When can escorts and masseurs start asking for deposits?

[jeezifonly]

They can ask for a deposit the moment they look in the mirror and think they look cute enough to be paid for being cute enough. 

Clientele will decide when the ask will be answered with remuneration. 

[DMonDude]

4 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

They can ask for a deposit the moment they look in the mirror and think they look cute enough to be paid for being cute enough. 

Clientele will decide when the ask will be answered with remuneration. 

There's a grander issue of bad clients who have given providers bad experiences. Leading them to do things like ask the client for photos or to ask for a deposit as some kind of guarantee the client is legit. And for clients who are good clients this is seen as some affront to their goal of being provided service by the provider. Which leads to many of you having these pithy catty comments about providers because of a lack of empathy for providers. As evidenced by others here saying they should suck it up and deal with because it's part of the job (which isn't true and isn't inherently how it has to be).

And conversely there are providers who have conned or scammed clients, by running with deposit money or given bad performance after receiving deposit or upfront pay, which leads to clients being highly skeptical of upfront asks by the good providers.

The bad eggs on both sides have ruined it for the good eggs on both sides, and there's no solution to it other than everyone just operating as they please individually. As has also been said here and elsewhere.

But i do think it's interesting how the assumed good clients here are still so quick to have all these catty comments while providers are still expected to speak of clients as politely as possible even in criticism or explaining their own instances of being wronged by clients.

[+ JamesB]

35 minutes ago, mike carey said:

Is that all?

I’m only counting the ones  that offer some entertainment value. For instance, on this one, the OP marks one of his own posts as the solution to his own thread. LOL!

[jeffla]

6 hours ago, ncc1701d said:

only for ones i've hired several times and trust, and then for longer hires so carrying less cash around

If you've hired them several times and trust them, shouldn't they trust you too? 

I'd be bummed if someone I have seen many times and been kind to, suddenly wanted a deposit; I'd actually be offended.