Recommendations for a friend

[Boston Guy]

Most of my RW friends don't know that I hire escorts. It's not something that I hide particularly but it also isn't something that seems to me to be much of anyone else's business. But there are a few exceptions, each of whom are friends of long-standing who are also gay. (As I get older, the term "old friend" is starting to be a double entendre. )

 

One of these friends has never hired an escort but is considering doing so and asked for my help. He wants to experience light bondage and has a good understanding of what he is looking for. Unfortunately, since this isn't a scene that I have any experience with, I can't give him any personal recommendations. I thought perhaps that someone here might have a recommendation or two. Here's what he said he is seeking:

 

"A younger guy, preferably in his 20s, all-American, boy-next-door type. In my dreams, he is blond and muscled and possesses a wicked smile. He understands how to tie a guy up and enjoys doing so. He's a top with endurance who enjoys teasing, topping and maybe even tickling his victims. He's smart and good company. Outside of the bedroom, he is engaging and interesting and likes to travel. He is kind but assertive, demanding but not domineering, funny and fun and always a gentleman. He is also always trustworthy."

 

My friend is not a size queen and seems willing to travel most anywhere to meet up with someone who fits the profile that he seems to have painstakingly constructed in his mind. I'm usually interested in short sessions with the guys I meet but I get the impression that he may be more interested in overnights or longer. When we spoke on the phone about this, he confided that he had never experienced bondage at all and was apprehensive about it but still determined to give it a try.

 

Any recommendations that you folks may have are greatly appreciated and will be passed on to my friend.

 

Thanks,

BG

[doitb4ugo]

Hey Boston Guy,

Finding all of that will not be an easy task. Ben in Boston, while not really a BDSM guy, was willing to tie me up and blindfold me for a session. He took complete control and he set his boundaries at not wanting to do anything which would inflict pain...He agreed to the scene I requested because it was not our first meeting but if a client wanted a longer session he might be amenable. He advertises these activities on hos profile and I found him very easy to talk to and he was very up front about what he would and would not do...He may be worth a call to discuss....

 

I don't know if it's indacative of the BDSM world but he asked for no review. FYI...He is so fucking hot and muscular I would have settled for him tying me up and looking at me....lol

[Boston Guy]

Thanks, Rich.

 

I agree that it will be difficult to find someone who is described so specifically and I think my friend understands that as well. But I asked him to describe what he was looking for and that's what he came up with. Hopefully there will be a few guys who may come close, at least on a few of the criteria. My friend knows that I've hired tons of escorts over the years and, while most were relatively young, they have varied immensely in other ways and I've enjoyed almost every experience. But since he has never hired an escort, he's got a vision in mind and I thought that I'd put it out there just in case someone would say "Oh, you're looking for Tom in LA."

 

Thanks for the reply.

 

BG

[uwsman2]

Your friend's specifications are so very particular. None of the bondage escorts I know are 20-something muscular blonds. In fact, the bondage escorts tend to be a bit older, more mature and more experienced, and I would hesitate putting myself into the hands of a 20-something guy who I don't know to tie me up and abuse me. I would want somebody with more experience who really knows how far he can go without doing real physical or mental damage to somebody. That's why I would recommend Raul Z. Manzo for anybody who wants to be initiated into bondage with a gentle beginning.

[Boston Guy]

Thanks. That's already good information that I can pass on that I wouldn't have known myself.

 

BG

[+ purplekow]

Well I am sorry to say only three names pop into mind and each is a less than perfect fit but any one of them would be perfect for your friend.

#1Nick German Physically perfect though he is in his thirties. He travels to Boston often and in fact used to work for a law firm there.

He has skills in BDSM and he has the German accent to add to the fun. Boys next door are fun but men next door are

incredible. He is amenable to longer visits and speaking of longer, well he is longer and thicker.

Not quite perfect because: older, German, perhaps a bit more muscular than desired.

#2Aaron Mark Physically perfect. Perfect age. Aryan good looks. Just finished his schooling. Definitely knows both ends of a paddle.

He has just left the States and I am not sure if he is returning, so it may take a bit of tempting to get him to Boston.

