Vacation with Escort

[ddarko]

Hi, I thought I posted this question before but it didn't appear in the forum. If it did already, sorry for the double post.

 

Anyway, what's the rule for paying an escort to go on a trip or vacation with you? Is it enough to pay for all his expenses or is it generally accepted that you pay the escort an additional fee for his time? If a fee is standard practice, how much? I know that depends on the escort but I'm looking for a range.

[Chuck50]

I still would tell you to check with the escort see what he says and then go from there. My experience has been good but we have done lots of things together. It was an awesome cruise all things paid for just had to take care of him. He was very good about it and reasonable. I think was around 1800 for a week. Can't remeber exactly but very fair so ask them. HUGS Chuck

[topcat]

May I ask a supplementary question:

 

What if the vacation is of a type specifically requested by the escort, and the vacation is not the choice of the client?

[ad rian]

>What if the vacation is of a type specifically requested by

>the escort, and the vacation is not the choice of the

>client?

 

In that case, I think you just hav to pay expenses not an hourly/weekly rate. If the escort isisted on additional payment, in my mind, he should specify that up front otherwise he is just a hustler.

 

I am about to bring over a former regular who has stopped escorting. (In the ast he has asked to travel with me, and I have declined.) My offer was to pay air fare. We have not discussed expenses or additional pay. I intend to pay "reasonable" expenses like taxis and dinner, but I am not going to pay an hourly/weekly rate. I am hoping this is not going to be an issue on arrival if so there will be a very quick departure, his not mine!

[Luv2play]

I was surprised at how reasonable your escort was in charging for his time for a week. Did this include full service 24/7? Did you "road test" him before embarking on your cruise such as having an overniter or knowing him well through multiple dates? I would think it would be risky to engage someone for a whole week, only to discover the person had certain habits which were difficult to accomodate, especially in the tight confines of a cruiseship. You stated the experience was "awesome'; was this sheer luck or did it come about through careful preparations? Thanks for any further in-sights you may have.:-)

[Chuck50]

Had already spent sometime together in Florida at Disney WOrld with him 5 days not quite the confines of a ship but new it would work. I would not have done it blindly no way. That is a long time with someone and I think awhile back on here a horror story so you have to check them out and spend some time with them and get to know them espcially for the long ones and confined ones HUGS Hope this helps.

 

Chuck50

[LovesYng]

One of my regulars that I was seeing for over two years and loving every minute of it went on a trip with me to the west coast.}(. We talked before we went as to what it would run me for the week & half. I paid for his airfare (First Class), hotel, meals and some clubbing. Told him ahead of time I was not paying his hourly rate or his day rate and he was cool with that:9. He was giving some spending money each day for things he wanted to buy during the trip, it was always a good amt. We had a ball during the trip, some up & down times but that's normal with anyone. Half way thur the trip I gave him extra spending money just for the hell of it:P he was worth it. After the trip was over and we meeted one night for fun we talked about the trip, I wanted to know what he though of the trip and he said he was ready for more if they ever cum up:7. Well four more trips came up with him going with me again :*. I always treat a escort as a human being and not a piece of meat. Treat me right and I'll always take good care of you in or out of bed, my regulars know that and I love them all. I would do anything in my power for them if ever needed, just treat me right and be there for me:+.

[Luv2play]

This is an interesting topic, especially since the only time I had an out-of-town escort visit me for a weekend it did not turn out that well for me. For one thing, I found out that he did not like to sleep with anyone even though we had had at least 10 or 12 dates. My fault, I should have clarified this point beforehand. Also I guess I was expecting more sex than what actually transpired. On the other hand I enjoyed his company at nice restaurants and enjoyed showing him some of the tourist highlights of my town. Question: did you give your escort any money beyond the spending money for his time?

[paulsf]

My experience with my regulars is that they will usually go on a trip for all expenses, and no daily fee. I travel a bit and when I mention I am going somewhere they will say they are interested and we usually work it out for all expenses and no daily fee's. But I have noticed when I am in a chat room or meet somebody new, they will want daily fee's plus all expenses. I am going to Amsterdam in a few weeks with a boy and its all expenses only, but I will usually give him extra spending money for the times he is off on his own. I have had some great trips with some great guys and have found that most, but not all, love to go on vacations and expenses are usually enough to keep them happy.

paulsf

[LovesYng]

>Question: did you give your escort any money beyond the spending

>money for his time?

