We need client warning boards for malescorts

[Guest RianB]

Do they exist? I have seen warning boards for women who can post about dangerous or persistant/aggressive timewasters. Its posted where one can tell about what happened in the situation and post numbers and addresses like (813) 4*4 2*2* or something like that without giving out complete details and keep the privacy and saftey. I think its much needed here.

 

Reason being; although I dont often run into bad clients, once in awhile I do and yesterday afternoon had met a client who I previously met before. He was very complicated this time, took 20 minutes to find me in the parking garage when I arrived, which already had me pissed. When I showed up, he said he had x amount and that he wanted to drive to the atm to get the rest. So at that point we leave, and instead I follow him to the atm. I watched closely and seen the money come out.

 

We returned and the place was a mess and disordered, cats running everywhere which was making me sick. We argued a bit cause he made a fuss about giving me the money when we got back. He kept trying to get me to do stuff, kissing me but I got up and said Im not doing anything, where's the fee first. He then opened his wallet, and low and behold there was nothing in it. The $300 had 'disappeared'. He kept saying how he was sorry, that he's 'fucked up'. I didnt accept cause I drove for 45minutes from where I live to get bullshit. He spends another 15-20 min. looking for the money as if he set it down someplace. At that point I knew he was hiding it. Then out of no where he tells me to get the hell out of the house and he wouldnt give me anything then pushes me thinking I was stealing something, then I pushed him down on the floor. I didnt leave out completely empty handed but I did leave with no money.

 

If anything Im also upset at myself for having trusted this fool, even though we met before. I was just being too nice, as usual...and he took clean advantage of it. He took forever to get the money to me, which if it was a first-timer I'd been of left out of there. Im just glad we didnt do everything, but he still made moves on me. It was a complete waste of trip, could have turned out worse with one or both us in jail. I just cut my losses and left though. It was a shame as he seemed like a good guy which could have been a good session, but he acted like an idiot and ruined it.

 

Daddy, would you consider creating a warning board? Im sure it'd be of great help.

[Kevin Slater]

<Copied from an earlier thread I replied to.>

 

It's a neat idea, but the industry is so fragmented that I don't think it would work. The first disreputable escort to put his best client on the list has pretty well guaranteed himself a lock on that guy's business. And to be honest, I wonder if the conflict doesn't often arise from the escort side, whether he's aware of it or not. I guess I would only trust the list if there were strict vetting of which working guys could post to it.

 

And the last thing Daddy wants is to get in the middle of escort/client disputes (more than he already has to be).

 

Kevin Slater

[Guest zipperzone]

Do they exist? I have seen warning boards for women who can post about dangerous or persistant/aggressive timewasters. Its posted where one can tell about what happened in the situation and post numbers and addresses like (813) 4*4 2*2* or something like that without giving out complete details and keep the privacy and saftey. I think its much needed here.

 

Reason being; although I dont often run into bad clients, once in awhile I do and yesterday afternoon had met a client who I previously met before. He was very complicated this time, took 20 minutes to find me in the parking garage when I arrived, which already had me pissed. When I showed up, he said he had x amount and that he wanted to drive to the atm to get the rest. So at that point we leave, and instead I follow him to the atm. I watched closely and seen the money come out.

 

We returned and the place was a mess and disordered, cats running everywhere which was making me sick. We argued a bit cause he made a fuss about giving me the money when we got back. He kept trying to get me to do stuff, kissing me but I got up and said Im not doing anything, where's the fee first. He then opened his wallet, and low and behold there was nothing in it. The $300 had 'disappeared'. He kept saying how he was sorry, that he's 'fucked up'. I didnt accept cause I drove for 45minutes from where I live to get bullshit. He spends another 15-20 min. looking for the money as if he set it down someplace. At that point I knew he was hiding it. Then out of no where he tells me to get the hell out of the house and he wouldnt give me anything then pushes me thinking I was stealing something, then I pushed him down on the floor. I didnt leave out completely empty handed but I did leave with no money.

 

If anything Im also upset at myself for having trusted this fool, even though we met before. I was just being too nice, as usual...and he took clean advantage of it. He took forever to get the money to me, which if it was a first-timer I'd been of left out of there. Im just glad we didnt do everything, but he still made moves on me. It was a complete waste of trip, could have turned out worse with one or both us in jail. I just cut my losses and left though. It was a shame as he seemed like a good guy which could have been a good session, but he acted like an idiot and ruined it.

