Too good marks when reviewing?

[Guest ortrud45]

Initial statements:

- I never review an escort if he is asking me for it.

- I'm aware that beauty/handsomeness is in the eye of the client/be-

holder.

- I agree to the saying "different strokes for different folks".

 

Looking back and reading a few of my past reviews evoked the following

thoughts:

 

1) To my own surprise I could not any more recall precisely some of

those meets (and I don't suffer from Alzheimer);(

2) Others I vividly remember and I admit that I even got hard when

reading the review again, kind of reliving the scene.

3) Please understand that I stand to my handed-in revievs and this is

not an attempt to critizise escorts after some time.

4) This is not about chemistry, otherwise I would not have taken the

decision to hand in a review.

 

Questions to clients (escorts please feel free to join in as well):

 

1) Has this happened to you as well?

2) What could be the reasons that some meets are engraved in your me-

mory, but others kind of fade away after some time?

3) Could it be that we review sometimes an escort in the afterglow of

a great romp and as we are still thinking with our dickhead and not

so very much with our grey cells and thus we are giving too high

marks?

4) Is it possible that we overrate an escort because we have recently

been burnt by a negative encounter and this one, the actual one is

at least delivering and that's why we are so happy aand pleased?

5) Do we eventually overrate a "famous" escort because we just want it

to be good and we want to be part of the bunch of the other re-

viewers who thought him great, said they had a great time?

 

Question to escorts:

 

Has it ever happened to you that you got a glowing review and you

were surprised about it, because:

- according to your own honest judgment you were not at your best

that very day?

- you did not think of this particular meet as especially succes-

full as you were preoccupied with ... (whatever reason)?

 

I'd love to hear your comments and point of views!

 

Best regards and have a nice day, ortrud45

[Guest ortrud45]

Initial statements:

- I never review an escort if he is asking me for it.

- I'm aware that beauty/handsomeness is in the eye of the client/be-

holder.

- I agree to the saying "different strokes for different folks".

 

Looking back and reading a few of my past reviews evoked the following

thoughts:

 

1) To my own surprise I could not any more recall precisely some of

those meets (and I don't suffer from Alzheimer);(

2) Others I vividly remember and I admit that I even got hard when

reading the review again, kind of reliving the scene.

3) Please understand that I stand to my handed-in revievs and this is

not an attempt to critizise escorts after some time.

4) This is not about chemistry, otherwise I would not have taken the

decision to hand in a review.

 

Questions to clients (escorts please feel free to join in as well):

 

1) Has this happened to you as well?

2) What could be the reasons that some meets are engraved in your me-

mory, but others kind of fade away after some time?

3) Could it be that we review sometimes an escort in the afterglow of

a great romp and as we are still thinking with our dickhead and not

so very much with our grey cells and thus we are giving too high

marks?

4) Is it possible that we overrate an escort because we have recently

been burnt by a negative encounter and this one, the actual one is

at least delivering and that's why we are so happy aand pleased?

5) Do we eventually overrate a "famous" escort because we just want it

to be good and we want to be part of the bunch of the other re-

viewers who thought him great, said they had a great time?

 

Question to escorts:

 

Has it ever happened to you that you got a glowing review and you

were surprised about it, because:

- according to your own honest judgment you were not at your best

that very day?

- you did not think of this particular meet as especially succes-

full as you were preoccupied with ... (whatever reason)?

 

I'd love to hear your comments and point of views!

