Three-somes?

[Guest cmp]

I would like to hear from the experienced posters. It looks like I can finally get back to London for a short visit. Unfortunately, I will only be able to have fun twice. My wish-list is way longer than two names (half of the Choirboyz, a few of Villa Gianni, including the little Asian devil Will, Cliff the Malay dancer, and many more. I was thinking, if I could set up some three-somes, I would be tasting four out of many, rather than just two out of many. So, what do the experienced ones think of three-somes? I guess it must be real hot, and one can meet twice as many cutie-pies this way. But doesn't the "crowd" take away something from the fuzzy feeling of one-on-one cuddling? Are there clumsy moments? And how would you go about matching the partners? Ideally, they would have a crush on each other...

 

So, do y'all think this would be a good way to make my visit more "fruitful"? Oh, and if you just reply with a description of your sweetest memories without actually answering my questions, I'll welcome that too.

 

Thanks in advance from the oldest newbie on board.

[Rod Hagen]

One of my best evenings was a threesome with a hot client from NY (but he wouldn't let me fuck him, damn him) and DesertMuscleBoy http://www.muscleservice.com/competition/desertmsclboy.html

 

We did an overnight at the Hotel Bel Air in one of the suites that have an outdoor jacuzzi. Damn was that a good night. Fucking, cuddling, wrestling, Jacuzzi and fucking, Dinner, Jacuzzi and Fucking, Bed and fucking, cuddling, middle of the night while Desert was trying to sleep fucking, morning fucking, roomservice bringing in breakfast for three fuckmonsters, goodbye cuddles. One of my favorite parts of threesomes is watching the expression of roomservice in the morning when three gay guys are lounging about the rooom in robes and underwear and condoms litter the floor. HOT.

 

FUN NIGHT.

 

Another fun 3some was during the only trip I flew out to NYC to see a specific client. We ordered in a hot bottom from RentBoy (no longer escorting) and tag-teamed. FUN FUN FUN.

 

3 somes rock (course 4 somes are better, and 5sies, and big fucking muscle orgies are the BEST)!

 

Have fun.

[Matt_Vancouver]

Three ways are tricky, some times it works great, others it's a mangle of too many limbs and no passion.

But if I were to choose any two in london, KURT KURT KURT!! Hottie south African with a sexy Afrikan accent, hot body big fat cock!! whew.

Never been with him, he's actually dating a good friend of mine, who as it happens escorts as well:) Well what do you know, a built in threeways waiting to happen. His name is Jay, both are reviewed here, both are hung huge, and both are sexy as fuck.

If they don't turn your crank... a guy named tristan does dous with someone else I can't remember, and Tristan is a hottie too.

Have fun...

Matt(international pimp)

[Guest cmp]

Thanks Rod and Matt, I enjoyed reading your replies. Thanks for the references, but I prefer the Choirboyz/Villa Gianni/Campus Escorts crowd, I seem to be a MarkAnthony clone in that respect. I am also dreaming of M-F-M and F-M-F three-somes, but that seems inappropriate for this board. Matt, thanks for warning me about the possible problems. What is the best way to avoid them? Maybe I should ask Ben of Choirboyz if any two boys on my wish-list are attracted to each other, that should get things rolling. Any further comments? Thanks in advance.

[marc anthony]

cmp: I have done some 3-ways... and most went fine. But like the others have said, you can get ambushed in places you don't expect it. I once did a 3-way with 2 VERY cute escorts, who I thought HAD to be attracted to each other. But one was, and the other wasn't. So there were some grouchy, sullen faces in the crowd... and it made me feel bad.

 

Why don't you invite me? And then we can do a 3-way with Leon????:9

 

Marc <----wants you to convince Leon to come live in the US for a while!

[Matt_Vancouver]

I can't really offer any pointers on things to look out for. I've done threeways with some local guys who were fucking fantastic one time, then a complete dud the next. I don't think it's an attraction issue. Remember most escorts can perform with clients they aren't necessarily attracted to.

I suspect that part of the problem is the majority of escorts usually work alone, and get used to that. So adding an extra body, especially a peer, changes the dynamic.

