How do age and cultural background influence the vibe?

[Roddy]

I’m curious about the community’s experiences with different hospitality styles across the board.

When booking with younger vs. more seasoned providers, or guys from different cultural backgrounds, what differences have you noticed in how they run their sessions? I'm talking about the general atmosphere things like warmth, communication, pacing, and how they make you feel when you walk through the door.

Do you find yourself gravitating toward certain demographics because of a specific "vibe" they provide, or is the connection purely about individual chemistry for you? Would love to hear your thoughts on how these dynamics play out.

[+ purplekow]

I generally lean toward older escorts and by older I mean over 35 and into the 50s.  Those guys seem more open to some of the more unusual aspects I like in an encounter.  They pretty much have seen it all and done most of it, though surprisingly, I have introduced several to some not so kink and they claim to not have done that before.  These men are mostly muscular and have been hired as tops or for worship but were willing, or persuadable, to have penetration with various and sundry things.  At least three of these big muscle guys claimed that they did not do this type of activity not out of unwillingness, but because no one had really pursued them.  

Recently some Latino men, who also were initially reluctant to play in this manner have come to learn the joys that can be found in a finger tip, a thumb and in some cases, much more.  

I have found younger men less amenable to leaving their comfort zone.  I think this is probably not the overall experience of the men here, but it is mine.  

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, Roddy said:

I’m curious about the community’s experiences with different hospitality styles across the board.

When booking with younger vs. more seasoned providers, or guys from different cultural backgrounds, what differences have you noticed in how they run their sessions? I'm talking about the general atmosphere things like warmth, communication, pacing, and how they make you feel when you walk through the door.

Do you find yourself gravitating toward certain demographics because of a specific "vibe" they provide, or is the connection purely about individual chemistry for you? Would love to hear your thoughts on how these dynamics play out.

Hot is hot.... Lately in life as technology changed the world, I've started to appreciate older guys more likely to have their shit together when it comes to making plans, showing up on time, no ADHD, engaging, no drama, appreciative, etc 

[AtlRob]

I've noticed a lot of Latino providers indicate in their RM profiles that they are bisexual. But then also say they're into kissing.

The kissing isn't as deep as one might expect, however. But then they've already said they're bisexual, so who can complain? 

[mtaabq]

39 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I've started to appreciate older guys more likely to have their shit together when it comes to making plans, showing up on time, no ADHD, engaging, no drama, appreciative, etc 

Holy shit, you got that right, man! The younger guys might be amazing to look at and might feel so good under my hand and on my tongue. But, yeah, with maturity comes wisdom and confidence and certain skills the young guys might not yet possess. Certainly less hang-ups about weight and appearance - for either of us - in my experience. As always, your mileage may vary. 

[marylander1940]

8 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

Holy shit, you got that right, man! The younger guys might be amazing to look at and might feel so good under my hand and on my tongue. But, yeah, with maturity comes wisdom and confidence and certain skills the young guys might not yet possess. Certainly less hang-ups about weight and appearance - for either of us - in my experience. As always, your mileage may vary. 

Agreed!

We hire (among other reasons) to avoid spending time in the apps, etc., and yet sometimes making plans withe folks under 30ish feels like planning D Day... Obviously there are exceptions, unfortunately this trend used to affect folks under 25 but lately I've dealt with teenagers who are in their late 30s.