Masseurs adding sensual when they don't want to.

[viewing ownly]

Lately I'm seeing more masseurs announcing that they have "new" sensual offerings. Very, very few masseurs who are strictly therapeutic bother with advertising on masseur finder, rent masseur, or similar websites. This to me seems like a bad idea as a hirer of sensual (or more) massages because it's likely a ploy for additional business rather than a genuine desire to involve nudity and / or other non-therapeutic instances. 

I'm not alone in my love of sensual massages going beyond that, but for a "newbie" in the sensual massage realm offering, this is almost a guarantee that's entirely out of the cards. 

[Nightowl]

21 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

Lately I'm seeing more masseurs announcing that they have "new" sensual offerings. Very, very few masseurs who are strictly therapeutic bother with advertising on masseur finder, rent masseur, or similar websites. This to me seems like a bad idea as a hirer of sensual (or more) massages because it's likely a ploy for additional business rather than a genuine desire to involve nudity and / or other non-therapeutic instances. 

I'm not alone in my love of sensual massages going beyond that, but for a "newbie" in the sensual massage realm offering, this is almost a guarantee that's entirely out of the cards. 

I think you’re right.  I posted earlier this year about a guy who advertised erotic massage on RMass (before it was banned as a category) but freaked out when I asked for it.  He clearly wanted to increase his client pool by adding sensual and erotic to his ad but had no intention of following through with either. 

[Wings246]

Such false advertising is plainly evil and stupid; it borders on a scam.  Why would you list sushi on a McDonald’s menu?  The providers oftentimes talk about time-wasters.  I suppose the term is not exclusive to one side of the provider-client equation.

[jeezifonly]

The blurry line between escort and massage is more problematic for some clients. Others want the "will he/won't he" mystery. Sometimes, in that scenario, he won't. 

Yesterday, I wanted a legit massage, hired a new (to me) masseur, and made clear upon arrival that he could remain in his shorts, as I wanted bodywork. He did a decent job, did not try to upsell, yet felt connected, and I paid the listed fee, and I tipped well. 

So when I definitely want more than massage from a massage provider, I have the best outcome when I hire an escort, at that rate, with massage experience and a cross-checked masseur listing. I can specify the usage of the time when booking. Extras do cost extra, sometimes.