dealing with older clients

[bcohen7719]

How do escorts deal with older clients (over 60)....? Do escorts prefer younger clients, or do they just take viagra and keep their eyes closed?

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey MrCohen,

 

I am a little puzzled by the phrasing of your question.

 

In the question itself is the suggestion that age is problematic, to the point that you suggest that one has to take pills, close one's eyes and work hard hoping that tomorrow's client will be younger.

 

Whereas I would be the first man defending your right to have a very clear set of preferences when choosing sexual partners, I would ask you to refrain from assuming that your preferences are universal, or that at least apply to me also.

 

Two days ago I had an incredibly hot session with a guy who is almost 70. He was sexy, and sensual, and hot, and intelligent, respectful and appreciative, and we had a wonderful two hours together. I am very much looking forward to seeing him again.

 

In the last month, don't remember when, I had a session with a guy who would be considered very beautiful by most. Young, muscular and well endowed. He was also high on something and his manners were not the best. Two times I had to stop the session to warn him that if he didn't change his attitude I would leave. He was not mean at heart and he tried, so we finished our session, but as soon as I got out of the room, I saved his number with the words "Don't answer. Bore.". It was an incredibly long hour and I am not willing to expose myself to that again.

 

Age is just a wide spectrum in which human beings find themselves. Human beauty is present at every point of that spectrum and it is my calling, my talent, perhaps my fun to open my eyes to see the different ways in which human beauty shows itself. This is not romanticizing my profession or trying to present myself in a way that attracts more business, this is the way in which I choose to live.

 

And just to show that I am not trying to show myself as Juan Superior Mother Sister of Virtue and Compassion, while I am incredibly open to enjoy people of all sorts of ages, races, physical states and even different degrees of physical abilities, I have ZERO tolerance for uncleanliness, rudeness or lack of respect.

 

If I see those, I go. Period.

 

Old men? Bring them on! Nobody knows how to please a human body better than an old man.

[doitb4ugo]

Thanks bcohen7719, while I am not an escort, I am definitely an older client and fairly new to this. I have not had any issues with the escorts I have engaged regarding my age. I am mostly physically fit enough for the activity and approach each escort with respect and appreciation.

 

I generally hire escorts a little bit older, 30+, which makes me feel a bit more comfortable. One exception is a beautifu 25 year old who makes me feel great as well.

 

I don't think client age is much of a factor for most quality escorts. I would recommend that good communication is helpful. I always give the escort a little info about me and what I am looking for. I don't call myself an old geezer but do let them know that I am a older guy....

 

welcome to the forum.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Thanks Juan, as always you are a voice of reason and sensibility. I don't have any factual info, but my gut tells me that if an escort wishes to eliminate all clients above sixty, then he has decided to shrink his business income.

[instudiocity]

Age is just a wide spectrum in which human beings find themselves. Human beauty is present at every point of that spectrum and it is my calling, my talent, perhaps my fun to open my eyes to see the different ways in which human beauty shows itself. This is not romanticizing my profession or trying to present myself in a way that attracts more business, this is the way in which I choose to live.

 

Like I keep saying, who cares what Juan looks like, his words alone slay me!

[+ peterhung85]

Hi,

 

I think it has been discussed in previous topics, but I do not mind to share my thoughts about it again! Many guys do care but some do not. It is always the best if you ask the one who you consider meeting up! I personally do not care much about age and nor do I have to keep my eyes closed to enjoy an encounter with an old(er) person. I naturally have a high sex drive and the fact that somebody gets turned on by touching/kissing/playing with me turns me on automatically. No need for viagra or to think about something/somebody else... For guys like me, it comes naturally. What matters to me is the way you treat me. If you treat me in a respectful way, then there is nothing that could distract me and all that matters from then on is to us to have a very enjoyable time together.

[OneFinger]

...I personally do not care much about age and nor do I have to keep my eyes closed to enjoy an encounter with an old(er) person.

 

As many of you know, my avatar is not really me but represents my screen name. I make no bones about admitting that I'm old, fat, and balding. I can certainly attest that this has never been a problem with Peter. Although it's been a while since we were together, I still smile every time I remember our last encounter.

 

I also echo the recommendation that clients need to be up-front and honest with prospective escorts concerning their age and physical characteristics. I've done this for years and I believe it has helped me minimize bad encounters.

[+ purplekow]

As many of you know, my avatar is not really me but represents my screen name. I make no bones about admitting that I'm old, fat, and balding. I can certainly attest that this has never been a problem with Peter. Although it's been a while since we were together, I still smile every time I remember our last encounter.

 

I also echo the recommendation that clients need to be up-front and honest with prospective escorts concerning their age and physical characteristics. I've done this for years and I believe it has helped me minimize bad encounters.

