Providers, would you watch a porn clip sent by client?

[SometimesBi]

So as I watch (and re-watch) favorite porn scenes, I certainly fantasize about me in those scenes. 

If I were to hire a provider, specifically because I want to play out such a scene, could I email a link to him, to best explain what I seek?

Knowing all the bad stuff out there (bad links, phishing sites, malware, etc) would any provider trust such a link? Is there a better way to go about this? Even if done safely, would a provider even watch it?

For clarity of discussion, this would be a provider NOT in the scene being shared. (So you cannot just say "remember that movie you did, where you...")

[+ ApexNomad]

3 hours ago, SometimesBi said:

So as I watch (and re-watch) favorite porn scenes, I certainly fantasize about me in those scenes. 

If I were to hire a provider, specifically because I want to play out such a scene, could I email a link to him, to best explain what I seek?

Knowing all the bad stuff out there (bad links, phishing sites, malware, etc) would any provider trust such a link? Is there a better way to go about this? Even if done safely, would a provider even watch it?

For clarity of discussion, this would be a provider NOT in the scene being shared. (So you cannot just say "remember that movie you did, where you...")

You could certainly try, but to your point about bad links, phishing, etc., that might raise a red flag for the provider. They might also think you’re a time-waster, especially if you’ve never hired them before. You’re better off describing the scene in your own words or showing the clip in person once you’ve hired them and built some chemistry. This way, it feels like part of foreplay and helps set the tone, making it a more natural and enjoyable experience for both of you.

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, SometimesBi said:

So as I watch (and re-watch) favorite porn scenes, I certainly fantasize about me in those scenes. 

If I were to hire a provider, specifically because I want to play out such a scene, could I email a link to him, to best explain what I seek?

Knowing all the bad stuff out there (bad links, phishing sites, malware, etc) would any provider trust such a link? Is there a better way to go about this? Even if done safely, would a provider even watch it?

For clarity of discussion, this would be a provider NOT in the scene being shared. (So you cannot just say "remember that movie you did, where you...")

Some guys might be a bit skeptical about a potential new client sending a video with specific things he would like to do. I'm not talking only about law enforcement but also as you post as a potential scam.

I would suggest telling him what you want to do by text, and in a second session sending a video about a certain role play or specific scene you'd like to do 

Besides when potential clients are very explicit in many cases escorts might think they are jerking off wasting their time.

Edited December 16, 2024 by marylander1940

[+ DrownedBoy]

If you send a video to a provider and expect him to take the time to watch it, you should at least send a token "consultation fee."

Otherwise it does look like time wasting.

[Vin Marco]

1 hour ago, ApexNomad said:

You could certainly try, but to your point about bad links, phishing, etc., that might raise a red flag for the provider. They might also think you’re a time-waster, especially if you’ve never hired them before. You’re better off describing the scene in your own words or showing the clip in person once you’ve hired them and built some chemistry. This way, it feels like part of foreplay and helps set the tone, making it a more natural and enjoyable experience for both of you.

That's excellent advice. It would be even better if you just described what you seek and let your guy run with it... allow him to put his own spin on it so that he doesn't feel mechanical, following a script play by play. If he feels it's a bit too contrived and less organic it probably won't be as fun for him. 

[+ JamesB]

I would never click on a link sent by someone I don’t know. In fact, even if I know the person, I’d still be hesitant to do so without taking the proper precautions.  My advice would be to describe what you want your session to be like and let the provider do his job. If, by the end of the session, you’re satisfied with the interaction and are considering hiring the provider again but feel there’s room for improvement, you could view the video together, so he´ll have a better understanding of what you would like.

[+ ApexNomad]

17 minutes ago, Vin Marco said:

That's excellent advice. It would be even better if you just described what you seek and let your guy run with it... allow him to put his own spin on it so that he doesn't feel mechanical, following a script play by play. If he feels it's a bit too contrived and less organic it probably won't be as fun for him. 

I completely agree! (Everyone should listen to you - that’s perfect advice!!) I myself have never done the video clip with the provider. 

For first-time providers, I’ve only ever described what I’m into and looking for, confirmed the must-haves from their profile that are important to me to make sure we’re on the same page, and then I really just give myself (literally LOL) to the provider and to the moment. Not to sound corny, but I’m trusting myself in their hands. That’s why I’m there!

[+ Jamie21]

It happens to me occasionally, client sends a clip, or a link to one, or more frequently a screenshot and asks can you do this for me? Sometimes it’s actually my porn lol.

I agree with @Vin Marco that it’s better not to try and recreate a scene step by step. That’s too choreographed. Best to say “I liked this, something like it would be good” and leave the rest to me. 

When clients send clips it is a red flag because those that book a session when they’re horny (and with only one hand on their phone…) usually don’t turn up. 
 

[+ DrownedBoy]

3 hours ago, JamesB said:

I would never click on a link sent by someone I don’t know.

Basic cybersecurity protection. Good.