411 on Latinmuscleman

[+ DrownedBoy]

2 hours ago, LA90046 said:

 

So he did not request payment upfront, you just offered it up?  And actually *during* the session?

 

Please elaborate on "willful?"

Yes to the first, so I can't complain too much. Willful means he was slightly argumentative and cocky.

Most annoying. I really need to stop hiring guys with an IQ over 100.

[+ nycman]

3 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Translation - the people who posted glowing reviews of him on this site have a little explaining to do.

Here’s your explication:

They were smart enough not to pay up front.

You weren’t. 

That’s on you, not them. Take the self inflicted wound, learn, and move on. 

[Mmmen]

Anyone else with experience on LMM?  

[LA90046]

He was supposed to be heading back to California in May but now his profile appears to have been deleted.

Anyone have any info?

[moonlight]

5 hours ago, LA90046 said:

He was supposed to be heading back to California in May but now his profile appears to have been deleted.

Anyone have any info?

I'm sad to hear this. He was going to be in SF end of this month but that timing didn't work for me. This guy was high on my short list. Hopefully just a temporary absence.

[ForestGlenn]

I was also scammed by him; real name xxxx. I booked a month early, March 20 in Atlanta. He built trust via text quickly, and said he required a $200 deposit.  I initially told him I would not, then through  a few more assuring texts I sent it to him . I also joined his Instagram account. 
 

Via his client reviews, I DMd five clients.  They all came back with positive feedback.

A week before my booking I went on-line and Atlanta was no longer on his travel schedule. A big red flag. He told me he could only list up to six cities at a time and Atlanta would appear; his trip was still on.  I now know he blatantly lied.

A few days later I texted to confirm.  No response.  I waited a few days and texted again. No response.  I then went on RentMen, and he had blocked me.  He had also blocked me from Instagram.  I had been scammed; he never returned the deposit. 
 

I contacted RM Webmaster and gave detail. was informed that he was placed on a Warning, and if any additional complaints come forward his profile would be deleted.  I looked today, and he is no longer on the playform,

*Moderator’s edit: Reason: No personal information. No real names. 

[moonlight]

It's kind of hard to understand why a guy who has so much potential to be very successful (and an actual history of very positive reviews) would be willing to trash his reputation (and viability on the RM platform) by stealing deposits.

[Hot4latin]

8 hours ago, moonlight said:

It's kind of hard to understand why a guy who has so much potential to be very successful (and an actual history of very positive reviews) would be willing to trash his reputation (and viability on the RM platform) by stealing deposits.

Desperation for quick cash? 

[LatinMuscleMan]

1 hour ago, Hot4latin said:

Desperation for quick cash? 

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

[LatinMuscleMan]

9 hours ago, moonlight said:

It's kind of hard to understand why a guy who has so much potential to be very successful (and an actual history of very positive reviews) would be willing to trash his reputation (and viability on the RM platform) by stealing deposits.

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

[ForestGlenn]

On 2/9/2025 at 10:19 PM, Marcel said:

Much, much more than “just” worship.

 

On 3/29/2025 at 12:57 PM, DrownedBoy said:

More like - I almost always hire regulars (my most regular guy, I've seen for 8 years), and casual payment has become common to me.

Looks like the new market is rougher than the old. Live and learn.

Also, like I said - 3 stars. He gave me what I wanted, just not as long as I wanted.

The other indicator I missed - and I shouldn't have - is that he was very willful during our chats. I came within a thumb push of sending a message cancelling. That was my ultimate mistake.

 

[Hot4latin]

28 minutes ago, LatinMuscleMan said:

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

Just to clarify, my response wasn’t directed at you.  I don’t know your situation or the circumstances. The poster asked why someone (I interpreted that as anyone, not exclusively you) would put their reputation at risk for short term gains. Such an irrational move, if true, points to desperation. I apologize if you felt targeted. 

[ForestGlenn]

On 2/9/2025 at 10:19 PM, Marcel said:

Much, much more than “just” worship.

 

On 3/29/2025 at 12:57 PM, DrownedBoy said:

More like - I almost always hire regulars (my most regular guy, I've seen for 8 years), and casual payment has become common to me.

Looks like the new market is rougher than the old. Live and learn.

Also, like I said - 3 stars. He gave me what I wanted, just not as long as I wanted.

The other indicator I missed - and I shouldn't have - is that he was very willful during our chats. I came within a thumb push of sending a message cancelling. That was my ultimate mistake.

 

[moonlight]

1 hour ago, LatinMuscleMan said:

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

You're right, we shouldn't just take that post as fact. Sometimes people do indeed have an axe to grind.

Wishing you the best. I hope you can get everything sorted out.