 

 

No he did not get money beyond the spending money for his time, he got plenty of spending cash from me. We also where not in bed 24/7, I had to still work during my trip so he was free to do as he wanted but was always there for me when I needed him. I think the cost of flying, eating, touring & hotel was plenty. I know he was happy in what he did get from me. I know with all the spending money he did get added up to more than his weekly fee, he was well taking care of.:7 He even found some nice places to eat when he was out during the day and he would at times take me their for dinners at his cost.:9 Everyone I have ever taken with me were always fine with the out comes of the trip.:+

[LovesYng]

>Question: did you give your escort any money beyond the spending

>money for his time?

 

 

No he did not get money beyond the spending money for his time, he got plenty of spending cash from me. We also where not in bed 24/7, I had to still work during my trip so he was free to do as he wanted but was always there for me when I needed him. I think the cost of flying, eating, touring & hotel was plenty. I know he was happy in what he did get from me. I know with all the spending money he did get added up to more than his weekly fee, he was well taking care of.:7 He even found some nice places to eat when he was out during the day and he would at times take me their for dinners at his cost.:9 Everyone I have ever taken with me were always fine with the out comes of the trip.:+

[Luv2play]

If your spending money exceeded the escort's weekly rate, I can't imagine any reason why he would not accept such a proposal. But this is not an approach that would recommend itself to any client who does not believe in overpaying for a service. We're not talking about dating someone we intend to marry. I have no problem with tipping for an escort service that exceeds normal expectations but I also don't believe in throwing money around just for the heck of it. Must be my Protestant ethic!!! :7

[Luv2play]

If your spending money exceeded the escort's weekly rate, I can't imagine any reason why he would not accept such a proposal. But this is not an approach that would recommend itself to any client who does not believe in overpaying for a service. We're not talking about dating someone we intend to marry. I have no problem with tipping for an escort service that exceeds normal expectations but I also don't believe in throwing money around just for the heck of it. Must be my Protestant ethic!!! :7

[Luv2play]

You seem to have had luck with travelling with escorts without having to pay through the nose. Have any of these guys been reviewed on this site? If you care to, please send me a private message if you have any suggestions about escorts who would like to take a trip along the lines you have done.:-)

[Luv2play]

You seem to have had luck with travelling with escorts without having to pay through the nose. Have any of these guys been reviewed on this site? If you care to, please send me a private message if you have any suggestions about escorts who would like to take a trip along the lines you have done.:-)

[Chuck50]

I think the Bottom line we all get from this thread and Thank you for who started it is: Ask and you shall receive, negotiate and many things will come to you. Guys are not written in stone but give them a proposal and see what happens. The ones who want it all are the new aggressive ones. The ones that have been around know what it is all about and will react accordingly. HUGS Chuck:9

[Chuck50]

I think the Bottom line we all get from this thread and Thank you for who started it is: Ask and you shall receive, negotiate and many things will come to you. Guys are not written in stone but give them a proposal and see what happens. The ones who want it all are the new aggressive ones. The ones that have been around know what it is all about and will react accordingly. HUGS Chuck:9

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

In my history of doing trips away with clients usually 5-7 days ,the 1st thing you have to know is unless you have been a regular for a long time and you know the client very well it probably wont work,I used to do about 6 trips a year with regulars and they would pay me a fee upfront as well as pay for air travel and hotel room,i didnt want a daily fee ,simply because my upfront fee was plenty but giving the guy a per diem is a good idea .

 

Its also a good thing not to spend 24/7 together otherwise if the trip is more than a couple of days then it can get real boring real quick,you can do ifferent things during the day and meet up at night or spend a good part of the time doing stuff that you both enjoy-in and out of the bedroom ,if you share some of the same interests sport etc than the match up will be great and both of you will enjoy the experience,one of my best experiences was a week horse riding on safari in Namibia with a client who had most of the same interests as i did so it worked out really well.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Vacations

 

There are some good points made here: one is that extended travel is one area where it is both reasonable and, IMHO, expected to do some negotiation. A young escort I know recently traveled to Europe with a client, this client does not expect sex, so the agreement is that there is no fee paid, but all expenses (first class), including meals, transport in town, hotels, etc. were paid as well as a small per diem. The escort and client in this case even had their own rooms.

 

I have two regulars whom I have spent a great deal of time with and we enjoy each other's company. When I recently traveled with one, as he was paying for a very expensive ($400+ a night suite) as well as everything else, I arranged a discounted rate on my overnight fee, but we discussed the amount of times we would be intimate together.

