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Okay you guys I'm going to put this in context and I would appreciate if you will bear with me a minute so you can understand the level of disgust I have for this guy. I still cannot believe it. I am a cancer patient and I accept what is happening to me I have lived with it for 4 years. I have scars all over my body and as a result people don't get into that with me. Because of some scars on my face because I have brain surgery 4 years ago there are some people who can't even stand the site of me. I have lost my hair from commit the reviews although currently it is back. I am currently in Miami. Sometimes I travel to get away from all my friends back home because it's all they talk about and I am sick of the cancer conversation. So this guy came to my room and of course he wanted the money up front and I thought son of a bitch if I was his house I would have done things in my hotel and I feel like you would retaliate. Who knows. When we got on dress he asked me what the scars were for and I said well they far from surgeries I have had because of cancer. he immediately said you know what I would do if I was diagnosed with cancer and I said I really don't want to discuss it. He pressed on however. He told me he would see it as a blessing because he's on a spiritual quest. He would think it would provide him the opportunity to tell people goodbye in a meaningful way knowing that the end was near. I said I don't want to discuss it. He said I'm sensing bad energy. I said you know speaking of saying goodbye to people hit the door and get your ass out of here. So I threw him out. One other thing and I don't want to upset people this is just a matter of preference he was incredibly flamboyant. I don't get hard for that. Enough said LOL. 

The positive? After I got rid of him I heard from Lucas bull so I had contacted earlier. The man was remarkable in every situation I had the greatest time absolutely fantastic I will write more about him tomorrow. I hire guys often to tear the truth. I'm not ashamed to move with full transparency I am lonely for affection all the way I have all the best friends in the world than in their eyes on the cancer patient and I've been damned not to spend three hundred dollars on some escort or massage sexual therapist to process my emotions please dear God LOL

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8 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

Okay you guys I'm going to put this in context and I would appreciate if you will bear with me a minute so you can understand the level of disgust I have for this guy. I still cannot believe it. I am a cancer patient and I accept what is happening to me I have lived with it for 4 years. I have scars all over my body and as a result people don't get into that with me. Because of some scars on my face because I have brain surgery 4 years ago there are some people who can't even stand the site of me. I have lost my hair from commit the reviews although currently it is back. I am currently in Miami. Sometimes I travel to get away from all my friends back home because it's all they talk about and I am sick of the cancer conversation. So this guy came to my room and of course he wanted the money up front and I thought son of a bitch if I was his house I would have done things in my hotel and I feel like you would retaliate. Who knows. When we got on dress he asked me what the scars were for and I said well they far from surgeries I have had because of cancer. he immediately said you know what I would do if I was diagnosed with cancer and I said I really don't want to discuss it. He pressed on however. He told me he would see it as a blessing because he's on a spiritual quest. He would think it would provide him the opportunity to tell people goodbye in a meaningful way knowing that the end was near. I said I don't want to discuss it. He said I'm sensing bad energy. I said you know speaking of saying goodbye to people hit the door and get your ass out of here. So I threw him out. One other thing and I don't want to upset people this is just a matter of preference he was incredibly flamboyant. I don't get hard for that. Enough said LOL. 

The positive? After I got rid of him I heard from Lucas bull so I had contacted earlier. The man was remarkable in every situation I had the greatest time absolutely fantastic I will write more about him tomorrow. I hire guys often to tear the truth. I'm not ashamed to move with full transparency I am lonely for affection all the way I have all the best friends in the world than in their eyes on the cancer patient and I've been damned not to spend three hundred dollars on some escort or massage sexual therapist to process my emotions please dear God LOL

I’ve read this story before. Same tone, same vocabulary, same basic story and same scar. 🫣
 

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/117934-jasson-in-la/?do=findComment&comment=2107804

 

