Question for providers

[Guest Casual]

What are some of the attributes of your favorite clients? Do they do anything in particular that you like and wish more clients would do? 
 

what’s your perfect client wishlist?

Edited July 10, 2024 by Guest
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[56harrisond]

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[Hyattsville]

I found this online, sounds like it answers some questions. Also, I asked my masseur what one thing he hates and he replied "clients talking politics." 

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Today was one of those days that makes me want to quit. I had a client that on the surface looked pretty run of the mill, over 50, over weig...

 

[LaSanta]

I prefer older clients. I don't like cheap clients. Cheap clients are a red flag. 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

For example, we can’t retroactively douche when it’s clear in the moment you want to top but you never said anything about topping before the meeting.

Ha ha yes that’s familiar. I usually say ‘next time’ and then make a note so if he books again I should be ready (and should reflect it in the price). It’s not just bottoming though, I find clients sometimes want to finger me and I prefer to know beforehand if they want to do that so I can prepare. Clients can be shy about asking these type of questions but really, it’s not necessary to be coy. I’ve heard everything. 

[Guest Casual]

Is there anything you hope a client will do or are disappointed by if they don’t do? Like, do you hope the client will touch you in a certain way? What kind of physical feedback does your favorite client provide? 
 

My motivation: I think I’m probably pretty prudish compared to most people on this site, but I also don’t want a provider to dread seeing me or wish I would find someone else.  I’m trying to find the balance of my boundaries and what providers hope will happen in a session.  Maybe that doesn’t make any sense.  

Edited July 10, 2024 by Casual
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[56harrisond]

2 hours ago, Casual said:

Is there anything you hope a client will do or are disappointed by if they don’t do? Like, do you hope the client will touch you in a certain way? What kind of physical feedback does your favorite client provide? 
 

My motivation: I think I’m probably pretty prudish compared to most people on this site, but I also don’t want a provider to dread seeing me or wish I would find someone else.  I’m trying to find the balance of my boundaries and what providers hope will happen in a session.  Maybe that doesn’t make any sense.  

Be yourself and communicate.

The provider has heard it all, no matter what you desire or suggest to do/have done to you, they have been asked about it before. So just be clear and communicate what you desire. If they can/will do it, they'll let you know.

[Kneads]

Shower before your session. A little b o is fine, I can handle it fine. Days between showers is unpleasant to work on. 

[Kneads]

Also as a sidenote...don't ask for a happy ending.  Long story, very short. Police officers and massage board agents will ,almost obsessively,  ask for a happy ending. To answer this is entrapment. Allow the masseur to offer it ,of they offer that at all. 

This is for the actual practitioners,  "accidently" brush your body against theirs. If the client flinches or pulls away, treat them as a police officer. If they touch you back, no worries, they are not law enforcement, only horny.

[+ Jamie21]

2 hours ago, Kneads said:

Also as a sidenote...don't ask for a happy ending.  Long story, very short. Police officers and massage board agents will ,almost obsessively,  ask for a happy ending. To answer this is entrapment. Allow the masseur to offer it ,of they offer that at all. 

This is for the actual practitioners,  "accidently" brush your body against theirs. If the client flinches or pulls away, treat them as a police officer. If they touch you back, no worries, they are not law enforcement, only horny.

Of course in the UK (and most of Europe) this isn’t applicable because we have a sensible attitude towards consenting commercial behaviour between adults in private… so feel free to ask for a happy ending and more. Live life, have fun.