What was the magic?

[Guest happyday]

Question for clients: Of all the escorts you have seen there are probably 2 or 3 at the top of your list. What made them special? What was the magic? What earned them your favor?

[phage]

That’s an easy one – kissing. Hot guy…soft lips…sweet mouth…I’m in heaven.

[adriano46]

Yes, the conection made when deep kissing is very important.

But for me it has been a combination of things: very good kissing and cuddling, a guy who is active in bed (meaning he does as much or more than me, initiating activities, and appears interested and excited), one who can also carry on an intelligent conversation and be enjoyable company. If he is into some of my interests (tit play, oral, careful but hot rimming etc...) he gets an encore.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

The short answer for now... beyond the great sex, exceptional personal chemistry.

[guyinsf]

A combination of overall good looks, an enjoyable personality, and the ability to relate to me not just as a source of cash but as a human being.

[Guest BenDover]

The magic was from an expression in the eye, a moment when I believed, for however briefly, that we were both in the same moment, in the same place physically, emotionally, ethereally, spiritually.

[Guest cmp]

I liked the original question and all the responses. I would like to add a follow-up question. Apparently (and hopefully) many good escorts are able to perform in such a way as to produce that kind of "magic". My question is this: would it be possible for an escort to actually feel the magic deep in their heart, to share the kind of moment that could be described in romantic words as in some of the responses above, together with some level of physical attraction to a client who is not young or "hot"? The logical answer is of course negative, but I cannot help dreaming about things that are not likely to happen...

[+ bigjoey]

martin buber writes about such a moment with his cat where he and the cat looked into each others eyes; he describes it exactly as you do.

[Guest cmp]

Is either the cat or Martin reviewed here?

[Guest BenDover]

Wow. I didn't know Martin and I had slept with the same cat.

[Michael]

Hmmm - this will probably seem very shallow after all of the other responses, but for me the "magic" usually involves their balls in my mouth and an extremely large cum shot shooting straight up in the air from a huge dick and then splashing all over my face ... :9

[+ Charlie]

It's hard to clinically analyze the chemistry in a sexual encounter that makes it special. I have no idea why I am erotically aroused by one objectively handsome man and not another, or why the same sex act seems exciting on one occasion and ho-hum on another. I suspect that a lot of has to do with where I am psychologically at that moment and not with who the other guy is, or what he does. Nevertheless, if forced to explain the magic, I suppose I would say that butch, dark-haired, hairy guys in their 30's, who make me believe that what I want them to do with me is exactly what they really wanted to do anyhow, are the guys that get my highest ratings.

[Guest N]

This is a fairly easy one.

 

A great actor! Makes me believe (if only for the time) that I am desireable to them, also.

 

N

[Guest Jason Reardone]

http://www.jasonreardoneescort.com

 

If you haven't already check out the article I wrote on "The Emotion of Escorting". It's on my website under the subject "Writings/Aritcles". Don't underestimate your (the clients) power over an escort. At times emotions run wild on both sides, not always but sometimes. <jr>

[Guest FLsweetguy]

> Question for clients: Of all the escorts you have seen

>there are probably 2 or 3 at the top of your list. What

>made them special? What was the magic? What earned them your

>favor?

I agree that making the client feel desireable is about tops; after that great looks and body, good kisser, and fun in the shower.

[Guest cp8036]

You guys hired a cat?

[Guest cp8036]

I think it would be hard to get that kind of magic in the heart or look in the eye. Would be nice to think can find that, but unlikely is probably the most realistic. Just go for some good fun and sex. To look too deep will lead to disappointment.

 

Such things typically develop over time with someone you date, and then become partners. Furthermore, many escorts probably have the need to compartmentalize such feelings for current or future lovers.

 

I don't think such is possible given the short time of client/escort dates, 0 to 60 in 5 second -- that you meet and become intimate quickly, and there is often a big difference age, background, and emotions.

 

Read somewhere..."cannot buy love, the rest is negotiable".

[Traveller]

One shared bumps from his secret stash when we went out partying after the sesh. Other than that, really big hard cocks and thick lips that know how to kiss on tall lean muscular guys almost always works.

 

Later.

 

PS. Frequent references to my looks and bod also help.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: What was the magic? (an escort's point of view)

 

The time the client pulled a rabbit out of my ass, followed by the Mysterious Linking Cock Rings trick, and, of course, the finale: juggling 3 bottles of lube with my cock buried deep in his throat & in his ass at the same time.

[EXPAT]

The magic was the chemistry primarily - that gets the first star. Then it was the kissing. A great kisser can make all the difference - that gets the second star. Then taking it lower, if they are good orally, then they get the third and fourth star. So far only one has gotten the fifth star ;-) and he isn't escorting anymore :-(

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

So come on expat!!!! How does one get the fifth star???????

 

:-)

[EXPAT]

Alright, since you asked, I'll tell you. Normally, I'm only a top but one escort really taught me how to enjoy being a bottom and he got the 5th star !!!!

[buckguy]

My academic training was in a helping profession and much of the "magic" I've experienced from escorts has seemed to come from similar roots to what makes a successful psychologist, social worker, nurse, etc. basically, it seems to involve an ability to read people and situations quickly, but not robotically. It also involves an emotional connection---more intense than one would get from a counselor or social worker, but of the same nature---escorts who concentrate their attention on the client and on their interactions with the client will achieve this. A distracted esort or one who engages is slam-bam service won't, nor will someone who basically treats clinets with the same identical assumptions. I also suspect that some of the magic comes from the client---does help the escort figure out what his needs are, is turned-on, does he relate to the escort in a the way that the escort likes best. I've been with very shy escorts--they don't want talk, but they still want you to connect.

[+ nycman]

Chemistry 101

 

Once a certain muscle bound and exhausted escort, drenched in sweat, collapsed on top of me and whispered the simple answer to this question.....

 

 

..."chemistry”

[Guest JT]

Others have said it --- chemistry or emotional connection. Whatever it is, it makes the client feel that there is sincere, mutual appreciation and respect between the escort and client. It makes him feel that both parties genuinely enjoy their time together; that there is not only passion but also some unique bonding and understanding between them. It makes him feel so special that he would want to come back for more. And today, I experienced all these with Jesse again in Vancouver.

 

Later,

JT