 

Daddy, would you consider creating a warning board? Im sure it'd be of great help.

 

I find your report somewhat rambling and hard to follow. There is one point you may wish to clarify as it could be taken from what you said that you are a thief. You said "I didn't leave out completely empty handed but I did leave with no money." What exactly did you leave with?

 

My advice to you is - get over it. Shit happens and I'm sure you are smart enough not to see this client again.

[+ glutes]

You said "I didn't leave out completely empty handed but I did leave with no money." What exactly did you leave with?

 

My advice to you is - get over it. Shit happens and I'm sure you are smart enough not to see this client again.

 

In another post someone said that not being paid was a cost of business. All businesses have some 'uncollectibles'.

But to leave with something other than cash...

[+ Lucky]

RianB, sure sounds like an unfortunate incident, and I am sorry to hear it. To have to get physical with the guy must have been quite unpleasant.

There is the suggestion in your post that you took something from him. You might want to clarify that.

[seaboy4hire]

There are places where you can post such info but I'd be learry of them just for the fact that some escorts might be trying to get back at clients for whatever reason. I'm sorry you had a bad situation with this guy. He sounds like he was high off something which is never a good thing. Like Lucky said the part you saying that you didn't leave with the cash but not empty handed does not shine well. You might want to clarify that. Stealing from the client is not good if that was what happened. Two wrongs don't make a right.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Scorpio]

I didnt leave out completely empty handed but I did leave with no money..

 

What did you leave with then?

 

 

He took forever to get the money to me, which if it was a first-timer I'd been of left out of there.

 

Huh? I thought you didn't get any money?

[Guest RianB]

I think a warning board is a good idea cause I've had a couple experiences similar to this happen in different cities, almost always its druggie clients who have lots of money for their drugs but then cant pay the escort or tries to short change when I get there. Its like a warning to guys, "hey if you come across this guy, just watch out or avoid him". And like someone said, it is so fragmented, but even someone who doesnt post or have an account here may see it and benefit from it.

 

To clarify, I was able to get my bag and my phone which was I meant by not leaving empty handed. He tried to get me out the door without getting my things, which wasnt going to happen.

 

But I dont see anything wrong though with leaving out with collateral instead of money, if a client chooses to blatantly disrespect me, and not pay. My mechanic wont even give me my keys until I pay them. We dont have any legal recourse if a client walks. With me Its tick for tack, even steven. Theres not much to be argued, he called me for a service. I showed up. He had the money in his possession and refused to pay me even $1 dollar for my coming out there, even though he said I was "unbelievably hot".

 

I have observed warning boards in other places and having an escort post to 'get back' at a client doesnt sound likely. I'd say only for the chancers like this one. I cant understand why more escorts here arent up for it. Wouldnt it be great to have a heads up instead of going thru the same thing? Who wants to meet up with someone who just ripped someone off or had an escort drive for nothing?

[Scorpio]

But I dont see anything wrong though with leaving out with collateral instead of money, if a client chooses to blatantly disrespect me, and not pay. My mechanic wont even give me my keys until I pay them. We dont have any legal recourse if a client walks. With me Its tick for tack, even steven. Theres not much to be argued, he called me for a service. I showed up. He had the money in his possession and refused to pay me even $1 dollar for my coming out there, even though he said I was "unbelievably hot". [/qoute]

 

You generally sign an agreement with your mechanic when you drop your car off. No payment = No car.

 

Yes, he called for a service...you showed up. He didn't pay and you didn't provide the service. Tit for tat....even steven.

 

 

Then start one instead of relying on someone to do it for you.

[devonhunter]

We seldom repent talking little, but very often talking too much. - Jean de la Bruyère

[BewareofNick]

Didn't Hooboy used to have an escorts only forum on the old MC?

[+ deej]

Didn't Hooboy used to have an escorts only forum on the old MC?

 

Yes, and Hooboy hand picked the escorts who were given access. That trust was abused so the forum was closed. There are no plans to try again.

 

There used to be a blog run by an escort in the DC area that was similar to the original request. I've lost the url. A search in the archives may turn it up.

[Guest RianB]

We seldom repent talking little, but very often talking too much. - Jean de la Bruyère

 

Dont come with that sophisticated bullshit of a way to shut me up, must we go there again?

 

Yes, he called for a service...you showed up. He didn't pay and you didn't provide the service. Tit for tat....even steven.