Great fun and once again the sexy German accent.

#3David SF While he is not as buff as the other two, his body is built for sin. He loves sex and he loves control and he loves being

the patient teacher, urging his student on but no accepting anything less than their best. He is now adding BDSM

tricks to his repertoire. He does come to the east coast though I don't know if Boston is on his usual tour.

David is as much fun out of bed as in it. Actually that is a lie, no one is as much fun out of bed as David is in it, but

your friend will find a great guide, a great lover and a great big dick if he hires David.

On the down side: Physically not the picture you painted but a nice picture nevertheless. Older than you friend's

preference. He is difficult to get out of California and Oklahoma. On the whole, David would be the kind of man

that would lead your friend to say afterward that he thought he knew what he wanted but then he met David and

found out that the answers to the questions we ask are sometimes suprisingly different from our initial assumption.

Would add a vote for Raul. Also Romann who does come to Boston but who tends toward the power bottom position, though I am sure he can fill anyones assless chaps to their satisfaction.

[Boston Guy]

PK,

 

Thanks very much. My friend lives in Colorado but has bought a home in So Cal and is in the process of moving there. He doesn't travel for work (something that I've done extensively for 25 years) but he's quite willing to hop on a plane at the spur of the moment for fun and he has the resources needed to do that. Consequently, geography isn't likely to be a problem for him.

 

When I started hiring escorts a dozen years ago, I had a specific type in mind that was actually not far from what my friend is envisioning. That's not surprising, to me at least, since we've long had similar tastes in men and, over the years, have both had boyfriends who were blond and younger than us. But my own experience with escorts has taught me that it's possible to have a great deal of fun with all sorts of guys. When looking for an escort today, I do tend to look for guys under 30 (although not exclusively) but am quite open to all sorts of possibilities in terms of appearance, experience, interests, etc. I've had this talk with my friend and he understands. But since he hasn't hired an escort before, he's willing to look around to see if he can find someone who has the look he's looking for. Since he understands that may end up costing him time and money just to get to where someone is, I can't really fault him on it.

 

Thanks for those recommendations. If Aaron Mark were still in the US, I would have suggested him myself. In fact, when trying to come up with suggestions before I thought of starting a thread, Aaron was one of the only suggestions that I could personally come up with. Unfortunately, I think he's back in Germany and I don't know if he's even escorting over there.

 

I will pass on your suggestions. Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate it.

 

BG

[whipped guy]

Another thought...

 

I just caught this thread.. I have had personal experience with both Nick German and David SF as far as BDSM is concerned and both are excellent... polar opposite body types... both are a bit older... but age is a state of mind and both think and act young... with David being the more sexy lover type as opposed to the more overpowering persona of Nick

 

As usman2 said most BDSM types are older...

 

Another suggestion (since a photo of him recently popped up in the Gallery: "Wednesday - The search begins anew" thread as number 6) is Adam Faust based in LA. I posted a Rentboy link that thread. Very knowledgeable and nice guy.

[Boston Guy]

WG,

 

Thank you. I appreciate the suggestion and passed it on to my friend. I've encouraged him to join the Message Center but he's not a forum kind of guy, nor does he spend much time online for any reason at all.

 

Based on the information provided in this thread (which was new to me, since I know nothing about bondage), I told him that it seemed like he might have two basic choices: to hire someone older or to find someone with the look he's looking for, hire that person often enough to get to know him and then gradually learn bondage together. Since it seems that he's only looking for light bondage (whatever that means; "tied up" sounds pretty tied up to me, no matter how you got there), he might be able to work up to it with someone who is also interested in learning the ropes (pun intended). He's moving to So Cal and is convinced that he's going to find hot blond surfers on every street corner.

 

When I suggested hiring someone older, he replied -- fairly sensibly -- that if he was looking for an older guy, he could most likely meet someone like that in a bar. So I think he's set on finding a younger guy, at least for now. When I mentioned Aaron Mark and Germany, he said "Germany! Hmmmm..." and I could the wheels turning as he imagined a whole nation of young, blond guys with ropes waiting for him to get off the plane.

