If they’re going to hit someone up asking to meet today…

[JB_Studio38]

…. At least have the courtesy of responding back or following back up if you stop responding. It’s bad enough when it’s just a freebie hookup, but when you’re also expecting reliable behavior with money: it’s very disrespectful.

What’s worse, why do some of the same guys come around: just to play games again after they ghosted the last time. I don’t like to block (or add them to the bad list) wily nilly, but I think some people ask for it. As this google search shows, they just aren’t capable of mature interactions when it comes down to other gays:

 

 

Edited January 21 by JB_Studio38

[Pd1_jap]

Lol, unfortunately this is not exclusive to the oldest profession. This happens in every public facing industry and even in the corporate world. Yes, it is common courtesy. No, it is not owed. 

You're gonna have to accept that this is part of the job, unfortunately. Don't let flakes get under your skin. Your self worth is not determined by how/if you get a text back. In the age of a 24 hour news cycle and social media most people have the attention span of a gnat. 

[+ SidewaysDM]

2 minutes ago, Pd1_jap said:

Lol, unfortunately this is not exclusive to the oldest profession. This happens in every public facing industry and even in the corporate world. Yes, it is common courtesy. No, it is not owed. 

You're gonna have to accept that this is part of the job, unfortunately. Don't let flakes get under your skin. Your self worth is not determined by how/if you get a text back. In the age of a 24 hour news cycle and social media most people have the attention span of a 

[+ SidewaysDM]

Your observations are spot on about clients and customers in every industry! Although, I believe the escort providers, have more than their fair share of flakes. My favorite RM provider no longer accepts clients under 35 years old, due to the constant ghosting, game paying and general disrespect!!! 

 

[EastbayMike]

53 minutes ago, SidewaysDM said:

Your observations are spot on about clients and customers in every industry! Although, I believe the escort providers, have more than their fair share of flakes. My favorite RM provider no longer accepts clients under 35 years old, due to the constant ghosting, game paying and general disrespect!!! 

 

I wonder if clients have similair problems as escorts owning up to their true age.

[JB_Studio38]

2 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Lol, unfortunately this is not exclusive to the oldest profession. This happens in every public facing industry and even in the corporate world. Yes, it is common courtesy. No, it is not owed. 

You're gonna have to accept that this is part of the job, unfortunately. Don't let flakes get under your skin. Your self worth is not determined by how/if you get a text back. In the age of a 24 hour news cycle and social media most people have the attention span of a gnat. 

 

I think gnats have better attention spans. Have you ever seen how they elude getting picked up in a glass of wine 🤣 

That said, I try not to take it personal: but it makes me less prone to respond to messages where guys ask, “Are you available today/now or “you around tonight”. 
 

1 hour ago, EastbayMike said:

I wonder if clients have similair problems as escorts owning up to their true age.

I did speak to a client the other week, and he mentioned how there are “flakes” on RM. Though he didn’t just refer to age.

[Elite_XL]

I suppose some people just don’t know how or don’t bother with responding. This one is probably the funniest interaction I have had so far.