 

Then start one instead of relying on someone to do it for you.

 

Although tempting, I'm not going to even argue with you or no one else on this thread who dont agree or have some smart ass comment to make. You dont have to like what I say but if you dont then stay off my posts then.

 

Point is, he knew I was coming, he knew the fee and didnt have upon arrival. Anyone who skips around on things in the beginning is asking to be treated with scrutiny. I can ask or suggest an addition to a site if I want to. If they decide not to, then I know what to do...

[Kevin Slater]

Yes, and Hooboy hand picked the escorts who were given access.

 

Boy, I've never felt so out-of-the-loop before.

 

There used to be a blog run by an escort in the DC area that was similar to the original request. I've lost the url. A search in the archives may turn it up.

 

I think it had the tagline (maybe URL even) of Don't Fuck with Us! (Their exclamation point, not mine.)

 

Kevin Slater

[Scorpio]

Boy, I've never felt so out-of-the-loop before.

 

Kevin, based on the date you joined the site, I believe the "Escorts Only" forum had long-since been disbanded....so you weren't exactly out of the loop.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Rian, you seem to have more trouble than other escorts and quite frankly you too often come across as a "cry baby".

You are in a service business and some of these things simply come with the territory.

[devonhunter]

Oh, excuse me... I apologize for trying to save you from yourself. Let me translate for you, since you have an aversion to proper English, good manners, and common sense (*pulls out Ebonix dictionary):

 

Dawg when you gonna finally smell the bullshit you drop on this site like you somebody special saying whatever trash you think other people want to here maybe if you werent such a punk a$$ people wouldnt be trying to hate on you for robbing a crack head. You always saying everyone has a right to express what they got in they minds on these threads but you get all crunk when a muthafucker say ish you dont want to here even if it is be being exactly what your ass needs the most other than a bottle of bitchbegone. Do you ever not sound like a punked out ho?

 

(*puts Ebonix translator down.)

 

Honestly, could you please just start a thread on any topic whatsoever that isn't complaining about something?! It'd be really nice to finally have some sort of a good impression of you. Right now you look like a ghetto mushmouth thug at best and a marauding thief at worst (hopefully).

 

You make professional companions look really bad, just so you know. I'm sick of it. I'm sick to death of your negativity. You, amongst others, make this place entirely unpleasant at times. It doesn't have to be this heavy here: You are pandering to every horrible stereotype someone could lump on you. If you are bitter and angry, have you ever considered that it's YOUR fault, not someone else's? Get therapy with the money you're stealing from your drug addicted patrons. Honestly, given the way you parade yourself here, you're lucky to have any work at all, whether you end up robbing someone in the process or not. Even if no one else will say it, I will: You are committing career suicide in front of the entire community.

 

You should be grateful that someone on this site is finally trying to hold you accountable for the insanity you dump here. If you don't want to hear criticism about your absolutely ridiculous (and recurring) situations, then stop airing your dirty laundry on the forum. No one is interested. Period. Even the ones who are pretending... they're not interested either. They're just rubber necking at a train that has derailed. Remember: What happens in public stays in public. This entire site is one big Las Vegas. Deal with it, crybaby.

 

You can thank me later for being the only person on this site who is honest with you.

 

Happy Hannakuh,

[+ purplekow]

Way over the line dragging race into this. Your comments were insulting and degrading. I should think you would have taken your own advice about discretion before going public with such a statement.

[Guest RianB]

Oh, excuse me... I apologize for trying to save you from yourself. Let me translate for you, since you have an aversion to proper English, good manners, and common sense (*pulls out Ebonix dictionary):

 

Dawg when you gonna finally smell the bullshit you drop on this site like you somebody special saying whatever trash you think other people want to here maybe if you werent such a punk a$$ people wouldnt be trying to hate on you for robbing a crack head. You always saying everyone has a right to express what they got in they minds on these threads but you get all crunk when a muthafucker say ish you dont want to here even if it is be being exactly what your ass needs the most other than a bottle of bitchbegone. Do you ever not sound like a punked out ho?

 

(*puts Ebonix translator down.)

 

Honestly, could you please just start a thread on any topic whatsoever that isn't complaining about something?! It'd be really nice to finally have some sort of a good impression of you. Right now you look like a ghetto mushmouth thug at best and a marauding thief at worst (hopefully).