 

Best regards and have a nice day, ortrud45

[Guest indecisive joe]

regarding your mention of "famous" escorts, I am in the process of scheduling and making plans for a date with a high profile escort, and I admit, after reading all his reviews here, my expectations are very high. I am having difficulty planning the event to ensure that we both have a great time. I want it to be fun, special, and as sexually entertaining for both of us as possible, but I admit, I am worried about being able to please him in any way that just providing the cash. I would appreciate any comments you have, thanks

[Guest indecisive joe]

regarding your mention of "famous" escorts, I am in the process of scheduling and making plans for a date with a high profile escort, and I admit, after reading all his reviews here, my expectations are very high. I am having difficulty planning the event to ensure that we both have a great time. I want it to be fun, special, and as sexually entertaining for both of us as possible, but I admit, I am worried about being able to please him in any way that just providing the cash. I would appreciate any comments you have, thanks

[Guest alanm]

You raise some really interesting points. I have reviewed escorts after only one call, others after many, many appointments. In all case, I now remember the experience(s) differently months or years later. Usually it's several positive things that stay in my memory, like 2 escorts refusing a tip and two others taking a fastasy that I casually mentioned & going beyond far what I had suggested. Yes, there are also a few escorts that I would rate lower now.

[Guest alanm]

You raise some really interesting points. I have reviewed escorts after only one call, others after many, many appointments. In all case, I now remember the experience(s) differently months or years later. Usually it's several positive things that stay in my memory, like 2 escorts refusing a tip and two others taking a fastasy that I casually mentioned & going beyond far what I had suggested. Yes, there are also a few escorts that I would rate lower now.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Then And Now

 

>Question to escorts:

>

> Has it ever happened to you that you got a glowing review

>and you

> were surprised about it, because:

> - according to your own honest judgment you were not at

>your best

> that very day?

> - you did not think of this particular meet as especially

>succes-

> full as you were preoccupied with ... (whatever reason)?

>

>I'd love to hear your comments and point of views!

 

There are times when I feel the meeting is not going as good as I know it can. If I feel physically fine and otherwise everything is as it should be, the meeting becomes even more distracted because I then start to concentrate on what the problem may be and what I can do about it. These are instances in which I ask the client if everything went well, and these are also the instances in which I encourage them to stay longer, so that they can have a satisfactory experience.

 

I have been reviewed, and well reviewed, in some of these instances. These clients have also come back to see me again. So obviously, while in my mind, I may not have been at my best, the client was satisfied.

 

On the other hand, I have been with clients, particularly clients whom I know write reviews, and who wrote me very nice thank you notes or by tipping or some other manner made it clear they were pleased with my services, who have never reviewed me. I have over five clients who have seen me at least a half dozen times, one who has seen me at least once a month for over a year, and these gentlemen have never reviewed me.

 

I think it takes a certain type of personality to write a review and personally, I would prefer to be reviewed based on several meetings, even though some of my reviews were written in the "after glow" of which you write.

 

If I were a food critic, I would never review an establishment based on only one meal, but then again, I am not that typical.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Then And Now

 

>Question to escorts:

>

> Has it ever happened to you that you got a glowing review

>and you

> were surprised about it, because:

> - according to your own honest judgment you were not at

>your best

> that very day?

> - you did not think of this particular meet as especially

>succes-

> full as you were preoccupied with ... (whatever reason)?

>

>I'd love to hear your comments and point of views!

 

There are times when I feel the meeting is not going as good as I know it can. If I feel physically fine and otherwise everything is as it should be, the meeting becomes even more distracted because I then start to concentrate on what the problem may be and what I can do about it. These are instances in which I ask the client if everything went well, and these are also the instances in which I encourage them to stay longer, so that they can have a satisfactory experience.

 

I have been reviewed, and well reviewed, in some of these instances. These clients have also come back to see me again. So obviously, while in my mind, I may not have been at my best, the client was satisfied.

 

On the other hand, I have been with clients, particularly clients whom I know write reviews, and who wrote me very nice thank you notes or by tipping or some other manner made it clear they were pleased with my services, who have never reviewed me. I have over five clients who have seen me at least a half dozen times, one who has seen me at least once a month for over a year, and these gentlemen have never reviewed me.

 

I think it takes a certain type of personality to write a review and personally, I would prefer to be reviewed based on several meetings, even though some of my reviews were written in the "after glow" of which you write.

