profession I have nurtured Relationships on all kinds of levels with Clients. They are not simply sexual. I value these People as my Friends and Family. I have a good sense and skills in the sexual arena but also provide much more on very human needs levels. More then being sexual... Clients and myself are people... sexual people but PEOPLE being the key word here.

While you might view Escorting as prostitution, not all Escorts are prostitutes. Some are male Geisha, Healers, counselors, confidants, companions and more... I'm in the "Life and Living and Sharing" it Profession. When working I am thinking: "This is my opportunity to augment the experience of Life... on some important Human level". Perhaps there is value in that? ...and I like a HOT time in bed or wherever~

 

Tyger~!

http://www.tygerscent.biz

503.719.9274

[email protected]

Portland, Oregon

[Guest Ace]

BRAVO Tyger!!!! HELL!!: STANDING OVATION......

Loved it ALL but ESPECIALLY this line: While you might view Escorting as prostitution, not all Escorts are prostitutes. Some are male Geisha, Healers, counselors, confidants, companions and more... I'm in the "Life and Living and Sharing" it Profession. When working I am thinking: "This is my opportunity to augment the experience of Life... on some important Human level". Perhaps there is value in that? ...and I like a HOT time in bed or wherever~

[justaguy]

Even when I was a twink, my eyes were on the coach--thirty something, strawberry blond, a few freckles, what I imagined must have been a really nice ass. Some things haven't changed. That being said, I have to agree the question of age plays. As Rod pointed out, the pics in the gallery are very rarely silver foxes. It seems to me, and I could be absolutely wrong, that an escort, especially one who escorts full time for his income, has a lot in common with a professional athlete. Both have a limited number of years of peak earning capacity as opposed to your average desk jockey. IMO, both need to use those years to make as much money as they can, squirreling away enough in a variety of investments so that when they choose to retire they can do so comfortably.

[+ Tygerscent]

Kowtow to you Ace~ Looking at your profile image though... I like your version of kowtowing~! LOL~! Nice ass Mister~! Hard and dripping here just looking at it~!

Tyger~!

http://www.tygerscent.biz

[email protected]

503.719.9274

[Michael Wayne]

Honestly I am 36 and I can tell all of you that this past year has been BY FAR the most successful year of my career as an escort. Client's tastes have changed and now late 30'a to well into the 40's with muscle and masculinity is what 90% of them want. Of course you need to keep training and it helps if you still have a full head of hair and stay out of the sun. But my dick works better now than ever and clients who knew me in my 20's at 155 pounds see me now at 185 pounds and go crazy. If ever in new orleans I invite you to see me. My ads are on men4rent now and rentboy as Mikey9nola or mikeytopnola. Hope everyone is well out there!

[devonhunter]

I didn't start until I was 33. I was always a late bloomer.

[josephga]

I didn't start until I was 33. I was always a late bloomer.

 

By the way off topic but I wanted to say congrats on your new falcon film Summer heat. I watched it today

[Guest TBinCHI]

I just read this thread for the first time and I am really impressed at the quality of the responses from the "older" escorts. When I read the original post, I thought for sure this would descend into a firestorm of namecalling. How great that the true gentlemen of this profession decided instead to school our young hooker. I have been with those whose responses were most eloquent. I've only been with Juan once - several years ago - and yet he still makes time to contact me occasionally. Each time he does so, he makes me feel like a million bucks. As far as Tyger goes, hell I can't wait to be with him when he is in his 50s and 60s. His entire being is built on the foundation of what he gives to and gets from his clients. And he is undoubtedly one of most intensely sexual, sensual, and intuitive people I have ever met, much less had sex with. A couple of other "more mature" escorts haven't been mentioned by name - I'm thinking Steven Kesslar and Dane Scott - but they are another couple of men who have raised the concept of escorting well above what the OP can comprehend. And, certainly there is another who is well on his way to building his own little empire of a Romann nature, despite the fact that he is still in his early 30s. There is undoubtedly a market for these escorts - it is in part those of us who have reached our 50s and who these more mature escorts know how to make us feel that we are still as desirable and sexy as a twentysomething. And, those are the escorts that this 50something will continue to hire.

[Traveler North]

Glad you mentioned Steven Kesslar. He is a very special guy who I have been seeing for several years. A great person and a very hot escort who I see twice a`year even tho I live in the east. A really wonderful experience both in and out of bed.

[orbital sander]

I think that older guys can be great escorts, and indeed there is a level of maturity that may be lacking in some younger guys. All that being said, however, I think that they need to be HONEST about their age. A guy who is closer to 60 who and pegs himself at 40 is being deceptive. While I will acknowledge that there is a tendency for guys to fudge on age a bit, I have twice been deceived by guys who purported to be a few younger than I am, only to have them arrive and turn out to be closer to my fathers age. I don't want a "daddy" I want a guy who is near to my own age, maybe just a few years younger. I am sure that it is harder to market in this business if you have to post an honest age, but what the hell, if you have a good reputation, then rely on it, not DECEPTION...