Remember, a lot of these guys are fairly young and still are very much aware of how their peers perceive them. So they may not be as 'friendly' or attentive with someone else present.

Just some thoughts.

Villa Giannis is a good idea, the rates are very reasonable, and there is a good selection. The other great thing is, the boys spend 8 hours in a room together every day they work, therefore, they know each other quite well. So pick one you like, have him meet you in a room, then ask him who he thinks would work out in a threeway.

Good luck, hope it works out.

Matt(wishing you copious cumloads)

[Guest cmp]

LOL! You then could give me a crash course. Have you seen their updated Web site? While Leon is unbelievably cute, some of the others are just as cute or even cuter, if that's at all possible. Where do they find them all? Judging from the pictures, Choirboyz seems to be as good as Campus. Anyway, I am thinking of the three-way as a shortcut to taste more beauties within my limited time. If I'm lucky, there will be a set of two attracted to each other and some enthusiasm shown. I guess I should let the boy choose his partner.

 

Any further advice? Based on the responses here, I will decide whether to go ahead with the idea.

[Guest cmp]

LOL! And thanks Matt!

[Guest LG320126]

The only 3-way I have ever done happened by accident and I thank God for that one (but that is another thread) :-) The first time I met Stephan LaCoste in Vegas, he forgot that we had arranged for an overnight and when he discovered his mistake, he told me that his boyfriend was downstairs in the hotel lobby and he would go take him home and be right back. I told him that here we were in a nice big suite with a king bed and a sofa, so why worry about it, his BF could just stay with us in the room. Well that BF happened to be Mike Stefano whom I did not know at the time and the rest is history, but I have never been the same since and I go around with this incesant smile on my face making people think I am either crazy or the happiest guy they have ever met. :-) 3-ways rock if the chemistry is good!

[Donnie]

>One of my favorite

>parts of threesomes is watching the expression of

>roomservice in the morning when three gay guys are lounging

>about the rooom in robes and underwear and condoms litter

>the floor. HOT.

 

eewwww...the epitome of rudeness

[CT Dick]

> I am also dreaming of M-F-M and F-M-F three-somes,

 

I can't speak to the F-M-F 3some but there is a lack of cocks in that one.

 

The M-F-M can be lots of fun, especially if the F is really versatile. What a treat to be doing vaginal while the other is doing anal fucking. You can feel the other guy's cock! And, how about having him fuck you while you are fucking her. I recommend it.

 

BUT, I think that chemistry is the issue in all threesomes. Work that out ahead of time and they are great.:7

 

Dick

[Rick Munroe]

>What a treat to be doing vaginal while the other

>is doing anal fucking. You can feel the other guy's cock!

 

Fuck, you're The Man, Dick. Major hardon here. Damn. :9

[+ Lucky]

Whoa!!!!

Dick, that was one of the grossest things you have ever posted! YUCK!

[Boston Guy]

CMP:

 

3-somes with two guys you don't know can be risky -- if the chemistry between them doesn't work out, you're in for a letdown. Sometimes, if you know you want one particular guy, letting him choose the third can be a good way to go.

 

Another thing: the attitude you bring into the 3-some is critical, especially if you're paying the other two. What do you want from it? Do you want to be the center of attention at all times (difficult for everyone)? Do you want to mainly watch them? Do you hope it will be even-stevens all the time (also difficult)? How flexible are you?

 

If you're paying, they're going to try to take clues from you, so have an idea what you're looking for going in... but probably not a script.

 

3-ways and 4-ways and higher n-ways can be a blast. Just be sure you're either going into it with eyes wide open and a lot of flexibility. Then you're pretty likely to have a really good time.

 

BG

[ted]

My limited experience here says you're on the right track. This scene works best if the escorts are comfortable with each other and hopefully you like the same things. Pick numero uno and ask him for suggestions as far as number 2, and hopefully there's one you think is a real hottie too.:9

[Rick Munroe]

>Whoa!!!!

>Dick, that was one of the grossest things you have ever

>posted! YUCK!

 

That's so funny...I jack off thinking about shit like that. Hey, as Doris says in Owl and the Pussycat (the movie of my life): "It takes all kinds."