 

If I were a food critic, I would never review an establishment based on only one meal, but then again, I am not that typical.

[LovesYng]

Yes, I guess I'm one that at times my dick is thinking as I'm doing a review and at other times I wish I had waited after two or three meets to do a review because after the first meet they have change. I will never review someone that ask me to put one in after our first meet, only after we have met a couple of more times will I. I think I have learn who is there for the money and who is there for the sex & money and I'm sure other clients can tell also.

 

Also a lot of escorts I have met that I never did a review on them, main reason is I did not meet them from Hoo's M4M and the escort had no idea what the hell I was talking about. Mostly because they are local college guys that I'm meeting and really don't any kind of review on them:+.

[LovesYng]

Yes, I guess I'm one that at times my dick is thinking as I'm doing a review and at other times I wish I had waited after two or three meets to do a review because after the first meet they have change. I will never review someone that ask me to put one in after our first meet, only after we have met a couple of more times will I. I think I have learn who is there for the money and who is there for the sex & money and I'm sure other clients can tell also.

 

Also a lot of escorts I have met that I never did a review on them, main reason is I did not meet them from Hoo's M4M and the escort had no idea what the hell I was talking about. Mostly because they are local college guys that I'm meeting and really don't any kind of review on them:+.

[Guest ortrud45]

RE: Then And Now

 

Franco, thanks for your reply:

 

I'm not 100% sure I got you right?

Regarding your first alinéa: do you mean that when you start ana-

lyzing the situation during a not so perfect meet (with the intention to better it) it get's even more difficult, because you don't go any longer with the flow, but bring your definitely existing grey cells into play (I'm not joking).

 

So I could conclude that you go to your clients with the info regar-

ding the scenario they want and add your positive escort-routine to it; as you like what you are doing and are selfconfident about your ability to deliver, you just can naturally go with the flow, pick up eventually any hints, provide a hot time to the client and enjoy yourself as well.

But if you get aware for once that something is amiss and not up to

your usual standard, you have to work hard (challenge) to make the

experience good for the client?

 

Best regards, ortrud45

[Guest ortrud45]

RE: Then And Now

 

Franco, thanks for your reply:

 

I'm not 100% sure I got you right?

Regarding your first alinéa: do you mean that when you start ana-

lyzing the situation during a not so perfect meet (with the intention to better it) it get's even more difficult, because you don't go any longer with the flow, but bring your definitely existing grey cells into play (I'm not joking).

 

So I could conclude that you go to your clients with the info regar-

ding the scenario they want and add your positive escort-routine to it; as you like what you are doing and are selfconfident about your ability to deliver, you just can naturally go with the flow, pick up eventually any hints, provide a hot time to the client and enjoy yourself as well.

But if you get aware for once that something is amiss and not up to

your usual standard, you have to work hard (challenge) to make the

experience good for the client?

 

Best regards, ortrud45

[Guest ortrud45]

To Joe:

 

You have already gotten so sound advice in the other, your initited thread, that I only can add:

 

Be yourself and be confident, enjoy the company of your famous fanta-

sy-man (he is also human and if he is so highly acknoledged and comes

without the attitude) your meet will turn out to be a success; do plan and communicate what you are looking for, but don't overplan it

neither, let yourself embrace by the momentum.

 

Wish you a great experience and let us know how it turned out,

ortrud45

[Guest ortrud45]

To Joe:

 

You have already gotten so sound advice in the other, your initited thread, that I only can add:

 

Be yourself and be confident, enjoy the company of your famous fanta-

sy-man (he is also human and if he is so highly acknoledged and comes

without the attitude) your meet will turn out to be a success; do plan and communicate what you are looking for, but don't overplan it

neither, let yourself embrace by the momentum.