 

Thank you again and thanks to all for all of your advice. It's been interesting to me, since I've hired so many escorts for so long now but but have had zero experience in the world of bondage. Well, except once, and that was sort of accidental, when I found myself tied up in a grand hotel. But that's a story for another day.

 

BG

[wayout]

Although I have not personally met him, I would suggest your friend might consider Paul Pratt of Vegas. He seems to fit alot of the criteria your friend is looking for (although not necessarily muscled he is well toned), and while I do not know specifically how far he will go in that type of scenario, my impression of him from his positive reviews here (http://www.daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/nevada) and his own site (https://www.prattporn.com/home.html) is that he can be very aggressive in the bedroom as needed and willing to fulfill fantasies. I plan to be in Vegas in a couple months and I definitely plan to check him out as I am interested in much the same as your friend. As your friend is moving to Southern California, Vegas is very convenient.

 

Another suggestion, this time someone I have been with, is Andre of Raleigh (http://www.daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/north_carolina). Depending on what the definition of All American boy is (Andre is Latino), he fits quite a bit of the requirements of your friend (maybe considered muscled but mostly described as swimmer build). A bit further and less convenient for your friend but definitely someone worth checking out as he is a very hot and well built young man. He is very well reviewed (one of them by me). Although we did not specifically do bondage, I wanted to have him be very aggressive in the bedroom and I would suggest your friend check about being tied up as I strongly suspect he would be into that. And out of the bedroom he is as charming and nice as they come.

 

Would definitely be interested to hear what your friend decides on and his experience as I am always on the lookout for a new experience.

[+ Charlie]

I don't know what has become of Lars Svenson, who was based in NY but travelled around a lot, including long periods in SoCal. He seems to fit the image as well as the scene perfectly, though he had somewhat mixed reviews. You can find him in the "All" section of the reviews, but not in the "Active."

[whipped guy]

I don't know what has become of Lars Svenson...

Again another individual with a German pedigree along with Nick, Adam, etc. as noted above. Interestingly I always thought that Lars looked too young... at least for me that is. Plus he was a dead ringer for a relative of mine... and I just could not do it with someone who looked like Cousin Chris...

[Boston Guy]

Thanks, guys.

 

Charlie, I hired Lars once, a long time ago. I agree that he definitely had the look and likely could fit the scene, at least as I understand it. I haven't heard anything of him in quite some time so I think he may have retired.

 

BG

[JT Brooklyn]

Well apparently the guy in question is looking for the "LA" Type with a little KINK thrown in!

 

IF he's relocating to So Cal he just might check out what is available in CALI First!

 

I'm guessing he could get Lucky and enjoy his Kink with a Goodlooking Stud from more or less the Neighborhood!

 

I'm sure IF he offers to be a "Regular" there's a few Hunks who might attend his Kink Classes and "Graduate Cum Often" and also be on CALL alot more often than "Out of Town" Guys! IMHO as usual!

[JT Brooklyn]

My Friend LARS who Travels back and forth from Germany has at this time taken down his ADS.

 

Whether he is "Working It" at this time seems to be doubtful......BUT he reads DADDYS once in a while so one never knows!

 

He's definitely a Young Tall Hunk who has Major Experience On and Off Screen in the Wonderful World of S&M.

[curious2000]

I just saw his ad on http://www.planetromeo.com in the Berlin,Germany escort listings under the name "LarsBerlin". I can't seem to copy a direct link, but you can do a search for him on the escort listings section. Always thought he was sexy! still looks sexy to me. maybe he will travel back to the US someday.

[JT Brooklyn]

I'm sure some day LARS will.. with a few more Scenarios from the BDSM Capitol of the World!

[Lankypeters]

Wither Lars?

 

I just saw his ad on http://www.planetromeo.com in the Berlin,Germany escort listings under the name "LarsBerlin". I can't seem to copy a direct link, but you can do a search for him on the escort listings section. Always thought he was sexy! still looks sexy to me. maybe he will travel back to the US someday.

 

Lars is unable to clear US immigration.