 

A client recently hired me for a local overnight and this particular gentlemen expected to be intimate for a good seven or eight hours. I explained to him I would want and require sleep. We negotiated a different rate than my overnight rate based on the amount of time we actually spent together before I got tired, but it was still less than a straight hourly rate.

 

Finally, I think the idea that an escort would be more accomodating, as in the examples given by two clients here, has a lot to do with the prior history the escort has with the client, the client's demands on the escort and the situation involved. As with a short appointment, escorts are human beings and will respond better if treated accordingly, and most likely provide a more comprehensive and complete experience than you might otherwise expect from prior encounters.

[btmstudnyc]

All of the comments and suggestions on this thread are interesting.

 

I have done vacations. But for my situation...I could never do them for just expenses. Work loss...not just from Escorting and Massaging...but from my other endeavors, would be salary out of my pocket(and also vacation time used up.) I could also lose my job if I take too many.

 

I also have to think about why I wouldn't take that kind of trip with my really, really close friends. I know for a fact that they would be very upset that I said yes to a client...and not to them. And my friends have offered the same thing(expenses included.)

 

I wish I was in a position to give an easy yes to this...but unfortunately I can't. My rates my be considered high. But thats because of supply and demand of my own time. It's just not worth it to me financial and emotionally to do a trip without pay. I have reccommended others that I know would love this kind of offer (at the cost of insulting some of my clients.) I have to say that if you want me...You have to pay. I don't want hard feelings.

 

I guess the saying, "You get what you pay for," Isn't quite accurate.

It's more like, "You can get exactly what you want if you pay for it."

 

The posts are right...ask, some may say yes. OR, ask someone else.

I hate the fact that someone would get upset because you asked for a fee. After all...its for time spent...and much more. But glory to you if you found someone to do it. Especially if you found...THE RIGHT SOMEONE to do it with.

 

JIM

[uriellasvegas]

This year I went on 3 vacations with clients and they were all great... with come exception when we went to Bali. Anyway, when I travel I act as a secretary a bit and help my client with dinner and show reservations. I assist with room arrangements and the works. Maybe I am unusual.

 

Anyway, I negotiate a flat fee and all expenses with my clients which seems to suit him fine. All expectations are discussed up front.

 

The coolest thing was when we went to Bangkok he hired another escort for his first 3-way (he was a big German stud). We had a lot of fun!

 

He runs the show... I help it along and make it as fun as possible. I think that is the way it should be. And yes, 24/7 if that is what is negotiated! :+

[KY_TOP]

This topic is both timely and of interest to me. There is a stripper I know that travels with a group throughout the Mid-West and South. Even though he does not advertise as an Escort, I have had the Pleasure of his company several times. Last weekend I mentioned I had a trip to Las Vegas planned in a few months. He stated he had never been there and Volunteered to go with me, I pay expenses only. I told him my Hotel was already booked with 1 king bed. He said "why would we need 2". I travel a great deal and enjoy traveling by myself, but I very well may take him up on his offer.

[Chuck50]

KY Top take him to the Mecca of us all and also while there introduce him to one of my favorite buds there who will show you around. Stef. He is one of the greatest of all escorts at least of those I have seen along with my other great VBDave who has now moved to SDDave who will come back. Have some fun out there for me. I love it and have gone as many as 3 times a year. Good Food, Shows and Yes the Escorts. HUGS Chuck. If you want any particulars email or pvt me. HUGS Chuck:9

[ad rian]

>The posts are right...ask, some may say yes. OR, ask someone

>else.

>I hate the fact that someone would get upset because you

>asked for a fee. After all...its for time spent...and much

>more. But glory to you if you found someone to do it.

>Especially if you found...THE RIGHT SOMEONE to do it with.

 

I promised to report back so I will. My former regular arrived for the weekend and we had a great time. Although, we had not discussed a fee beforehand, and had only discussed air fare, at the end he asked if I was going to pay him with cash or a check. (I had picked up accomodation and spending throughout the weekend.) OK, so that was artfully done so I paid up despite the fact that I earlier said that I would not. (I suggested what I consider to be the standard overnight fee of $1000 times 2, which might be less than what he quoted as his usual rate of $1500, but he did not complain at all.) Next time though, I will make sure to discuss this up front to know what is on the clock and what is off the clock. I think I might even be tempted to be more like Franco's client and negotiate the actual amount of sex required up front too!

[LovesYng]

I know what you mean Ad, this happen only once so I learn to ask questions before hand. I also stop seeing at that.