 

You make professional companions look really bad, just so you know. I'm sick of it. I'm sick to death of your negativity. You, amongst others, make this place entirely unpleasant at times. It doesn't have to be this heavy here: You are pandering to every horrible stereotype someone could lump on you. If you are bitter and angry, have you ever considered that it's YOUR fault, not someone else's? Get therapy with the money you're stealing from your drug addicted patrons. Honestly, given the way you parade yourself here, you're lucky to have any work at all, whether you end up robbing someone in the process or not. Even if no one else will say it, I will: You are committing career suicide in front of the entire community.

 

You should be grateful that someone on this site is finally trying to hold you accountable for the insanity you dump here. If you don't want to hear criticism about your absolutely ridiculous (and recurring) situations, then stop airing your dirty laundry on the forum. No one is interested. Period. Even the ones who are pretending... they're not interested either. They're just rubber necking at a train that has derailed. Remember: What happens in public stays in public. This entire site is one big Las Vegas. Deal with it, crybaby.

 

You can thank me later for being the only person on this site who is honest with you.

 

Happy Hannakuh,

 

You're only talking all that shit cause you're in Booneville South Carolina or whereever the fuck you're from but I bet you an hour's booking you wouldnt say that shit in my face or even the phone. And you are being a racist FUCK...you know damn well I do not speak the way your ass is making me out to be. You are making yourself look like an ass for jumping into someone elses business. You need to shut the fuck up if you dont have anything to contribute. This thread was going nicely til you decided to come on here and be a sarcastic son of a bitch. I dont know what the hell you have against me but whatever it is get the fuck over it and deal with it.

 

The problem with guys like you, is you are so busy hating and being jealous that when an escort you cant stand (for no reason at all) comes to unite with other escorts, you come and talk shit because you hate me for no reason. Well guess what, you may think that what I say is of no importance but you know what...I know others are learning from it. You, mother fucker....just made a thread about "never meeting clients from a particular site". Bitch...you just complained ho! Where the fuck you come off. You hypocritical son of bitch? If you dont like a site get your boney ass off of it you anorexic ass mother fucker. You talk about me complaining, your ass complaining too!

 

Like I said before, I was cool with your stupid ass til you made that comment of Joesephs thread. But thats before I knew you were a idiot, and jump into shit you have no business of doing. You are a gem, Devon. You think you're the shit but you making yourself look like an asshole. My clients arent on crack, you must be with your withdrawals that you do when you come on this site to fight. Its so weak, cause you wouldnt do it in person...I'd smack the wrinkles off your face. Go home

[MsGuy]

Devonhunter, that post was in your face racist. Not acceptable. Not even a little bit.

[devonhunter]

Absolutely no regrets. When Rian would like to lower the tone of his rhetoric I will do the same in kind. And you've picked the wrong flower if you think I'm going to bow to your racism comments, MsGuy, especially given the beautifully tragic response I just got from Rian. The gloves are now off.

 

Happy Kwanzaa,

[Guest RianB]

Absolutely no regrets. When Rian would like to lower the tone of his rhetoric I will do the same in kind. And you've picked the wrong flower if you think I'm going to bow to your racism comments, MsGuy, especially given the beautifully tragic response I just got from Rian. The gloves are now off.

 

Happy Kwanzaa,

 

Awww..Im sorry Dev, for not kissing your ass. Maybe next time you'll learn not to talk shit on someone elses topic. I'm really not concerned so much my reputation as my dignity. Even if its just online, you disrespect me you begging to have your feelings hurt.

[devonhunter]

You're only talking all that shit cause you're in Booneville South Carolina or whereever the fuck you're from but I bet you an hour's booking you wouldnt say that shit in my face or even the phone. And you are being a racist FUCK...you know damn well I do not speak the way your ass is making me out to be. You are making yourself look like an ass for jumping into someone elses business. You need to shut the fuck up if you dont have anything to contribute. This thread was going nicely til you decided to come on here and be a sarcastic son of a bitch. I dont know what the hell you have against me but whatever it is get the fuck over it and deal with it.

 

The problem with guys like you, is you are so busy hating and being jealous that when an escort you cant stand (for no reason at all) comes to unite with other escorts, you come and talk shit because you hate me for no reason. Well guess what, you may think that what I say is of no importance but you know what...I know others are learning from it. You, mother fucker....just made a thread about "never meeting clients from a particular site". Bitch...you just complained ho! Where the fuck you come off. You hypocritical son of bitch? If you dont like a site get your boney ass off of it you anorexic ass mother fucker. You talk about me complaining, your ass complaining too!

