marylander1940 Posted August 20, 2023 Share Posted August 20, 2023 I keep getting reports of escorts all of the sudden getting requests by new clients at 11 PM or even later completely out of the blue after a day with nothing going on. What time is just TOO late considering escorts also have lives and need to sleep? Do you turn off your phone at night? Do schedules change if you're on a trip or if you're visiting a town during Pride? This is directed to both escorts and clients Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution Jamie21 Posted August 20, 2023 Solution Share Posted August 20, 2023 Late night last minute requests are usually a sign of trouble. I don’t get many but I avoid them. Sorry I’m not available… However a pre-booked (> 1 day in advance) at 11pm is fine, but no later. I prefer morning bookings: 10am set the day up nicely! marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 20, 2023 Author Share Posted August 20, 2023 7 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Late night last minute requests are usually a sign of trouble. I don’t get many but I avoid them. Sorry I’m not available… However a pre-booked (> 1 day in advance) at 11pm is fine, but no later. I prefer morning bookings: 10am set the day up nicely! Smart! Maybe someone spent all day long on Grindr trying to get laid or FINALLY made up his mind about hiring late at night. Not the best scenario! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XIX Posted August 20, 2023 Share Posted August 20, 2023 I assume those wanting a 11pm hire have just come from a night out or just horny. I prefer to plan in advance personally if i'm hiring. marylander1940, Whippoorwill and + ButchAtl 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 20, 2023 Share Posted August 20, 2023 I've come to the conclusion that what my old business partner told me years ago continues to ring true... that nothing really good happens between 1 and 4 in the morning... I've probably avoided a lot of craziness by adhering to that general rule. I'm an early bird so those super late ⏰ appointments have never really appealed to me. I'm the hardest and at my friskiest earlier in the day and will "rise" to the occasion at night but not after 10 or 11 pm lol 😂 Another general rule is that I don't do overnights with people I've not met on an hourly basis first... it could be a tremendously long blind date. I do make exceptions for that rule when folks can provide a reference that I know ( it's for everyone's safety and sanity ) I think you can size up someone if you've at least met them first before deciding to go to sleep next to someone you've never met.... for those that have said, "yea but you're a big strong guy..." I say to them that defending yourself when you're asleep is a bit tricky lol 😂 I think due diligence, and this "general" rule could have helped the fellow that was robbed in Houston... is it foolproof and a guarantee? Of course not but it's a step in the right direction and one step closer to making a good decision. Generally for me, "In session" is from as early as 8 am and as late as 10 pm and it has served me quite well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted August 20, 2023 Share Posted August 20, 2023 Designate your favorites on your contact list then put your phone on DND. I'm not an escort but have been doing this for over 20 years. No more late night or too early in the morning interruptions from people I had thought would know better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted August 20, 2023 Share Posted August 20, 2023 I would never hit a provider up that late for a right now appt! First off no matter what time it was I always assume a provider needs a solid hour of prep time to be ready and that means the earliest the session would be then is midnight and that's if they texted you back asap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted August 21, 2023 Share Posted August 21, 2023 I'm not someone inclined to reach out to anyone late in the evening or very early morning, but I have noticed that some guys seem to market themselves at these times of day. If someone is logged onto a site like Rentmen and has "available now" listed, he has only himself to blame if someone contacts him at a late hour and he finds that unacceptable. If one isn't truly available now, then don't say you are. Medin, thickornotatall, + ButchAtl and 1 other 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickornotatall Posted August 21, 2023 Share Posted August 21, 2023 I never want to meet mornings..mostly late afternoon or early evening.. When I see the green mark i would assume the person is available...I see many men only want same day appointments...I'm usually out of town and like to make appointments a day or so ahead... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Ace Posted August 21, 2023 Share Posted August 21, 2023 19 hours ago, V_Marco said: I've come to the conclusion that what my old business partner told me years ago continues to ring true... that nothing really good happens between 1 and 4 in the morning... When I first started escorting in Las Vegas a thousand years ago, I would leave my phone on 24 hrs because of the nature of the town. More than a few times that paid off with late night or early morning calls, & some interesting meetings. As I got older & more (ahem) seasoned, I changed my ads to read "phone goes off at 2am." Now..living in Palm Springs, I usually clock out around midnight. When I wake up to a voice mail that came in after 2am, it's usually a bullet ducked! marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted August 21, 2023 Share Posted August 21, 2023 The new RM interface is weird when it comes to signaling availability. I sometimes see notifications that someone is available in the next six hours, but going to their ad doesn't show any indication. I normally wouldn't hit someone up out of the blue, but if I were visiting and saw someone I had been following just put up and availability signal, I might be tempted to send them a RM message. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 22, 2023 Author Share Posted August 22, 2023 On 8/21/2023 at 8:37 AM, DynamicUno said: The new RM interface is weird when it comes to signaling availability. I sometimes see notifications that someone is available in the next six hours, but going to their ad doesn't show any indication. I normally wouldn't hit someone up out of the blue, but if I were visiting and saw someone I had been following just put up and availability signal, I might be tempted to send them a RM message. Text him! Don't send him an IM, the system is annoying. If he's actually available he'll reply from his phone to yours right away or whenever he becomes available after he's done with a plan but please text him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted August 22, 2023 Share Posted August 22, 2023 At night, I wouldn't contact anyone on RM unless they're marked Available Now. And I'd mention that in the text so they don't get huffy because they forgot they left it on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted August 23, 2023 Share Posted August 23, 2023 I was recently told by a provider that they get a lot of inquiries for meet ups in the middle of the night and are frequently busy at 3 am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NyGold Posted August 23, 2023 Share Posted August 23, 2023 I don’t see what the fuss is about. Some providers clearly have no problem and even encourage night time sessions. Others don’t. A matter of preference or their own circumstances / convenience and the market accommodates it all. I’ve heard from several NY providers that a particularly busy time is 2am+ on Friday and Saturday nights. And I was reprimanded once for reaching out to someone on a Saturday morning around 10am as didn’t I know that providers would typically be up the night before and needed rest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ The Big Guy Posted August 23, 2023 Share Posted August 23, 2023 I just use the do not disturb features on my phone when I don’t want to be interrupted. It seems that providers could do that as well and add the text at a better time for them. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTJOCK Posted August 23, 2023 Share Posted August 23, 2023 I generally know my schedule for an evening and while I'm not thrilled at seeing a client late during an evening, I'm able to plan. I have been contacted a number of times, especially on a Friday or Saturday night for service. I have responded and have shown up. Much depends on the location and specifics of the booking request. I value my sleep time and the need to be dependable, so a fair balance. I can say, it isn't something I look forward to! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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