Hot Clients

[FaustOust]

Providers:  Have you ever had a client whom you thought was noticeably hotter than you are?  And understand “hotter” by whatever measure you judge attractiveness in yourself — any combination of looks, build, overall sexiness, etc.  What did you think? How did that dynamic, with the tables turned, affect how you went about the interaction?  

[Simon Suraci]

Yes. Very attractive clients are in the minority but you see all kinds of people in this business. People have needs. At the end of the day, it’s a job. I’m here to serve their needs, and I enjoy doing it. That dynamic doesn’t change at all, wherever a client falls on a conventional attractiveness scale.

[+ Jamie21]

Many times. The definition of ‘hot’ is fairly subjective ..which is great! @Simon Suraciis correct, it doesn’t change one’s approach. 

I’ve found that there’s no correlation between physical ‘hotness’ and how sexy they are during a session. Some of the most visually attractive clients are dull / unimaginative/ inhibited etc when it comes to performance and in those situations one has to work harder. That’s where ones approach changes.. but that is to do with the attitude of the client not the physical appearance. 
 

[SthJrsy]

I've had the most beautiful men but then have no energy or vibe with some of them. Then I have had guys that maybe arent as conventionally attractive but I have such a good time with. It depends more on the chemistry for me. 

Edited January 8 by SJrsySlut

[+ ApexNomad]

On 1/7/2025 at 10:28 PM, SJrsySlut said:

I've had the most beautiful men but then have no energy or vibe with some of them. Then I have had guys that maybe arent as conventionally attractive but I have such a good time with. It depends more on the chemistry for me. 

Absolutely!

And a sense of humor can make all the difference. If you can disarm me with a laugh, you’ve already won me over.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I suspect it goes both ways. Some of my worst hires have been conventionally attractive 9s and 10s, who were boring or really bad at sex. 

[ICTJOCK]

I think the client's attitude,  his sense of confidence and ability to communicate that confidence   I find very attractive.    

I have plenty of confidence with the clients I see,  but I am always attracted to a guy who knows what he wants from the booking and is smooth in letting me know his wants,  desires and when he finds me satisfying and stimulating.   The sex is generally awesome.

Physically I try and appreciate all.   It isn't a "comparison"  with me and my attributes,   I just appreciate what the client brings to the table.