 

Like I said before, I was cool with your stupid ass til you made that comment of Joesephs thread. But thats before I knew you were a idiot, and jump into shit you have no business of doing. You are a gem, Devon. You think you're the shit but you making yourself look like an asshole. My clients arent on crack, you must be with your withdrawals that you do when you come on this site to fight. Its so weak, cause you wouldnt do it in person...I'd smack the wrinkles off your face. Go home

 

 

You're talking all that shit only because you're in Booneville, South Carolina, or wherever the fuck you're from. But I bet you an hour's booking you wouldn't say that shit in my face, or even the phone. And you are being a racist FUCK! You know damn well that I do not speak the way your ass is implying. You are making yourself look like an ass for jumping into someone else's business. You need to shut the fuck up if you don't have anything to contribute. This thread was going nicely, until you decided to come on here and be a sarcastic son of a bitch. I don't know what the hell you have against me, but whatever it is, get the fuck over it and deal with it.

 

The problem with guys like you is that you are so busy hating and being jealous that when an escort you can't stand (for no reason at all) comes to unite with other escorts, you come and talk shit, because you hate me for no reason. Well guess what, you may think that what I say is of no importance, but you know what: I know others are learning from it. You motherfucker, you just made a thread entitled "Remorse over rejecting clients." Bitch, you just complained, you ho! Where the fuck do you come off, you hypocritical son of bitch? If you don't like a site, get your boney ass off of it, you anorexic-ass motherfucker. You talk about me complaining? Your ass is complaining, too!

 

Like I said before, I was cool with your stupid ass, until you made that comment on Joeseph's thread. But that was before I knew you were an idiot who jumps into shit that doesn't concern him. You are a gem, Devon. You think you're the shit, but you are making yourself look like an asshole. My clients aren't on crack. You must be withdrawing from crack if you come on this site to fight. It's so weak, because you wouldn't do it in person. I'd smack the wrinkles off your (white) face. Go home.

 

 

 

 

 

Honestly, this is a D- at best. Try again using punctuation, apostrophes, and complete clauses that do not drag out into run-on sentences. And on one point you are totally mistaken: I would most defintely say all of this to your face.

[devonhunter]

Awww..Im sorry Dev, for not kissing your ass. Maybe next time you'll learn not to talk shit on someone elses topic. I'm really not concerned so much my reputation as my dignity. Even if its just online, you disrespect me you begging to have your feelings hurt.

 

 

 

 

Aw, I'm sorry Devon for not kissing your ass. Maybe next time you'll learn not to talk shit on someone else's topic? I'm really not concerned so much for my reputation as for my dignity. Even if it's just online, if you disrespect me you are begging to have your feelings hurt.

 

 

 

Eh... This was better. Fewer typos. But you really must remember to use proper punctuation and apostrophes. This is how it's done:

 

The genitive case indicates possession. Whenever something belongs to something else, you have to use "'s." It gets complicated when you have to denote a differentiation between singular and plural:

 

the dog's tail -> one dog with one tail

the dogs' tail -> more than one dog with one tail between them

the dog's tails -> one dog with more than one tail

the dogs' tails -> more than one dog, each with one tail (presumably)

 

As you can see, if you don't use the "'s" correctly you change the entire meaning of a phrase.

 

Next, your syntax is not quite right. When you use the word "dignity" it implies you care about yours, which you obviously don't, since you have none. Perhaps you meant to say "ego?"

 

Lastly, you are disrespecting yourself. And you are not in a position to hurt my feelings. But you are of course free to continue trying. It will hopefully give you some more opportunities to use the proper English you previously implied you already know.

[Guest RianB]

I'd smack the wrinkles off your (white) face. Go home.

Honestly, this is a D- at best. Try again using punctuation, apostrophes, and complete clauses that do not drag out into run-on sentences. And on one point you are totally mistaken: I would most defintely say all of this to your face.

 

You sneaky bastard...I didnt say 'white' face, you putting words on the screen. Now I get it, you assume I hate white guys. Thats a shame, since my dad comes from a white family. For crying out loud, I hope South Carolina isnt like Devon makes it to be, he sure is making it look bad. If not he making himself look bad.

 

Punctuation is for letters and documents. Im just getting my point across, which only needs exclamations. You hear what I'm saying or do I need to call your phone? Dont make me, its free nights and weekends here baby....