Young Men Again Ravenous For Older Guys

[Rod Hagen]

I have a few things to say on this.  As I've told before, when I started escorting at age 26 I had clients older than my then-living grandfather.  This was not because it was "my job", after all if it were distasteful I could have said no.  I liked and like older and, let's face it if they are in their 90s as they were, and some clients are now, Old not just older. 

If asked, I wouldn't have said, and wouldn't say now at 50, that I have Gerontophilia, given that at the same time, 26, I was also fucking guys younger than me and the same age, as I do now.  However, obviously, I do...for whatever reason.   

It's not all great, is my point.  When your closest bonds are with men decades older than you, they die.  This I found out this summer, as I detailed in other threads someone very very close to me, and 30+ years my senior, died.  This is going to happen several more times.  This is not like "losing good friends" as we all do as we age, this is losing men I have a bond more intimate than standard close-friendship, and losing them much sooner than I otherwise would have had I fucked and bonded with men my own age (or younger!).  When they are gone, and if my partner predeceases me (he's 20 years older), all I'll have left are my same-age sports friends, but I'll be too old to rock climb and snowboard any more.  

Edited December 2, 2023 by Rod Hagen

[CuriousByNature]

4 hours ago, Km411 said:

I wouldn’t see an opportunity if it hit me in the face; I have no experience with it and just don’t see those social cues. Doesn’t mean I’m not a slut (it’s my new ambition) but I agree with @SouthOfTheBorderthat for me the most desired experience is with a provider; I’m looking for the benefit of their experience and professionalism, and like the feeling of being cared for in that way. And no emotional expectations beyond the experience itself.

I also would not see an opportunity if it hit me (or kissed me) in the face.  I don't think I've ever been flirted with by anyone, and nobody has made a move with me.  If someone ever tried to make a move, I would assume they had lost their balance.  And then, because I'm Canadian, I would obviously apologize to them immediately.  Hahaha.

[justa]

I'm down with being the older guy ,on the bottom 

[justa]

I'll be @ sugar bush tonight , looking for sum good dick 

[+ José Soplanucas]

11 hours ago, Pensant said:

Well I’m not surprised. You come across as a charming and generous man, which certainly many will find attractive!

Yes. I am adorable.

[CuriousByNature]

5 hours ago, José Soplanucas said:

Yes. I am adorable.

Looks like we were separated at birth!

[MaybeMaybeNot]

Now that I am in my mid-40s, I am noticing interest from younger guys.  I have been with two 28-year old guys. Had a ton of fun with both. 

I didn't have sex with anyone until I was 32. My first years of sex were mostly with guys 20-30+ years older than myself.  As a bigger, hairy guy so hidden in the closet,  I refused to share pics. It was the older guys who would take a chance. There was one guy who could hardly make it up the stairs of his condo. I had a lot of fun with older guys and learned a lot. One was a pilot, not model handsome, but he enjoyed pleasing me and introducing me to new things in bed. We started out by making out, then jumping into the shower together.  Lots of fun times when he was in town.  I hated when he retired.  

My partner is 18 years my senior. We've been together 5 years, and I am still smitten. His sexual interest has waned, so I am open to get my needs met elsewhere. He has family history on his side and takes very good care of his health; I don't think there is a scenario where I outlive him. 

I am still hot for older guys! Last week, I met a new guy at work- shaved head, square cut white beard. Couldn't help but wonder what he looked like under his sweatshirt and jeans. 

I loved learning from the older guys. I loved having them take care of my needs.