 

Some people may be surprised.

[+ sniper]

Rod, I hate to do this, but I have to disagree with you, rather vehemently in fact. From my reading of the responses, many (if not most) of the respondents seem to prefer the older, more experienced escort.

 

He's saying there's selection bias in the responses, which is probably true. It's not a representative sample. Who's going to post to agree with an at best indelicately-put, at worst offensive, initial post? Let's be honest, there's a premium on youth in the market at large. It doesn't mean there aren't still plenty of people willing to hire older guys, it's just that there are far more people who won't hire anyone over 35 than there are people who won't hire anyone under 30.

[jimboivyo]

On the hourly circuit, yes, there is likely a greater want for the younger guy, but when it comes to longer engagements- trips, etc- I think the older, more experienced fella is going to book the gig. Traveling with a 'twink' sounds like the inner circle of hell to me. With an experienced guy comes the knowledge that he's got things under control- himself, most importantly.

[NYTomcat]

Well I hate to say it but its also not that easy to find pics of truly hit older men. We post pictures of 20 year holds cause that is who's pictures are taken and available for display

 

Now I myself am 41. And with one notable exception of a certain dancer have only hired men over 30 and in fact a number. Nearly half are men older me. Now once I meet tyger .... ill be at 1/2 lol

[leigh.bess.toad]

He's saying there's selection bias in the responses, which is probably true. It's not a representative sample. Who's going to post to agree with an at best indelicately-put, at worst offensive, initial post? Let's be honest, there's a premium on youth in the market at large. It doesn't mean there aren't still plenty of people willing to hire older guys, it's just that there are far more people who won't hire anyone over 35 than there are people who won't hire anyone under 30.

 

Sniper, you do make a great point about the self-selection of the forums here. But I do think jimboivyo in the answer after yours also makes a great point. When I was young, I wanted someone my own age. When I got just a bit older (up to mid 30's), I wanted someone younger to remind me of my "fleeting youth". And in those days the one hour "quickie" was more than enough. But as the population ages, I think a lot of us also change what we look for. I've said before, for me, looking at an escort as a "sex worker" only (or as the OP put so indelicately, a "hooker") would be depriving myself of about 75-80% of what I could get out of my time with them. And although you may be quite right that sheer numbers of escorts are younger, the ones who book longer engagements, overnights, weekends, weeks, etc. will, I think, tend to be more mature. And for one reason, I think: as men mature in their career, they reach their income max and can afford the more indulgent side of treating yourself more and more. Just MHO and am more than happy to be proven wrong and continue this fascinating and enlightening topic.

[+ purplekow]

Colonel Leigh welcome back. I have always enjoyed sex with someone my own age or younger. As I have gotten older, younger has gotten older. So now I hire older than when I was younger cause the older now are still young than I and the young of my younger days are too darn young. So, to be precise I hire younger but younger is now older than older was when I was younger.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Colonel Leigh welcome back. I have always enjoyed sex with someone my own age or younger. As I have gotten older, younger has gotten older. So now I hire older than when I was younger cause the older now are still young than I and the young of my younger days are too darn young. So, to be precise I hire younger but younger is now older than older was when I was younger.

 

Thanks pk. I needed a few days to clear my head and although it will NEVER be clear (not enough Roto Rooters in the world for that) I'm on the way. But I think I'm going to need to go to AAA to get a road map for your response :) It would just take some mental adjustment for someone of my advancing years (it seems like just yesterday I was at Garfield's inauguration) to having sex with someone young enough to be my son. Although I'm also getting closer to the point it soon would having sex with someone who could be my grandson -- and that would really be freaky -- at least for me at first. But glad to be back.

[gp0560]

Colonel Leigh welcome back. I have always enjoyed sex with someone my own age or younger. As I have gotten older, younger has gotten older. So now I hire older than when I was younger cause the older now are still young than I and the young of my younger days are too darn young. So, to be precise I hire younger but younger is now older than older was when I was younger.

 

Well, I'm certainly glad we got THAT cleared up!

[JackTwist]

All three of my favorite (and regularly-hired) service providers are in their mid-30's. I find each of them incredibly uber-masculine, brawny (non-twinks), sexually mature and seriously fucking hawt. Their sexiness increases with each passing birthday since I've met each one. I hope none of these guys retire for a long, long time.

[+ Tygerscent]

I told my Family exactly what I was doing before I started. They have always been very supportive.

Tyger~!

http://www.tygerscent.biz

[email protected]

503.719.9274

[JT Brooklyn]

I'm guessing we will NOT be discussing Todays Fri 9/20 Cover Child ANDY in his Thread! LOL

[justaguy]

I looked...my immediate response was yuck. Truly a case of different strokes. Me, I need a man, and one with muscles.