I think that escorts should assume that new clients are old fat and bald and the client should only describe himself if he is not. Let's face it, there are lots of different clients, hiring for lots of different reasons, but old bald and fat is probably the group you would profile if you were a Jersey cop looking to find an escort's client.

[jackcali]

Hey, PK. I'm old and fat, but I still have a full head of hair. Do you think I should ask escorts for a discount?

[Guest Merlin]

If an escort feels he cannot perform well with an older man, I think it is better that his ad say something like "under 80 prefered" or whatever. It will reduce your business, but the prospective client would prefer to be warned off from the beginnig than to be asked for stats later or to have a disappointing encounter.

[azhiker]

I remember meeting one new escort for the first time in my entry and he exclaimed "Thank

God, you're not fat" We both looked at each other for a couple seconds and then burst out laughing. He had apparently been having a string of portly gentlemen clients before me. I liked him alot and saw him for several years until he got fat! Now I'm fat. Argh.

[SteveStacks]

Anton and Juan hit the nail on the head. I couldn't have said it better!

[+ peterhung85]

Definitely!

[+ peterhung85]

As many of you know, my avatar is not really me but represents my screen name. I make no bones about admitting that I'm old, fat, and balding. I can certainly attest that this has never been a problem with Peter. Although it's been a while since we were together, I still smile every time I remember our last encounter.

 

I also echo the recommendation that clients need to be up-front and honest with prospective escorts concerning their age and physical characteristics. I've done this for years and I believe it has helped me minimize bad encounters.

 

Hey,

 

Thanks for your reply! I would be more than happy to refresh your memory about me Hit me up next time you are in the Vegas area

XOXO

[instudiocity]

Going where I may not want to go...

 

I'm finding this entire thread quite interesting. I'm also wondering just what it is that I look for in an escort. I could easily enjoy a sexual relationship with over half the client-posters on this message board. When you get down to it, having the equipment and the motivation is far more important than how old that equipment is or what other exterior adornments may or may not be present... (fat, bald, limbless, ab-less, young, old, or race [i believe Gender is IMPORTANT, though]).

 

I like to say, tongue-in-cheek, "I'm always laid in my head long before I'm laid in the bed." The fantasy of a sexual encounter is way more important than the encounter-ee. If the hottest escort in the world came to my door for a free overnight and left his brain outside, I would be totally bored within a matter of an orgasm. So the encounter-ee must show up and participate!

 

The escorts that I seek, the ones that I date add something more to their ad in the way they respond to my emails and phone calls. I can honestly say the last man I enjoyed wasn't my classic fantasy - no, he was better! He was unique, he was conversational, and by the end of the first date, I believed we were friends with benefits, albeit his benefit may have only been financial - I thought I contributed to his life as well.

 

My next 'bucket list' desire has already got me so horny I'm about to bust! I just got another flirtatious email from him today that said, "OK...so now I'm completely convinced the sex with you is going to be incredible." He hasn't seen me. Doesn't know what I look like. Doesn't know what I enjoy sexually or what my limits are and he's already described it as, INCREDIBLE SEX!

 

Unless he screams like a girl while running to hide when he sees me at the door, he's already a keeper.

 

So what is it that we're looking for in an escort experience?

FANTASY FULFILLMENT!

[+ purplekow]

Hey, PK. I'm old and fat, but I still have a full head of hair. Do you think I should ask escorts for a discount?

Jack, as a man who is not follicly challenged, you probably don't know of the sexual advantages of a clean pate. You probably dont know of the joy one can bring to a man by running your head against his inner thighs and pressing your smooth scalp across his scrotum. Come one, come both. Come all.

[AdamSmith]

the joy one can bring to a man by running your head against his inner thighs and pressing your smooth scalp across his scrotum. Come one, come both. Come all.

 

This is turning me on.

[MsGuy]

AS, everything turns you on!

 

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_pcpKTz-zGok/SeFeHXKxCNI/AAAAAAAADr8/LwkawtaJ_SM/s400/LaughingFace.gif

[AdamSmith]

AS, everything turns you on!

 

There is that.

[instudiocity]

Jack, as a man who is not follicly challenged, you probably don't know of the sexual advantages of a clean pate. You probably dont know of the joy one can bring to a man by running your head against his inner thighs and pressing your smooth scalp across his scrotum. Come one, come both. Come all.

 

Besides, baldness is just an indicator of headboard damage. Hey, some people waste their hormones on growing hair, others have a higher purpose

[+ glutes]

How do escorts deal with older clients (over 60)....? Do escorts prefer younger clients, or do they just take viagra and keep their eyes closed?

 

First post from a newbie? I smell a troll folks...

[orbital sander]

As many of you know, my avatar is not really me but represents my screen name. I make no bones about admitting that I'm old, fat, and balding

 

Luv all your posts...