[Guest cp8036]

The idea of 3-ways sounds hot, and even looks hot in pornos. Keep in mind the pornos are editted. I can only suggest that you let one escort suggest someone he knows for a good third. Possibly will be his bf, or someone he has some had some experience with. If you pick two guys based on your wishes, and expect them both to be hot, to be into you, and into each other, you may be disappointed. The escort will not only work to be "on" for you, but might have to work at being "on" for the third guy. Because you are attracted to both guys, doesn't mean they will be attracted to each other.

 

Conventional wisdom says the best 3-ways were for you, as a single, to join a couple.

 

My experience in non-escorted 3-ways has been mixed. Most are okay or bad, with only a rare few that were hot. Add to the equation cross-racial teams, and the mix is more complicated. I would think pulling off a hot 3-way with two escorts would be really difficult.

 

Bringing together three people, possibly strangers, and within a short time expect all to flow into a passionate sex romp is hopeful at best. Pick the hottest guy you can find, and have him focus the time on just you.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

One way to enhance the likelihood of their 'matching' is to contact one guy and ask if he has any friends he likes to play with, then let him send you pics of his buddies and see if you like any of them. That way the escort will at least have a pre-established chemistry with his colleague, which should help. It's not a guarantee, though. I have a little 'stable' of boys I sometimes bring along (one at a time, alas) on threeways, all just as hot and sexy as they can be, but Matt is right -- sometimes that third eye affects how they act, especially if the friend doesn't escort regularly and lacks some of the professionalism that you take for granted with someone who makes his living doing this. I've found myself acting as the cheerleader to keep everything going and felt at times like I was pulling everybody's weight. But the good thing was that I was expecting that, and knew that it was up to me keep it up(beat), because I was the "primary" in the situation. Whereas if the other escort and I had been hired independently we might instinctively be mutually deferential to each other and add to any sense of awkwardness.

 

Along similar lines, another way you can hedge your bets is to hire the primary for a longer period of time than the secondary guy. Have some before and after time with the primary, and if the "main event" is a dud then the primary can take care of you one-on-one after #2 is gone. Then you'll at least have a happy ending (hopefully), and possibly be more inclined to regard any threeway disasters as just one of those things, and maybe even laugh about it. Threeway stories are usually either incredibly hot or incredibly funny, so they're bound to have some value. I think you should go for it. }>

[Matt_Vancouver]

I agree about having the third come in for part of the time, and the 'main' escort staying on. It's tough to just jump into things when there are three of you, so I usaully will get things going on my own with the client, then when boy 3 arrives, we are all raring to go.

The one difficulty is cueing the 3rd to leave..tactfully. And of course payment. I find that most of my clients would rather discreetly take care of fees. So I've found that if I take care of the other escorts fee when he arrives(I always answer the door, and I let the client know beforehand that I will cover the 3rds fee...to be included in my fee at the end) eliminates the uncomfortable post threeway dig for the wallet, thus ruining the momentum. This seems to work.

 

Matt(spicy little sausage)

[Guest cp8036]

It would also allow the main escort to explain to the newly arrived escort who is the client and who is the main escort.

[+ Charlie]

Threesomes almost always sound better in anticipation than reality. And although the generalization about letting the prime escort choose the second is usually a good one, it doesn't always work. One of the least successful paid threesomes I ever had was with a gorgeous hunk who insisted that he would only do it with his partner, who turned out to be be not only rather old and dumpy, but so obviously unhappy with the whole situation that I felt too sorry for him to be able to really enjoy myself with his friend.

[ready182]

Staggering the arrival times

 

I agree that staggering the arrival times is a great idea. So far I've only done the 3some one time, but I set it up such that bachelor #2 arrived 2 hours ahead of bachelor #3. Benefits include:

 

-- spreads out the excitement, as you don't get all your "presents" all at once;

-- avoids any possible ackwardness of "where to start";

-- avoids any possible ackwardness of who should start;

-- gives you a chance to get to know the first guy (if you haven't met before);

-- reduced overall cost.

[Guest cmp]

Thanks everyone, your replies are great, I have learned from them. I'll decide soon whether to go ahead with it. Thanks again!