 

Wish you a great experience and let us know how it turned out,

ortrud45

[+ Charlie]

I have a list of the names and dates of every escort appointment I have had in the past quarter century. When I look at it, many of the names draw complete blanks in my memory. Yet in another place I also have full descriptions of each encounter. When I read them, I sometimes am amazed at how great the experience seemed at the time. On one occasion I met a former escort socially, and he remembered me vividly, but I had to fake it, because I had no recollection of him whatsoever. As soon as I could get home, I read my description of our encounter (three years earlier), and I had thought then that he was fantastic. I haven't a clue why I can recall some escorts from 20 years ago in minute detail, and others not at all--and it doesn't seem to make much difference whther they were good, bad, or indifferent.

[+ Charlie]

I have a list of the names and dates of every escort appointment I have had in the past quarter century. When I look at it, many of the names draw complete blanks in my memory. Yet in another place I also have full descriptions of each encounter. When I read them, I sometimes am amazed at how great the experience seemed at the time. On one occasion I met a former escort socially, and he remembered me vividly, but I had to fake it, because I had no recollection of him whatsoever. As soon as I could get home, I read my description of our encounter (three years earlier), and I had thought then that he was fantastic. I haven't a clue why I can recall some escorts from 20 years ago in minute detail, and others not at all--and it doesn't seem to make much difference whther they were good, bad, or indifferent.

[Chuck50]

I think we can differentiate on escorts who ask for reveiws with those that let us know there is an avenue for them. Everyone still doesnt know about this site believe it or not. It has been usefull to many of us. SOme say to much, some say not enough and some don't belive what anyone says so OH WELL. Lets try to help as many as we can with a good or a potential bad experience and let it go at that. hUGS Chuck50:9

[Chuck50]

I think we can differentiate on escorts who ask for reveiws with those that let us know there is an avenue for them. Everyone still doesnt know about this site believe it or not. It has been usefull to many of us. SOme say to much, some say not enough and some don't belive what anyone says so OH WELL. Lets try to help as many as we can with a good or a potential bad experience and let it go at that. hUGS Chuck50:9

[foxy]

The better the experience, the harder it is for me to write a review. I'm not sure why. I never liked sharing my toys when I was a kid. Maybe that's it.

[foxy]

The better the experience, the harder it is for me to write a review. I'm not sure why. I never liked sharing my toys when I was a kid. Maybe that's it.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Exactly, Sort Of

 

>Regarding your first alinéa: do you mean that when you start

>ana-

>. . . don't go any longer with the flow, but bring your

>definitely existing grey cells into play (I'm not joking).

 

No matter how much we communicate, my experience is that the rapport and chemistry should reach a certain level in person as the meeting proceeds. When I get the internal sense this is not so, I spend more time thinking about that and what, if anything I might be contributing to the situation, which cannot but affect the experience for the client.

 

On some of those occassions, I have received some of my best reviews, so clearly this was my interpretation of events, not the clients.

 

Nonetheless, I know the level I want to exceed and I would prefer to hit that mark in every instance by my own standard, although I am always pleased when the client has felt fully satisfied. In these instances, it gives me the incentive to provide more in the future. I like to believe this is one of the reasons I have a number of repeat clients.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Exactly, Sort Of

 

>Regarding your first alinéa: do you mean that when you start

>ana-

>. . . don't go any longer with the flow, but bring your

>definitely existing grey cells into play (I'm not joking).

 

No matter how much we communicate, my experience is that the rapport and chemistry should reach a certain level in person as the meeting proceeds. When I get the internal sense this is not so, I spend more time thinking about that and what, if anything I might be contributing to the situation, which cannot but affect the experience for the client.

 

On some of those occassions, I have received some of my best reviews, so clearly this was my interpretation of events, not the clients.

 

Nonetheless, I know the level I want to exceed and I would prefer to hit that mark in every instance by my own standard, although I am always pleased when the client has felt fully satisfied. In these instances, it gives me the incentive to provide more in the future. I like to believe this is one of the reasons I have a number of repeat clients.