Playing with Escort

[Wings246]

On 6/5/2026 at 11:07 AM, sky said:

I've always seen escorts more as an object since I am paying. 

If "object" is the perception, then it's understandable why you desire a unilateral experience.

On 6/5/2026 at 3:46 PM, Jamie21 said:

I think clients enjoy it more if it’s clear that I’m also turned on and it’s a great positive feedback loop because the client enjoying themselves is a big turn on for me. 

I need the interactions and reciprocations.  It enhances the illusion of a BFE to the nth power.  I lose my mind very quickly when I can sense (or see) that he is turned on by me.

[Occasional]

On 6/6/2026 at 5:12 PM, TBD said:

i have hired guys and i have wanted them to just lay there and let me blow them.  They seem to like it as much as i do. they always cum. 

There's two sorts of 'just laying there'. The 'good' sort is 'lay back, relax, get comfortable, and I'll see to you ... " with the escort having a willing, involved and pleasure-anticipating frame of mind.  The 'bad sort' is a complete lack of interest and engagement.

[+ Drew Collins]

On 6/5/2026 at 4:07 PM, SecretProvider said:

You are not alone - there are a lot of people who get pleasure by giving pleasure. 

I can only speak for myself - but it is a really nice change of pace when I get a client who wants to flip those dynamics and focus on giving pleasure.

I most definitely have been leaning in to my "Pleasure Dom" era lately.....!  😈

https://www.grindr.com/blog/what-is-a-pleasure-dom