I recently had an amazing time with a new provider I found on MintBoys (pleasantly surprised!). He checks every box and even boxes I didn’t know I had. He’s local as well. I have contacts in multiple cities and am thrilled I found a local guy that I really enjoy and can see often. I REALLY like this new guy and don’t feel the need to see anyone else. I want to establish a regular thing with him. He meets all my expectations, so why bother looking for anyone else? I think the experience will be even better the more we get to know each other. Has anyone tried this before? Basically committing to one provider? How has that worked out?

Try out without any preset conditions on either of you. It's a little give and take which is natural. Don't put unneeded pressure on you by labeling it anything. Who needs that? Focus on getting what you want out of it. No harm done as long as your eyes are wide open about things. There is something nice and comforting about a known thing versus rolling the dice on someone new and hoping it might work. If at some point, you find you're no longer getting what you need out it, you have the freedom to step back or move on. Nothing wrong with that at all.