Cities with the hardest clientele, and why is it…

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Seeing this post on a different airwave in another space 🪐:

 

I feel similar about some other cities. It’s like, the phone will be going off and people reaching out: but they never manage to book. They just TAG YOU’RE IT and then run away. Or it’s a “catch me now when I’m horny and you’re least prepared, if not: I’ll contact you next time” which often means: 2 years from now.  Regardless if I charge a deposit or not (which was the whole reason of doing so in the first place).  
 

And it’s not just 1 or 2, but in DROVES. Meanwhile, I can go to a different city just 3-4 hours away and be okay. Just experienced that last week. I went the whole of October with nothing but flakes and no goes, then I finally decided to take a short trip and booked 3 within a couple days before the month was out.

It makes me wonder, is it stuff on the news 🗞️ , or something they’re hearing in church making them behave that way? Sometimes I like to watch the news in cities, and the ones with the most odd crimes (especially when often showing ethnic people) tend to be the cities with the hardest clients to book. I notice this often in cities that lack diversity or have populations equal in number to Black/White. It’s like, they say things have changed but, seems like sex work is the last place to receive it. And as it should, considered we’re still not officially decrim, despite segregation, being gay, and gay marriage have passed those milestones. 
 

It’s just bizarre. Sometimes I feel like saying to them: you don’t HAVE to look for sex workers if it’s not something you want to do. I appreciate it but, it’s neither a need for you or a need from me. It should be a mutually agreeable thing. And an understanding that a price/deposit isn’t an expression of worth or a direct attack on theirs.

And that’s what I refer to when I say: imagine one of those commenters ended up having to move to one of those bad cities either mistakenly or against their will/choice? It’s easy to see how that could equate to probable financial ruin

[Shawn Monroe]

There have actually been posts IN HERE - from providers and clients - about charlotte. So this sentiment is definitely shared. 

[+ nycman]

[marylander1940]

4 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

There have actually been posts IN HERE - from providers and clients - about charlotte. So this sentiment is definitely shared. 

No doubt! 

Charlotte is extremely flaky, maybe we should name it the "Charlotte mafia". 

I searched and unfortunately the original "Dallas escort mafia" was removed and 2 other threads are expired and I would rather not resuscitating them quoting them on here. 

If 4 guys make plans in Charlotte, half of them will cancel or not show up, several escorts told me that! They even had cancellations from guys who send a "booking fee" in advance at no request of the escort... 🤷‍♀️!

Medium size markets like Charlotte and Raleigh are a hit or miss... they have few providers and many closeted men but some trips might be good while others a failure. 

Edited November 1, 2023 by marylander1940

[Jarrod_Uncut]

13 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

There have actually been posts IN HERE - from providers and clients - about charlotte. So this sentiment is definitely shared. 

Yeah, Charlotte doesn’t even sound like a place to do *ex work. Sounds like a place to go to church, eat some soul food and sell Girl Scout cookies 😆 But the reality is, it can be a sketchy area and there’s still a lot of residual “servitude” mentality out there. My last time thru NC was in 2019. I booked one cool client in Raleigh (he sent deposit), the rest were flakes. I skipped Charlotte. Think last time I stopped there was 2017/18. 

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

No doubt! 

Charlotte is extremely flaky, maybe we should name it the "Charlotte mafia". 

I searched and unfortunately the original "Dallas escort mafia" was removed and 2 other threads are expired and I would rather not resuscitating them quoting them on here. 

If 4 guys make plans in Charlotte, half of them will cancel or not show up, several escorts told me that! They even had cancellations from guys who send a "booking fee" in advance at no request of the escort... 🤷‍♀️!

Medium size markets like Charlotte and Raleigh are a hit or miss... they have few providers and many closeted men but some trips might be good while others a failure. 

I don’t think it’s a mafia, I just think it’s like I said: something they are watching on the news, hearing in church, conversing with their friends. 
 

You can include Kansas City in that bracket as well. So much so that, I’m literally ready to leave everything behind and go. Every time I come back here from travel, I find myself in a tight financial situation…and I live here 🤦🏾‍♂️ Just last weekend I was at the mall, feeling like a million dollars after having 3 good clients. Went to a fancy watch shop, went to GNC, treated my friends to dinner. And now I feel like a peasant again because I come home and not a single client has booked 😞 

No matter how many clients I reach out to, few can give a solid YES to booking without some extenuating drama in this town. It’s borderline anxiety inducing. For example today:

And here it is now, 9:30 at night…and no word back 🤦🏾‍♂️ It’s like, it never fails. 

The good thing is, there’s still cities…medium markets that are okay. I won’t name them, but many providers don’t travel there and have no idea they exist. They usually are a couple hours drive away from the main cities that every escort and their mother, flocks to. Places like Charlotte, Kansas City, Tampa, Denver, San Diego, Portland, areas of Texas…they all have too many sex workers working, yet the people can be so uptight and STINGY (yes, I said it and not taking it back lol) that…it’s almost not worth really making trips unless you have lots of time to burn and/or low overheads. 
 

And I can even deal with the timewasters in smaller markets more because, they usually are the “you’re so hot I can’t believe you’re here” crowd. I get their curiosity but it’s generally better than the ones who seem to act as if they can call any escort, and I’m just a number.

 

Edited November 2, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut