Milestone Birthday Party, 5k Budget

[Pd1_jap]

Hello my favorite fellatio inclined friends,

This year will be a big birthday for me. Normally I would just invite a few special guest stars over to a hotel and fuck until my cock falls soft.   

However, I've been more relaxed around my peers lately. So I'm thinking of using my budget for a big sex party. 

Does anyone here have a good recommendation for a venue and how to hire dancers/entertainers for the event? I want to throw a party that everyone will enjoy and remember fondly.

I'm totally clueless when it comes to organizing parties. Also not sure if this is a good idea or not. Any and all advice is very welcome. 

Tchüss 

[+ ApexNomad]

9 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Hello my favorite fellatio inclined friends,

This year will be a big birthday for me. Normally I would just invite a few special guest stars over to a hotel and fuck until my cock falls soft.   

However, I've been more relaxed around my peers lately. So I'm thinking of using my budget for a big sex party. 

Does anyone here have a good recommendation for a venue and how to hire dancers/entertainers for the event? I want to throw a party that everyone will enjoy and remember fondly.

I'm totally clueless when it comes to organizing parties. Also not sure if this is a good idea or not. Any and all advice is very welcome. 

Tchüss 

There’s not a whole lot of info to go by here, and I think the biggest factor is your location. Some cities will definitely cost more than others, so that’s something to keep in mind. Everything you’re thinking of is doable, but you might need to adjust your expectations depending on the budget. How many friends are you inviting? And what exactly do you want out of this party?

If you’re leaning towards renting a hotel suite, you could hire a couple of escorts, but make sure they get along—ask one you trust and ask for recommendations. And make sure they know the number of guests. Keep everyone on the same page of what this is! That said, I’m confused about wanting to throw a sex party and also hire dancers/entertainers. If you’re adding entertainers, like drag queens, strippers or dancers, you’ll need a budget line for them too, and you’ll need to separate the acts, especially at a venue. Also, if you’re planning to have escorts and entertainers, make sure everyone is comfortable with the type of acts that might be performed. This right here may sound simple, but is not. 

A huge chunk of your budget will likely go towards entertainment. If you’re looking for music and a lively atmosphere, I’d suggest renting a space at an LGBTQ-friendly venue, but keep in mind that any legit place won’t allow sexual activities on site, and you wouldn’t want to do that for obvious reasons.

Just make sure to tailor your plans based on what the venue will allow.

[MaybeMaybeNot]

If you are in the Los Angeles area, there are a couple of sex venues that maybe perhaps would rent out their spaces.  I don't have a connection to them; it's just a "doesn't hurt to ask" thought.  

[Pd1_jap]

This will be in the LA area.

As for what I want to get out of this, I suppose I want to fulfill a young adult fantasy of being popular and having many friends/sexual partners.  But I'm also a people pleaser. So on a base level I want people to have fun. And just generally Carpe Diem.

I've thrown a few hotel parties in my day and I'm not keen on the idea of acting as host. 

I'm thinking a max of 20 guests, not including myself and the entertainment.

 

[+ azdr0710]

no experience here, but when you mentioned hired entertainers, rented space (not to mention food, hosted bar....), seems that 5K budget might not be enough???......I dunno......

[Pd1_jap]

3 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

no experience here, but when you mentioned hired entertainers, rented space (not to mention food, hosted bar....), seems that 5K budget might not be enough???......I dunno.....

For LA you're probably right. 

[+ purplekow]

I have been to a large number of straight bachelor parties and there are always strippers and they are always willing to do private entertainment.  At each of these, the guests paid for their own private entertainment and if that is your plan, you need to have everyone on the same page.  Escorts, strippers, guests.  If you are the one footing the bill, $5ooo is definitely note enough for 20 people.  Granted that is $250 per person but that is not likely to cover both the public entertainment and the private entertainment., food. alcohol etc.   So if you are paying, I might cut the guest list to ten.or increase the budget by at least 50%.  The entertainers are going to want a guaranteed minimum.  There are several people here who probably have experience planning such parties, hopefully you will get some advice from someone who will give you guidance within your budget.  

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

$5k won't even cover most open bar setups at a party.

I'd first figure out how many people you're covering, how extensive the event will be and go from there.

Like PK said, if this is just a come in and fuck and leave kind of thing, it might be enough depending on the talent that's there.