Posted
9 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

Okay you guys I'm going to put this in context and I would appreciate if you will bear with me a minute so you can understand the level of disgust I have for this guy. I still cannot believe it. I am a cancer patient and I accept what is happening to me I have lived with it for 4 years. I have scars all over my body and as a result people don't get into that with me. Because of some scars on my face because I have brain surgery 4 years ago there are some people who can't even stand the site of me. I have lost my hair from commit the reviews although currently it is back. I am currently in Miami. Sometimes I travel to get away from all my friends back home because it's all they talk about and I am sick of the cancer conversation. So this guy came to my room and of course he wanted the money up front and I thought son of a bitch if I was his house I would have done things in my hotel and I feel like you would retaliate. Who knows. When we got on dress he asked me what the scars were for and I said well they far from surgeries I have had because of cancer. he immediately said you know what I would do if I was diagnosed with cancer and I said I really don't want to discuss it. He pressed on however. He told me he would see it as a blessing because he's on a spiritual quest. He would think it would provide him the opportunity to tell people goodbye in a meaningful way knowing that the end was near. I said I don't want to discuss it. He said I'm sensing bad energy. I said you know speaking of saying goodbye to people hit the door and get your ass out of here. So I threw him out. One other thing and I don't want to upset people this is just a matter of preference he was incredibly flamboyant. I don't get hard for that. Enough said LOL. 

The positive? After I got rid of him I heard from Lucas bull so I had contacted earlier. The man was remarkable in every situation I had the greatest time absolutely fantastic I will write more about him tomorrow. I hire guys often to tear the truth. I'm not ashamed to move with full transparency I am lonely for affection all the way I have all the best friends in the world than in their eyes on the cancer patient and I've been damned not to spend three hundred dollars on some escort or massage sexual therapist to process my emotions please dear God LOL

I'm really sorry to hear you've been having to go through these health challenges.  I hope your treatments are/will be completely successful and that you have decades more of life to embrace.  Nobody should be put in a position where they are forced to confront something they are already processing on their own - that was very bad form for the provider.  

Posted (edited)
11 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

I would appreciate if you will bear with me a minute

The syntax was nearly impossible for me to follow. Is English not your first language? Do the medications affect your writing? If there was a name change, why would you do that?

I'm quite familiar with the physical changes caused by serious health care issues. I survived the ordeal of my parents, and now I deal with my own. In fact, the movie A Different Man touches on the issue of being rejected because of health care changes to physical appearance.

Beauty is a complicated subject, and it affects people in unique ways. I've never met a physically beautiful person in the sex work industry who had a ton of compassion for less beautiful people, especially if you hire non-professionals. HE massage therapists are not registered nurses. If your appearance is not the norm, and you want to hire someone selling himself as "handsome," there are certain things that need to be done before seeing the person. The most important thing is sending photos of yourself with an explanation of what happened. With that, you need to ask directly, "Are you OK with working with me?" If the provider says no, or hesitates in any way, then you must accept that and move on.

You can test mankind on its humanity all you want, but I can assure you, you will end up drowning in deep disappointment. If you desire better treatment from strangers, learn how to properly handle things.

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1 hour ago, d.anders said:

The syntax was nearly impossible for me to follow. Is English not your first language? Do the medications affect your writing? If there was a name change, why would you do that?

I'm quite familiar with the physical changes caused by serious health care issues. I survived the ordeal of my parents, and now I deal with my own. In fact, the movie A Different Man touches on the issue of being rejected because of health care changes to physical appearance.

Beauty is a complicated subject, and it affects people in unique ways. I've never met a physically beautiful person in the sex work industry who had a ton of compassion for less beautiful people, especially if you hire non-professionals. HE massage therapists are not registered nurses. If your appearance is not the norm, and you want to hire someone selling himself as "handsome," there are certain things that need to be done before seeing the person. The most important thing is sending photos of yourself with an explanation of what happened. With that, you need to ask directly, "Are you OK with working with me?" If the provider says no, or hesitates in any way, then you must accept that and move on.

You can test mankind on its humanity all you want, but I can assure you, you will end up drowning in deep disappointment. If you desire better treatment from strangers, learn how to properly handle things.

