How to communicate dominance levels to provider?

[Nue2thegame]

23 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I'm trying to figure out what it means to have a butthole like a dolphin...

Will it do tricks when you dangle a fish in front of it?  Can it whistle and click, and use echolocation?  Does it have smooth skin with a layer of blubber for insulation?  

I hope you understand the porpoise of my questions.

 

I think that it means that the hole is hard to find. At least that was my experience with the dolphins I tried to fuck. 

[MeatPopcicle]

On 1/13/2026 at 12:11 PM, MeatPopcicle said:

Hi all,

I'm going to take a vacation and I'm thinking about hiring someone for the first time. I want to experience being submissive and pleasing a dominant dude. But I don't have a lot of experience and my butthole is like a dolphin. 

What's an appropriate way to communicate to a provider that I'd like them to be dominant but I'm also nervous and don't have a lot of experience? Being pushed outside my comfort zone is what I'm looking for but I also don't know what my limit is and I don't want to disappoint anyone or freak them/myself out. Thanks in advance for the help. 

Update: I didn't do it, I'm a pussy, haha! Part of it was that I wasn't wowed by the guys availability. Oh well, maybe someday I'll make the jump. Still, I appreciate the advice. ✌🏾

[+ SirBillybob]

Just both dive into the deep end.

[+ JEC]

On 1/12/2026 at 6:11 PM, MeatPopcicle said:

Hi all,

I'm going to take a vacation and I'm thinking about hiring someone for the first time. I want to experience being submissive and pleasing a dominant dude. But I don't have a lot of experience and my butthole is like a dolphin. 

What's an appropriate way to communicate to a provider that I'd like them to be dominant but I'm also nervous and don't have a lot of experience? Being pushed outside my comfort zone is what I'm looking for but I also don't know what my limit is and I don't want to disappoint anyone or freak them/myself out. Thanks in advance for the help. 

The only answer is to be direct about what you're looking for.  Establish rules - including a "safe word" or tap when you need him to stop.  Be sure to hire a reputable provider and it should be fine.