[ForestGlenn]

On 4/29/2025 at 10:54 PM, LatinMuscleMan said:

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

Xxxx-

You had choices in how to respond:

✨ Say nothing, and hope the situation just goes away

✨ Confirm the truth, and reinforce the accusation

✨ Try and sully the writer's credibility

I am not "butt hurt". I recognize you will not pay back my deposit, and want no one else hurt. 
 

Screenshots of personal text messages redacted.

 

[LA90046]

Hi @LatinMuscleMan / Xxxx-- did you take your RentMen profile down of your own accord? 

Or was it deleted due to this complaint that was lodged against you? 

 

On 4/29/2025 at 11:24 AM, ForestGlenn said:

I contacted RM Webmaster and gave detail. was informed that he was placed on a Warning, and if any additional complaints come forward his profile would be deleted.  I looked today, and he is no longer on the playform,

 

[LA90046]

I am confused.  Those screen grabs are about @LatinMuscleMan's request for a deposit and the client agreeing to provide one, but nothing about him refusing to refund/return the deposit.

That portion of the text exchange would be more telling regarding this situation.

[+ purplekow]

17 minutes ago, LA90046 said:

I am confused.  Those screen grabs are about @LatinMuscleMan's request for a deposit and the client agreeing to provide one, but nothing about him refusing to refund/return the deposit.

That portion of the text exchange would be more telling regarding this situation.

There is a simple way to avoid losing a deposit, do no give one.  If that is a deal breaker, so be it.    I understand why an escort would want a deposit as there are client scammers as there are escort scammers.  Client scammers are looking for a cheap thrill or some jerk off material.  As a client, I have given a deposit once.  It worked out fine and I was aware that the deposit was spent money.  

Escorts also have the choice of not seeing a client who will not give a deposit.

According to many religious tenets, God gave humans free will.  My suggestion to clients is.use it.  

Edited April 29 by purplekow

[ForestGlenn]

There is no question that I will never leave s deposit again. Here are screen shots of my attempts to get my deposit back. Screen shots redacted.

Until you know the facts, do not be cruel to a victim.
 

[+ nycman]

On 4/30/2025 at 9:06 AM, ForestGlenn said:

There is no question that I will never leave s deposit again. Here are screen shots of my attempts to get my deposit back. Screen shots redacted.

Until you know the facts, do not be cruel to a victim.
 

[The Dude]

22 hours ago, LatinMuscleMan said:

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

All of this doesn't explain why you've suddenly deleted your RentMen profile.

[+ DrownedBoy]

When I filed my complaint with RentMen, they didn't publish it, but told me they would "take it into account." Apparently he was already on their sh!t list.

Hopefully that bumped one more thief mascarading as an escort off the platform 😘.

It's a shame we can't call the cops on these guys, so it's essential we police them ourselves. Good work to all involved.

[Marcel]

Whatever. I reiterate that my experience with him was first class in all respects. He was anything but a “thief masquerading as an escort.” And now I hope he hasn’t forsworn all of us because of a few. This online stuff can certainly lead to overkill…

[darkone]

On 4/29/2025 at 5:54 AM, LatinMuscleMan said:

It’s crazy how many of you will believe one side of the story and taking it as fact. I honestly shouldn’t even have to go out of my way to clear my name but it really irks me when some gays can be so vicious because they don’t get their way so they try to make up lies to destroy someone’s well built reputation. The people that are saying that I supposedly ripped them off are the people that became upset because I refused to give back their deposit after they cancelled or forgot about their appointment and then tried to use excuses about their family member dying or some other excuse to get me to feel bad and refund them. They don’t understand that by me holding their time slot and not being able to give it away to anyone else I would be losing money if they don’t show up. Why on Earth would I just take off with someone’s measly deposit and risk my reputation when I purposely attach all my socials and whole life on my rentmen profile? It makes no sense. Guys are just so butt hurt about losing their deposit for being irresponsible and not making their appointment and then being so vicious as to make up lies about someone because I held my ground and said “sorry I can’t refund you for the appointment you missed out on” I’d be happy to shed more light into each of these few individuals.

I wasn’t irresponsible I paid you over Time we were supposed to meet march 22nd after your show up until 7 pm you were responsive after that you ghosted me and blacked me on rm and my number. I stupidly gave you the whole amount for our time together before hand because I trusted you and I thought we were good and was eagerly waiting for you. If no one believes me I have the text messages showing our conversations. I don’t even need to know why. At the end the day you took my money. I just hop you feel good about yourself. I did nothing to offend you or make you mad. Don’t throw in my face the extra that I canceled if you choose to respond because I told you well in advance of that one. 
 

[darkone]

I managed to get most of the money back he ran off with if anyone’s curious. Who cares what his reasons are it’s good to know I wasn’t the only one