I cannot begin to tell you how out of line you are here. I find you incredibly disrespectful. You're telling me how I should send photos and explain myself. I don't do that because cancer is not the totality of my life nor are the scars. You Begin by asking if English is my first language. So you want to insult me from the start and then try to educate me about living with cancer. You don't know me do not ever think that you do based on a very very small semblance of my life from what I post on this website. You do not know me and you need to accept that. Don't come at me again. I hope this was clear for you. And guess what. I have brain damage. And I do pretty well for that. I have a condition called  encaphomalaci where the white matter of the brain shrinks. Before you speak to someone with ridicule which is what you did here stop and think what they may be going through of which I had already previously related you talk about how there is not a lot of compassion from providers but it will also send that would be true of some clients wouldn't it??? 

Posted
2 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I'm really sorry to hear you've been having to go through these health challenges.  I hope your treatments are/will be completely successful and that you have decades more of life to embrace.  Nobody should be put in a position where they are forced to confront something they are already processing on their own - that was very bad form for the provider.  

I appreciate what you said here and the truth of the matter is I was on a clinical trial at the University of Michigan that they sponsored and it did not work and I was taken off of it in December. I really appreciate your words where someone else here with brother insulting but Sylvia people are human. I have had an incredibly blessed life very very fortunate with many opportunities. Things are difficult now but not all 24/7. I'm going up to the pool on the roof at the hotel where I'm staying right now. It's a beautiful day thank you

Posted
3 hours ago, FrankR said:

I’ve read this story before. Same tone, same vocabulary, same basic story and same scar. 🫣
 

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/117934-jasson-in-la/?do=findComment&comment=2107804

 

Same tone several capillary Sim scar wouldn't that be true or most people sharing their experience have you ever told a story and if the story doesn't change and you retell it wouldn't you retell it exactly as it is and if it hasn't changed then you would be retelling the same thing anyhow thanks for your great sensitivity. I really appreciate it. You just don't give a fuck do you? Why would you come at me like this can I just please please in the name of God ask you do not address other cancer patients or anybody with any illness such as this? This is not life-giving distance the dance that you have taken and it says much more about you than it does me. I think it's insidious that someone has an awareness that somebody is terminally ill of which I do not present myself or believe that I am a victim I just simply have it fucked up disease. And if you don't like what I say you don't have to comment but what you could do is just simply be respectful.

Posted
1 hour ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

You Begin by asking if English is my first language. So you want to insult me from the start

It was not my intention to insult you, and I'm sorry you felt that I did.

1 hour ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

So you want to insult me from the start and then try to educate me about living with cancer.

Not insult you. Not educate on cancer. Only share my experience living with health care changes to appearance.

1 hour ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

You do not know me

I don't know anyone here. I simply read what is on the screen and respond.

2 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

Before you speak to someone with ridicule which is what you did here

I was not speaking with ridicule, and nor was that my intent. I'm very sorry you felt that I did. I'm also sorry to hear you have brain damage.

Posted
2 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

I appreciate what you said here and the truth of the matter is I was on a clinical trial at the University of Michigan that they sponsored and it did not work and I was taken off of it in December. I really appreciate your words where someone else here with brother insulting but Sylvia people are human. I have had an incredibly blessed life very very fortunate with many opportunities. Things are difficult now but not all 24/7. I'm going up to the pool on the roof at the hotel where I'm staying right now. It's a beautiful day thank you

The thing with cancer, that I've learned from friends who have been going through that journey, is that every new day brings more advances and hopefully better outcomes as well.  I think each of us needs to live with intention, and not to take anything for granted.  Life is but a blink of an eye for everyone, compared to eternity - even for those people to live to 110.  It sounds like you are doing all you can to live your best life in each moment, and by doing so, you may be the one who is the most alive compared to many of us :) 🙏

Posted
5 hours ago, d.anders said:

It was not my intention to insult you, and I'm sorry you felt that I did.

Not insult you. Not educate on cancer. Only share my experience living with health care changes to appearance.

I don't know anyone here. I simply read what is on the screen and respond.

I was not speaking with ridicule, and nor was that my intent. I'm very sorry you felt that I did. I'm also sorry to hear you have brain damage.

Thank you and I appreciate what you said here. Sometimes because we don't use our voices in the written word we don't hear the tone which can sometimes lead to misinterpretation. I also apologize and I thank you very much.

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