Escorts Calling You

[Guest bollo]

How do you guys feel about escorts calling you? By that I mean, an escort that you've seen before, several times, who calls at least once a week to see if you want to get together.

 

In this case, I know the guy wants cash. But, I suspect he doesn't mind a quickie either.

 

Should I decline on principal? or, should I just accept it as saving me the trouble of finding someone new? And there are few new ones here in my town.

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

What's the problem here? If you want him to come over, invite him over. If you don't, tell him some other time. If you think he is calling too frequently, tell him to only call every two weeks. I have to say that I would be flattered for an escort to pay that much attention to me, but once a week does seem a bit much.

 

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[Guest jeffOH]

I would NEVER call up a client to see if they want to get together. If a client is in the mood, they can pick up the phone

and call me. I've worked in retail and I HATE aggressive sales

techniques. I wouldn't feel flattered...I'd feel used. The guy must not have much business if he has to resort to phone solicitations.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

Well obviously we don't agree. ;-)

 

This is not quite the same as the escort is not a stranger, and would presumably comply with any request not to call again. I invite my escorts to call or e-mail me whenever they like, and if I can't see them, I just chat for a bit. I can't see that there is any harm in it. It's not like they call during the dinner hour or invade my private life. My optometrist, my dentist and my vet also call (albeit not once a week) to fix appointments, so I don't see why a call from your escort would be any different unless you have family or friends living with you.

 

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[Laurent]

My reaction would depend upon my feelings about the individual escort. If Jonathan in Philadelphia, for example, called me, I would be enormously flattered. If I had seen the escort only once, I definitely would find the call overly aggressive and probably not continue to see him.

[OneFinger]

I normally hire an escort every 6 to 8 weeks. But, for one escort who was really charming, I gave him permission to call me. I told him to feel free to contact me if he was in my neighborhood or had an appointment cancel at the last minute.

 

I have some degree of "disposable" income and wouldn't have any problems sharing the wealth with him.

 

However, I would NOT do this for all escorts. In addition, unless I knew the escort well or he had a sterling reputation, I would wonder if he was "setting me up". But, I'm a "born again skeptic" and tend to assume the negative.

[Guest paysforit]

Here in Austin I have had this experience with at least a couple of escorts, and I do not like it one bit. The sad thing is that I had great experiences with both of the guys in question and had figured on seeing both of them again some time down the line. The plans were never formalized, and I fully expected to take the initiative to make future dates. One of these guys would call every few days and made me very uncomfortable with his desire to set something up almost immediately. That doesn't work for me. For one thing I am not made of money and can't afford to jump on something simply because the escort in question needs to make some fast money. More important is the fact that I need to prepare myself mentally/emotionally for these encounters, which tend to be of the SM variety. In both instances I had to speak rather sharply with these guys to discourage their calls and ended up not seeing either of them again. One of them (Mark), I would very much like to see again, but I do not want to encourage him in his insistent/almost rude behavior. I'd like to think that I was such a hot trick for these guys that they just could not leave well enough alone, but reality intrudes. They were just being pushy.

[+ deej]

This has happened to me a time or two. After the first few calls where I said "not interested right now", most got the idea.

 

The one that persisted, I just told "when I call you, I'm paying. When you call me, I'm not". He still calls sometimes when he's just plain horny, but our arrangement holds. When I call him, I pay. When he calls me, I don't.

[+ Charlie]

Only twice has an escort called me and asked if I were interested in getting together. The first was someone I had seen twice and enjoyed, but I had never suggested that he call, and he did it at a very awkward time (I was hosting a family dinner), so I asked him please not to call me again, and I never called him back. The other was someone I had seen once from an agency, and I was shocked that he had my phone number; I never used the agency again. Even if I wanted to see an escort again, I would not, just because I would want to discourage the practice.

[adriano46]

Guys,

 

I've had both good and bad experiences with this, and sometimes wish I was not so open with my cell phone number.

 

That said, when a few guys called me on their own initiative (as in "Hi, I wanted to let you know that I am in your area this weekend!" I was occasionally flattered. Hell I know it may mean they don't have as many customers as they would have liked and so opened their own little black book to see who was in the area, but as a nice sales technique, it has generally worked (Thinking of some nice guys in DC, Seattle-Portland, and LA who did this :-)) ).

 

On the other hand one aggressive guy from L.V., probably my most expensive "mistake" kept calling at awkward times. I suspect (in retrospect) he may have been high or whatever when he did this.

 

I may agree with what was said above: if the encounter was above average (in the spectacular range for both of us) I may let the guy call, but would specify when and under what conditions.

[BgMstr4u]

I think that an escort calling for business without being invited to is unprofessional. But if there is a more than business relationship with the escort, I see no reason why calls should not be made as between any other two people who meet through business and discover affinities.

 

I do like deej's suggestion: "The one that persisted, I just told "when I call you, I'm paying. When you call me, I'm not"."

This seems to clarify the exchanges. There are perfectly good reasons for an escort to call. Everyone needs personal relationships, and you never know exactly where or how they will begin. Making it clear how the business end of things is handled is helpful.

[Guest maturemiami]

One poster to this thread disliked being called by an escort because he wanted to take that initiative himself. But the other clients simply share our common dislike of overly aggressive sales calls. Aggressiveness in bed is one thing, but it approaches harrassment if the escort persists in calling after the client declines on the first call.

 

If an escort does call, it is our responsibility to let the escort know whether we are interested in seeing him again or not. I recently saw an escort who was visiting Florida. I enjoyed our session, but not enough to want a repeat (no fault at all of the escort - he was too hung for this little old man :o). I even posted a positive review here.

 

We emailed a couple of times after he got back home, but one day he called to say he would be here again. At my age (am I being overly sensitive here?), I was flattered to know he enjoyed our session enough to contact me for a repeat. But I simply told him the reason - I suppose I would have invented a white lie if the problem had been his bad breath - and he told me that was the curse for small guys with big dicks!

 

I don't think most escorts would continue calling after the client says he isn't interested. And if that does happen, think "Restraining Order" because there are some wacko's out there.

 

Mature Miami

[tedbear]

I've had this happen twice. The first time was with a guy I hired from an agency with whom I completely hit it off. I tried some things I'd never done before <blush>. A couple of weeks later, he called, identified himself by his real name and when I didn't know who he was, he said "remember Super Bowl Sunday?" Wow, did I! I asked him over and several more times until he moved to San Francisco shortly thereafter. I really enjoyed our time.

 

Another time, a porn star I hired, but didn't have that great a time with (and the most I ever paid) called me at work (I don't remember giving him my number, but I probably mentioned my company). I didn't really care about being called at work, but since he hadn't been as much fun as I'd hoped, I declined.

[BewareofNick]

>The one that persisted, I just

>told "when I call you,

>I'm paying. When you call

>me, I'm not". He still

>calls sometimes when he's just

>plain horny, but our arrangement

>holds. When I call him,

>I pay. When he calls

>me, I don't.

 

 

deej, I humbly worship the ground you walk on..

 

We're not worthy! We're not worthy!