Still bleeding

[Guest LOVEHANDLE]

I tried anal for the very first with my partner of 20 years! After a couple of weeks with rest in between, I am still fucking bleeding!!! This disgusts me alot and we even had to hire fuck videos to help us, to no avail. Am I doing something wrong?

What should I do?

[Guest bottomboykk]

It's possible you have a tear or fissure. I'd get to a doctor right away. I'm currently going through this myself (after an encounter with an overly endowed guy! :-(), and might possibly have to have surgery soon.

 

In general, if you learn how to bottom properly, and use sufficient lube--that's what hurt me I think, lack of lube (and I'm an experienced bottom!)--anal sex shouldn't cause problems like bleeding and fissures. One of the best sources of advice for bottoming I've seen is on Aaron Lawrence's site: http://www.aaronlawrence.com/newfiles/advice/advicec3.htm. It addresses specifically the issue of pain, but if you follow the advice, other problems should be prevented.

 

Hope this helps. Get thee to a doctor!

[Guest TruthTeller]

>I tried anal for the very

>first with my partner of

>20 years! After a

>couple of weeks with rest

>in between, I am still

>fucking bleeding!!!

 

I wouldn't worry about this. I read an article in a medical journal recently which discussed the fact that a lot of men who get fucked for the first time in middle age begin to take on physiological traits of women, and in some cases, full-scale gender transformation has been documented. They're not sure whether it's a physiological or psychological cause (my guess is it's a combination), but the female traits can arise rapidly.

 

I think what you're experiencing is nothing more than your first menstrual cycle. So don't panic. There's a good book by Judy Blume that has helped scores of young girls cope with their first "red day." You may want to read it. In the meantime, use lots of pads and tissues, and don't be afraid to explore your new side. We're here to help.

[Guest Kenny]

"I wouldn't worry about this. I read an article in a medical journal recently which discussed the fact that a lot of men who get fucked for the first time in middle age begin to take on physiological traits of women, and in some cases, full-scale gender transformation has been documented. They're not sure whether it's a physiological or psychological cause (my guess is it's a combination), but the female traits can arise rapidly.

 

I think what you're experiencing is nothing more than your first menstrual cycle. So don't panic. There's a good book by Judy Blume that has helped scores of young girls cope with their first "red day." You may want to read it. In the meantime, use lots of pads and tissues, and don't be afraid to explore your new side. We're here to help."

 

At first, I thought this was a joke but now I feel that this guy is SERIOUS. I am very naieve and perhaps, just perhaps, he is being funny in which case, forgive me. Otherwise, this guy is an idiot and DO NOT TAKE HIS ADVISE. Get yourself to a doctor and have a PROFESSIONAL treat you. "We're here to help" in other matters, not in rectal bleeding which has been ongoing for 2 weeks.

[Traveller]

T2

 

I buckled and fell off of my chair on this one. Exploring the "new side" and "we're here to help" were an excellent finish. The judges award a 9.5. Keep up the good work.

 

Later.

[+ Lucky]

Truth Teller tops Traveller telling tall tales? Never. TT is usually not funny.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>I buckled and fell off of

>my chair on this one.

 

 

Me too... Still ROTFLMAO..............

[Rick Munroe]

Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

Guys, be careful what you say. TT does not relish the laugh as we do; you'll scare him away.

We need to tell him how horrified we are at his callousness, to egg him on further. }>

[Guest BenDover]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

A serious concern, so go see a doctor. And don't get too worried. And read the funny stuff for what it is...really funny.

[Guest JT]

>>I buckled and fell off of

>>my chair on this one.

 

>Me too... Still ROTFLMAO..............

 

 

Hey TY and Traveller,

 

Hope you guys didn't hurt your back. Rick is right, that's the kind of "horror" TT enjoys! }>

 

JT

[Guest Gentle Dude]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

I knew there was a reason why I don't bottom.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

Did we ever think that a post about rectal bleeding would be more interesting than most other posts of late?

[Traveller]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

>I knew there was a reason

>why I don't bottom.

 

GD

 

I'm right with you there, dude. I was thinking the same thing.

 

Later.

[Traveller]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

> Did we ever think that

>a post about rectal bleeding

>would be more interesting than

>most other posts of late?

>

Lucky,

 

As I've been trying to show by example all along, bodily functions and secretions can be fun.

 

Later.

[Guest MattAdams]

I remember being online when a friend of mine, an escort IMd me to tell me he had been raped by his ex boyfriend and had caused some bleeding.

 

I looked for glycogin or glycerol(?) online and found that the highest over the counter dosage was in Preparation H (look on the ingredients). This substance is what cells use for energy and can result in faster healing.

 

I talked to my doctor afterward and he agreed that was probably the best thing to do. It seemed to work and my friend was in much better shape in a couple days.

 

You can also get a purer form of this in some health food stores. I used to use Aquafin on clients who had cuts or scrapes when doing massage work.

 

Matt Adams

Author of Hustlers, Escorts and Porn Stars

[Guest Sports]

RE: Are You There, God? It's Me, Truth Teller

 

Yes please see a doctor right away! It could be due to something else.

[Guest allansmith63]

9.6 from the Canadian judge

[Bilbo]

The original poster mentions that he had used movies to try to learn the proper techniques. It is possible that he had gotten a slow, factual movie from some group like Body Electric. However, I'm afraid that he actually was trying to learn from porno without realizing that many of the techniques are cut out of those movies for pacing and other considerations. Please, if anyone else is starting out in the same boat, do not rely solely on porn movies to actually show you how to do it.

[BewareofNick]

OMIGOD!!!!!!!!!! This is TOO funny!!!!!!!!!!!}>

[Guest MattAdams]

This is interesting, I actually had to learn the proper techniques for bottoming on set when I filmed Ace In Your Face with Catalina.

 

Drew Andrews taught me how to properly do an enema, then showed me how to make sure everything was just lubricated, then showed me how to get everything loosened up, then he explained how to push out just like you are taking a shit and breathe. Then he proceded to give me the fuck of my life.

 

The scene made it into "The Best of Drew Andrews".

 

I was never much of a good bottom, but he taught me enough in an hour to use with anyone that was inexperienced.

 

Matt Adams

Author, Hustlers, Escorts and Porn Stars

[+ Lucky]

The proper method for an enema might make a good topic for a new post.;-)

[Guest cp8036]

a pinkish blood is not usually cause for alarm, but bright red is more serious. Two weeks is a long time. See a doctor.

 

In meantime check your diet. Dont eat spicy food. Also should take a stool softener... like metamuciul or milk of magnesia. Also a good topical application is nupercanial. Numbs the area and soothes.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Still bleeding?

 

Lovehandle, it's been four days. How is the bleeding? Did you see a doctor?

[Guest LOVEHANDLE]

RE: Still bleeding?

 

The bleeding is now manageable. Thanx to all the posts. Breathing and pushing as if you are to take a shit really helps. Who said you can't learn from fuck videos is wrong, most of the techniques and positions we tried we have seen from these videos. I have never been more fulfilled. So now, when my lover and I talk about fucking each other, we relly mean it! Believe me, it has changed our sex life considerably and the intimacy was more after the fact. Remember, we have been together for 20 years and this added to the luster of the long term relationships. Thnx to all who posted their replies.